LuCiouzbabii's advice column

hey u might have alot of dead ends nd they might get all tangled nd stuff...u might wanna get them cut off plus mayb 2 inches more nd then get frizzes it reeli helps nd thats tru if u do live ina humid aread

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I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.

Signed
xx CaM

well it might b becasue of the people u hang out with soo trii to hang with people that reeli dont get into that stuff or tell ur mom aboutit...xox Jessi

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what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.

bases is like the steps uve taken with a guy
1st base - hookin up / holdin hands/ hugging
2nd base - felt up
3rd base - oral
4th - all the wai

hope i helped xox Jessi xox

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i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom?

well if u alreadi have a shavor then no..but if u dont then yeah..i started shaven at 11 becasue i had hairy legs lol

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School is starting soon and that means yearbook pictures! im so nervous mine is gonna look bad...is there any way to like practice to make sure u look good or what?

dont worrie about it jusz take care of urself lol nd sumtimes practice smilin or somthin it aint reeli ne thing to get all hyped about

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my friend told me when you start to get abs you start to get a little 'box' or soemthing by ur belly button like a little pudge or something... can u tell me sum signs that running, sit ups, push ups, crunchies, lifting weights actually works!~

yeah u`ll get the box and then u`ll start to see the line form...keep workin out nd ull havva six pack! xox

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When a guy fingers you (I have lots of questions about it). Does it hurt or will you bleed? and should we make out at the same time..just, what happens and how does it feel and do guys like it when your wet and..well what should I do to make it the best for him too?
And what exactly is an orgasm.
I rate good.
PLEASE HELP!

okai it dosnt hurt when a guy fingers you its supposed to b for pleasure lol and u dont bleed unless he goes too far nd its ur choice if u wanna make out or not it dosnt matter they jus like i dunnO how to explan it ..it jusz happens

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My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body?

hey well if a guy sais that hes gonna st0p loookin at porn for you that shood make u feel speical nd u shoodnt feel paronoid becasue erri guy looks at pOrn its a natural thing u dont have to worrie about him cheating cuz its in a magazine or on a tv screen..soo calm dOnw..u guys been together for almost a year im sure he wont think ne thing wrong of u or let porn get in the wai of ur relationship xoxo Jessi

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Can too many fruits a day be bad for you. I am always finding myself picking up an orange and eating it as a snack. I end up eating about twice as many as ur supposed to. lyk 8-10 a day.

noo sweetie thats reeli healthy for you and its better then eating junk food for snacks keep it up! xox Jessi

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How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped?

hey babe..okai it depends on how ur cycle goes nd if its light or heavy..nd if ur like big or small..small girls dont bleed alot but some big girls do..but ur cherry can pop in manny diff wais..from the bike seat ..falling..walking..xox Jessi

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my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?

okai well tell your mom that not to embarris her or ne thin but u feel uncomfortable in your own house and u shoodnt have these feelings cuz u live there and he dosnt ask her nicely if she can keep her sex life a liddle secret hope i helped xo Jessi

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my boyfriend he doesn't like to do anything fun.. he's so boring!! and i went to this party n made out with his bestfriend, what should i do????

hey hun !! well leave it alone unless he finds out which he prolee will since it was his best friend but jusz tell him that u would like to do more exciting things then jusz to sit around ..tell him that hes been boring u latley nd ur jusz looking for fun hope i helped xo Jessi

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Okay i dont know why but i have this bump down there...i haven't had sex or nothing and been in any sexual activities or nothing...they kinda come on go and it kinda hurts when you touch it...i dont kno wut it is and kinda scared. i had one appears on my left side near my butt but not excatly there it's down a little from my vagina and it appear twice and now i have one on my right side. what do u think it is? i need help and i'm scared to go see a doctor because i dont want them to have show them and everything and i dont kno wut to tell my mom...PLEASE HELP!

hey sweetie i really dont know wut it can b..it like jusz might b venareal herpies but im not possitive so u shood def tell your mom so she can get you to the docter xoxo Jessi

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hey i was wondering if neone knew of ne good at home exercises 2 lose weight fast that works manly ur legs and stomach and some arms and some diets 2 go on ??? thanks

okai do crunches like before u go ta bed nd then like mayb sumtimes after u eat. for ur stomach nd when u get bored walk alot nd get ankle weights mayb nd wear them around the house nd it will tightin up ur legs nd for ur arms get the liddle weights nd lift them xO Jessi

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Heyy...i want to wear a lil makeup its lite but im in 7th grade and my mom wont let me wear it out of the house.....should i just not wear it ask her or just wear a lil lipstick?

hey yeah dont go wearin alota makeup..i startin wearin makeup in 7th grade too..jus wear a brown eyeliner nd like jus a clear lipgloss xox Jessi*

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ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie

hey sweetie okai well mii room is kind of like that..its like a dark lavender nd then we are sponge paintin a lighter lavender on top..but maybe u shood jus do ur bathroom like a baby blue or somthing or a baby pink it will lOok cute!

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OK, well for the past like 2 1/2 months there has been yellow stuff in my underwear and i dont really know what it is. i have an idea but dont think its right. and can sumone tell me what it has to do with?

*{Thanx}*

okai well maib u dont wipe ur ass good enough nd its a poop stain..not to sound gross but im serius

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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\

well if shes ur best friend u shood see how she feels about it nd talk ta her =) xo Jessi

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When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?

personality is the main on becasue u dont wanna b.f that jus wants ta go out wit u becasue ur popular or ur looks or bodii u want a b.f that will b with u for who u are..nd u want someone that can make u laugh nd that u can have fun with even if it dun involve hornee shit hope i helped...good luck x0 Jessi

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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?

when ur feelin pressure..jusz tell the guy no..serisulee no meens no..they cant do ne thing about it nd if they get all pissed nd shit they aint worth it becasue a guy that is..wont force u to do ne thing they`ll wait till ur readi and comfortable x0x0 Jessi

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