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Hey well as you probably see I am 19 and I'm Christian (JesusFreak) and go ahead ask me something hopefully i can give you an answer thats right and ok with you. Have a good day
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i just don't know what to do! i went out with this guy and we broke up. but everytime i see him at a party or text him or whatever he pulls me back into him. like i start to like him even if i like some other guy. its crazy i guess he just has something about him that i really like. the thing is, he pulls me in, it doesn't work out and we don't talk until the next party. what should i do?
I think probably what your attracted to is all the good times you've had with him...next time you see him think about what he did wrong and how it doesnt work each time and what might help out is if you brought a friend with you to a party so you cant ditch them
this question is mostly for guys. but if any girls have guy friends or boyfriends that tell them, then this is for you too! do guys like when you have anything on your lips when you kiss them? i mean like lip gloss, lip stick, chapstick, nothing, etc. i mean wahts their preference and does anything annoy them? thanks in advance!
I dont really have a preference...but it does taste good sometimes my girlfriends usually wear skittles so it is nice sometimes...just make sure its a flavor he likes...but yeah i say overall its a good thing
i know this is cliche
but i desperately need to lose weight!
i just can't seem to avoid bad foods, and i always give in if they're around.
help!
You can still eat the foods you like just cut down and try to find the foods you like that are made for dieting...find an exercise you like...once you find one you will stick with it...I personally lost alot of weight because I love to weight lift otherwise I hate cardio...and find a healthy snack that you like whenever your hungry eat the healthy snack
my boyfriend says he loves me but he was checking out some other girl at school i don't know if i should breakup with him or not?
female
13
Checking out others girls isnt really a good reason to break up with him...what you should do is next time you notice him checking out a girl ask him if he thinks she is pretty and that will get him stuttering...as long as he doesnt act on it by cheating on you he really hasnt done anything wrong
I have a tough life and I sometimes create a better life for myself. I use people I care about or others, and I use them to comfort me. Does that make me crazy because I think about them? I make stories or illusions with them. Do i belong in a mental institute?
No I dont think so..everyone creates a fake life for them in there imagination at one point in time
ok theres this guy and we both know that we like each other, except i told him i only like him as a really good friend, but ive relized now that i like him a lot more than that and i want to tell him... but i dont know if i should or how i should.... idk but any advice would be great. thanks!
Well if the guy does like you..he will be glad to hear the change of the heart...just explain to him when you thought about it your heart told you..that you were wrong..that you do have feelings of him
I am about 5'2 and weigh 180. 14/F.
I know it seems bad but I want to stop. I eat everything. Mostly junk but I don't know why because I'm not really that hungry I'm guess I'm just.....bored. I wan to lose weight but i don't know how and my family are never home so I don't want to talk about it because I've tried and forgot so I reminded them and forgot again. How can I lose weight without them knowing that I'm dieting. Any suggestions on what to do to get the weight off, and not just diet and exercise? More specific please.
Your right when your bored you do tend to eat so first find a hobby that keeps your busy even if thats like playing video games your still moving your hands which loses calories..start eating less and drink more water...one of the easiest ways is eating celery
Ok, my boyfriend and I dont live close to each other, and we dont go to the same school, so we can only hang out, for the most part, on weekends. He is 15, and I am 14, and of course our parents wont let us go anywhere out just the two of us. And he doenst want to go to teh mall and the movies, because that is all we have done so far. And we usually go out with two other people, but we need ideas on things we can do, if the 'group' part, cant make it. SO I guess my question is: what are things we can do? His mom approved me coming over his house, but thats in te afternoon, and we are not sure what we should do. And I really want to spend time with him. HeLP!!! I need lots of Ideas....please respond
Me and my girlfriend actually prefer to stay at home...we sit watch tv and movies together..we also like to cook together like make a big lunch when were both really hungry...that way your actually talking to him not focused on a movie
Edit: I actually am in the same situation your in...My girlfriend lives 40 minutes away and we dont go to the same school...We just do simple things...when we do get bored of movies we will go driving and pick up something to eat and just talk..sometimes we also go on picnics in the summer and go play out in the snow in the winter...but since I'm guessing you guys cant drive just stick to hanging out and watchin the tv sometimes board games are fun too and invite family members to play especcially point...major brownie points
hey i was wondering
do guys like girls who are loud, or quiet?
