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Question Posted Thursday June 23 2005, 3:50 pm

Hey Every One i been dateing my boyfriend 1year and 2 mounts i love him so much he mean everyt thing to me i dont know what i will do with out time well i will just asked the question well here i go he is talking about getting marryed 1 day and have kids soon and he talk about have sex to when ever i talk to him an the phone i say i am ready when ever i see him he say are u ready to have sex then i well just not saying anyting i dont want to loser him he say that he well not but what should i do?


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SmileLikeYouMeanIt answered Saturday June 25 2005, 11:58 pm:
If you are not ready then you need to let him know. If he really loves you then he will wait until you are ready. He's not worth it if he forces you into something or breaks up with you just because you aren't ready. Since you two have been going out for so long, I'm sure he will accet the fact that you aren't ready.

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TrueHope10 answered Friday June 24 2005, 12:21 am:
Tell him the truth..if your not ready your not and if you are you are.....Lieing to him will only make him mad when He finds you did

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HeLpFuLhUnNiE916 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 7:07 pm:
I personally don't think your ready to have sex, so I would tell him your just not ready yet. If he can't except that, then he doesn't really love you, and your better off without him. I hope I helped and good luck with everything! =)

*Brittany* xO

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mushoku answered Thursday June 23 2005, 5:16 pm:
First, take a grammar class.

Second, decide for sure if you are ready, and don't tell him you're ready until you are sure. When you are able to say that you want to AND are willing to AND won't regret it, then, and only then, say that you are ready, because until then, you're not.

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Julie174 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 4:59 pm:
well...if your not ready..say so. speak up. if he doesn't except that your not ready, then he doesn't really care about you. I think if he really does love you like he says he does, he'll except that your not ready. Hope i helped

*~Julie~* ^0^ good luck! ♥

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ComplexMind answered Thursday June 23 2005, 4:57 pm:
Well, he shouldn't be rushing you into things. If you tell him that you want to wait longer, he should understand. Being with you should be worth it for him. :)

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