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Hey Every One i been dateing my boyfriend 1year and 2 mounts i love him so much he mean everyt thing to me i dont know what i will do with out time well i will just asked the question well here i go he is talking about getting marryed 1 day and have kids soon and he talk about have sex to when ever i talk to him an the phone i say i am ready when ever i see him he say are u ready to have sex then i well just not saying anyting i dont want to loser him he say that he well not but what should i do?

well...if your not ready..say so. speak up. if he doesn't except that your not ready, then he doesn't really care about you. I think if he really does love you like he says he does, he'll except that your not ready. Hope i helped

*~Julie~* ^0^ good luck! ♥

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my puppy keeps biting people! he's a two year old doberman pincher, and he's absolutely adorable! but he has this problem with biting. he's made all my friends terrified of him, and the elderly lady across the street had to have stitches (which i had to pay for) when brownie bit her face. (just her cheek) i love him to death, and he hasn't bitten me since he was 6 months old, but i don't know if i should keep him if he's going to attack everyone he meets!

train him. If you know he's going to bite someone, take him into a different room and do something to punish him. Especially if he does bite someone. If it doesn't work out, keep people away from him at all times. Like if your going to have a friend over, put him in a different room and lock it so he cant get out until the person leaves. sorry i couldnt be a good help.

*~!Julie~!*
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Okay, I've almost always been like this, but now I want to know if its just me, or if its a common isue. I have a hard time with grammar. I don't know when to use correct words, tenses, etc. I used to be very smart as a child but ever since... 5th-6th grade maybe? I've had difficulties. Like, yesterday... I said "I got to drove them home" and it didn't sound right... but I was thinking to myself, I don't think thats right... if its not, how do you correctly say it (Then I realized it was "I got to drive them home"). But its little stuff like that. And I often mess up on sentences. If I'm talking about a girl and a guy, and I'm quoting the girl, I'll say "He was like..." and then I quickly say "She was like...". Its like my brain isn't messing up on little things. Is this a common problem? I'm 16/f.

first of all, it's I have to drive them home...not I got to drive them home. But anyway, it's common for a lot of people. If your really worried about it, take an extra class for it. It's only for the best... :\

hope i helped

*!~Julie~!* ^O^

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how do i find my perfect look? i mean one day im wearing baggy pants a tee shirt and converse hightops then the next day im wearing a skirt and some heels. should i choose one style? or do i just wear what i want? i dont wanna look weird... im going into highschool next year and i dont want to get made fun of cuz of the stuff i wear.... thanx so much i rate high

well you should wear what you feel comfortable in. If the high school peeps make fun of you about what you wear, tell them they look like stupid cows. :) Good Luck!
*!~Julie~!*

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My neighbors enjoy loud music. They are generally good about turning it down when we ask, but lately they are obviously retaliating by being obnoxious in other ways (hollering, honking horns, etc.) One guy even came over and told my Dad that we should do our part and shut our doors and windows. Don't we have a right to fresh air? I don't want this to escalate, but I really find their loud music very rude. Does anyone have ideas of what to do without starting a neighbor war?

Thank you,

Amy

tell a police officer and im pretty sure they'll handle it. :) Well Hope i helped.
*!~Julie~!*

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OK, this may seem weird, but it's something that really scares me. Im really scared of being kidnapped. Now that it is summer, i really need to keep my window open, but what if someone cut the screen? If my parents are already in bed, I go around the house, checking to make sure every door is locked. I wanna stop being afraid. Am i being way too paranoid? HELP ME !!! I RATE HIGH

aw hun, your not being paranoid. Every person has something their afraid of. kidnapping is very serious and you shouldn't feel weird being afraid of it. Every person has worried about kiddnapping at least twice. if you want to stop being afraid, block your window with something when you open it. Your being very responsible by checking if the doors are locked. Have something loud by your bed that you can set off or something just in case a kidnapper does come you can ring it or something and your parents will wake up. kidnapping is very serious. But you seem like your handling it well already. Just don't think about kidnapping for a while. Read a book or watch a movie before you go to bed. hope i helped

*!~Julie~!*

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Whats a good first day of skool outfight exspesicaly if your going to a new skool next year!?

http://www.classiccloseouts.com/items.asp?Shopper_id=7VK7W06O19220055P2022182811&Item_ID=20317&link=FP_Special



a whole outfit for $5.99! There's also more stuff on that website. Enjoy. Hope i helped

~!*Julie*!~

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My girlfriend has lied to me several times... nothing EXTREMELEY serious, but about a lot of little things. I have threatened her with a break up, and she gets very emotional when i mention a break up. Recently she has lied to me again and i broke up with her... She is begging to get back with me and i want to be with her..... what should i do?

if you want to go back to her, go right ahead! but before you do, tell her about your feelings with her lying. my friend lies all the time...so i have the same problem. (but when i talk to her about it she gets mad at me bc shes a bitch) but talk to her about it, see how she takes it. Tell her you won't take any more crap from her and if she does, the relationship is over because it's the best thing to do...Hope I Helped


*!~Julie*!~

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i dont no why,but i dont feel "right" anymore i feel sad..and hate between this one specific girl,who talks behind my back,and betrays me,copys my every move,i have a lot of better friends,but i dont no why i feel so sad. Its like i fit the quote "sick of trying ya im smiling but inside im dying" or something like that. And i feel sad/mad when i think about think about this girl,or when shes around me. I dont no why i feel so sad! please help

you might be suffering from depression. Talk to your doctor and he might suggest Zoloft. OR you have a low self-esteem. Try to hang out with your best friends who make you happy and maybe that will raise your self-esteem. Or stand up and say something to this girl. I don't think you deserve this. :]

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My best friend and i are in the same class but we barley get to talk cause are teecher. my dad barely lets her come over....what should i do?