Girls who are girly, or tomboyish?
Who wear clothes from abercrombie, or sporty stuff?
Girls who have blue, green or brown eyes?
and girls that have red, blond or brown hair?
oh and do guys think that freckles are cute? or ugly????
thanks in advance!!!!!!
Thats totally personal preference..Your not gonna find one girl that all girls like...I personally like quiet,girly,abercrombie,blue,red or blond hair,and freckles are cute
In school she is in none of my classes, I barley see her, and I can't get her aim s/n. When I can talk to her she is with a friend or a group and I cant talk in a group or anything like that. Can anyone help me on how to talk to her. Like what to say when I meet her one on one or in a group. And please just dont say you can talk about anything I hate when people put that
Most girls like confidence...start slow pass her in the hallway and compliment her on her clothes or whatever...then slowly work up the courage to start a conversation on something she likes to talk about...
im a virgin but me n mi boyfriend want 2 go all the way, but im kinda holdin dat off rite now bcause im nervous n i dunno...he said he wanted to finger me and quote "make love" to me but i dont know how that'll feel plus i would be super tight so wouldn't that hurt...i have never made a question like that so public, i feel comfortable around u guys tho thankz
i\'d also like some guys to reply to..ones who have had experience already. but girls too.
I havent had any expeience I plan on staying a virgin till marriage...however Ive heard the first view times hurt because you are so tight and becareful the may just want to use you for sex
i like this guy an i think he feels the same way
we have been best friends for like ver an i have been there for him through alot of things
an well today his friend asked him "1-10 how much do you like her more then a friend"
he said"umm i'd say 8 1/2"
well does that mean he likes me or not?!?!?
I think that means he does like you...but he's not sure that he's wants a relationship or not
I was wearing panties and sweatpants. My boyfriend was like fingering me but i had on my sweatpants. Is that still considered being fingered? I'm really not sure considering I was wearing pants.
Also I'm a bit sore right now. What's going on? (he did it about 10 minutes ago)
it does depend on how he did it..did he do it through the sweatpants if he did no...or did he put his hands down ur pants then yes....he might of popped your cherry and thats why your sore
i have two questions but if you can only answer one thatll be ok! first off im 16 and a sophomore.
1- i was wonderin how much harder are AP courses than advanced? i took 9th and 10th advanced literature and i was recommended for AP liturature next year and was wondering how much more of a struggle it honestly is?
2- im really worried that i wont survive in college. i make mostly all a's and an occasion b on report cards in regular & advanced classes, but the thing is, i dont really learn much! i memorize information, pass the tests because of that, soon forget it, but usually do all my homework, therefore i get high grades. i dont really try to do this, but it jus kinda happens. i zone out and stuff so yeah + if its not an interesting subject i just can not learn it. is that going to affect me a whole lot in college? im scared of flunking out especially since i want to try to get into a major university!
AP classes are actually pretty harder...most AP classes are made to be harder then college so you prepare for harder but actually end up being able to handle college level...
it all depends on which college you go too...community colleges are really no different then highschool...unverisities are hard...I think once you get in college you enter a whole new mindset realising this is where my future starts and whatever I do here effects me for the rest of my life..yes in college you do take core classes but the majority classes are ones geared toward your major so you wont have the fousing problem
so my boyfriends bday is next week. he'll be 17 and weve been together for about 7 months yay. anyway i was wonderin if besides his present if i also got a thank you card n gave it to his mom and inside where it says thank you or whatever put "for having such a wonderful son" or something along those lines. would that be cute or just weird lol?
It would be a great idea...Whenever my birthday comes around my girlfriends mom always rights in her card to me "thank you for treating my daughter so good" so its just basically the other way around...I should do that for my girlfrined moms next birthday..thanks for the idea
my dog who i love very much recently died and i am just wondering, according to the christian religion, what happens to animals when they die?
According to the bible it says that that the only that gets into heaven is that beings that have souls...and unfortunaley it also states in the bible that animals dont have souls otherwise it doesnt say where they go
15/f
sophomore.
