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Trash Talking
I am labelled as a bitch. Only when im mad though. When people piss me off, i snap at them but thats all. Now im labelled at a bitch but im really not. I am always nice to everyone but people like to run their mouth and say shit to me so obviously im going to say shit back. I never get into fights just little arguements sometimes. I dont know how to solve this problem..how can i let people know im really not a bitch?
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same happen to me this year people just donj't understang us, gurl, you need to just show your nice side to the people who they tell, so rumors won't look true to them, whatever is in darkness will soon come to the light
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Should it really matter? if being a bitch means that you speak your mind and don't hold back when you have to do/say something, then so be it. Besides, hardly anyone's the type of person they seem to be before you get to know them, so anyone whose opinion even matters will eventually not have bad opinions of you anyway. Still, not letting things get to you that badly wouldn't hurt, though=) I've always had a problem with getting mad easily, but once i saw my friend get in an argument with a shit-talker she didn't even know (and who would blame my friend? that girl was asking for it, and my friend's not the person to just take it), and really, it was just ridiculous. I'm not saying you should JUST turn the other cheek, but it would make the other person look WAY stupider when you show that you couldn't care less what they're saying, so try not to go crazy, that's all.
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Same thing with me. :] But I realized if I don't cuss much it akes me seem a lot less bitchy. Also if you don't talk any shit behind people's backs it helps too.
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everyone can be a bitch sometimes. but you might be labelled as one because maybe you're being bitchy a lot and you don't realize it. just try to be nicer to people, and try not to get into so many of those "little arguments." people are gonna talk shit and you're gonna wanna say it back which is fine, but really if you think about it, what does it matter what they say anyway? try not to let it bother you as much, and ignore them.
hope i helpedd good luck♥
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