Get together with her on weekends. Talk on the phone. Online, go to the movies...hey, you're never too old to play mini golf! If you both have a boyfriend, go on a double-date. Have yourself go to HER house and hang out. Talk during lunch. Be creative with your friends.

hope i helped
~*Julie*~

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you know those chermicials that say when your little brother needed you and you weren't there you can just tell him that you were out getting stoned. What does the getting stones part mean?

it means you were smoking marijiuana. Getting high...you know? hope i helped
*~Julie*~

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yo like i realy want brett to get on aol, i love him and i cant call him cause my dad..:-( what should i do? i cant wait tell monday cause its to long of a time period to wait!! lol. HELP!!!
plz

what the hell would i do? well...you could invite me over!! haha. swim swim swim..dont feel alone in that because i can never find where trystan is..and at least you can see brett during school. *trystan is hotter than brett* ooh ooh!! i kno i kno! come over to my house and i can call trystan on the cell and you can call brett on my phone! boo ya! haha. allright bye

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can you help me think of a sn u dont need to know anything about me except i'm a girl so can u just help me think of a sn.

PeachyGurl

lol I don't know. ummm...how about...

GurlyGirl44

SportyGirly1234

TEENspirit ?lol.

Spiritual Guide

Godess Girl

I seriously don't know because I know nothing about you. So Hope I helped.

~*Julie*~

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i have a bf and he is the first 1 and i realy realy love him and we were walkin in the halway talkin and he kissed me on the cheek, i wanna kiss him but i dont kno when the right time is. can you please help me?

*Cassy*

P.s. please keep the fact that he kissed me on the downlow (dont tell ne one yet).

well if he already kissed you, you should kiss him anytime...try on the lips...:) im doing it with ttttrrrryyyssstttaaaannnn!! lol.

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Yesterday I was trying to crack a glow stick and it exploded in my mouth. Only a little bit of liquid came out and I spit it all out and rinsed out my mouth. It burned my tounge..Does that mean it was toxic? Would I know if I was poisined by now? Please reply quick so I will know how to treat this!

If it was a mouth glowstick, of course it's not toxic!! If it was a hand-glowstick then it might of been toxic but not to kill you. Especially if you rinsed your mouth out. Glowsticks have a chemical in them that make some people's skin/tounge ect. burn but its nothing to worry about. hope i helped.

*~Julie*~

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Hey everyone,
My sister n law is having a baby, and she just found out today that she's going to be having another boy! I was wondering if anyone could help me out, and suggest any boy names pretty much that you can think of. I already suggested about 45 names to my brother, and he hasn't liked any of them! He's the most picky person I know! I know alot of the common ones people use these days, so if you can try not to suggest some of those. Thank you so much in advance! I really appreciate it! I'll rate you a 5 if you try, cuz I'm a really nice person. :-)

Max
Billy
Brandon
Michael
Trystan
Shawn
Shane
Josh
Chris
Eric
Tyler
Devon
Joel
Benjamin--Benji :)
Jimmy
Freddy
Bobby
George
James--Jimmy
Kyle
John
Rob --- Robert --- Robbie :)
Thomas
Anthony
Jason
Brian
Peter
Stewie
Timothy
Andrew
Parker
Patrick
Zack
Nicholas
Banard


well that's all I can think of right now. Hope I helped


*~Julie*~

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does anyone know where i can get free music downloads? thanks!

limewire go to limewire.com and download it and you can get any song you want for either a price or just for free.

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Okay, well theres this guy I really like.. I loved him for a year now and he used to like me, we even went out before but it never worked out. Now my best friend likes him! So i told her she can go out with him and that I didn't like him anymore (infact, i told everyone I don't like him) because I really want them to be happy together.. he liked her too but she didn't go out with him because she knew I liked him. thats why iI told her I didnt like her anymore. Well, when I told her that, they went out, then they broke up because he didn't like her anymore.. unfortunatley.. she still loves him but I love him too and I think he likes me.. I don't know what to do! Should I tell him I love him? Should I tell her? (I'm a girl and 13 years old.)

well, if you truley think he likes you, ask him. be like "do you like me again?" and if he says yes ask him out. it wont be hard! and if he says no, ask him out anyway and see what he says. I'm sorry I don't have a very good answer, I'm running late to go somewhere. hope i helped just a little bit!

*~Julie*~

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Right now, there is thunder and lightning outside and my dog is freaking out. He is a 2 year old Shih-tzu. I'm trying to calm him down by talking to him and cuddling him but he just keeps shaking and panting and crying. He is shaking so bad it's making this hard to type. Does anyone know of a good way to calm my dog down a bit more? I feel so bad that I can't do anything else for him. =(

you should try holding him sooooo close and maybe go under a blanket or bed with him so he feels safe. If there's anything else you need, just leave one in my inbox.
Hope I Helped


~*Julie*~

Good Luck!!! :\

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&hearts &heart which is it?

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