Next year, I will have an opportunity to go to a college! I know I will have 2 teacher reccomendations and such, most likely everyone gets accepted.
I really need to go in order to graduate.
But...
Would a mute be able to go to college?
Uhm, a selective mute in that matter or is that just a "NO. you're disabled!1 you can't go."
I do all my work.. just obviously not presentations. :/
Well alot of disabled people do end up going to college...however presentations is a huge part of college so if you could make an arrangement with a profession its possible..i dont mean to offend you either but there are some colleges for special need students
13/f.
Ok; My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and he used to be really nice and sweet. But, now all he talks about is sex. He usually says, "Just kidding, I love you." After all his perverted comments, but I can't tell when he is kidding or not. I really like him, possibly even love. I am just wondering, how can I tell when he is kidding or not?
Also, I have had thoughts about having sex with him alot lately. I feel so bad, but whenever I see or talk to him, I get these visions in my head of us making love. Is this bad? I've always said to myself, I am going to stay a virgin until I get married but he makes me feel as if I want to give that up.
P.s. I'd like a guys view, but girls are more than welcome to answer as well.
hey..at that age all that is on guys minds are sex and he may just say he is kidding but that is what he actually wants more then likely..and yes it is perfectly normal to want to have sex at your age its hormones...but i think it is very important you wait on the decision of having sex...waiting till marriage is an excellent idea
ok. so today was really awkward. i was hanging ou with my boyfriend. and it was all fun. but then his mom randomly showed up and said she wanted to talk to me. so im like ok. so i go over to the car window and shes like oh whats going on? im like what do you mean? and shes like are you guys going out? and im like yes. and shes like ok he told me. im like ok. shes liek does your mom know. im like yes( but she really doesnt, well she does but i just didnt say anything to my mom) ok well anyways. she was like oh hes grounded. you shouldnt be with him. and hes grounded becuase he is failing 3 classes. and shes like did you know that? and im like no. and shes like yeah well he is. and i betcha dont wanna go out with a junior next year when you move on to be a senior. and shes like how old are you. and im like 17. and shes like oh hes 18. when he told me that he was 17. and born a month after me. but somehow he skipped a age. but i dont know if the mom knew how old he was. and she was like i dont want you guys alone. and im like ?? and shes like its just because i had him at a young age and i dont want anything bad to happen. and then my boyfriend gave his mom a look and shes like what i dont want her getting pregnant to. and im like ok then. and then her mom is like i can take you to the movies and drive you there and back. and you can come to my house when ever you want. and shes like i just dont want you alone. and shes like i bet your mom doesnt want you alone with boys. and im like actually she doesnt mind. and shes like oh. well your mom can call me whenever she wants to. im like ok. and shes like hes not supposed to hang out with people hes not mature enough but im giving him a chance to have a girlfriend. and im like ok. but im just really confused because he says hes had other girlfriends so im just thinking did something happen? becuase i was there for a half hour talking to his mom. and im like this is really awkward. and i mean he didnt give me a hug goodbye or naything in front of her. so im guessing he cant have PDA. im like ok then. but what im saying is is he a liar? i mean his mom embarassed him bad. and im just like um ok? i dont think his mom likes me much. but she kept saying how she doesnt want me to get stuck pregnant. so im like is he a virgin? well one of his exes was a slut. but i have no idea. and shes expecting me to be liek the mother of him. doing this and that. and this is the first time i ever met his mom. and im like uhh ok?
so should i break up with him? or? i sort of want to because i dont feel the same way about him as i used to. and thats the honest truth. but then i will feel bad because he might think its because of his mom. that she scared me away. and i dont want his mom like coming to me. and also i liked being single alot better. and i have no idea why but i sorta kinda still have feelings for my ex. but my ex hates me. im so confused.
help!
He probably just never told his mom that he had other girlfriend most guys don't tell their moms everything...I think his Mom is being over protective...I mean extremely over protective...its not his fault..his mom doesnt relise that your not her and that her son wont repeat the same mistake she did...If you dont feel for him like you did you should break it off but wait a while before you go back to your ex
Well um heres a photo of me im the one with the medium lenthg browin hair with the white head http://coookiieloove.piczo.com
band well I dont see my self as a pretty girl like others i look at the mirror adn want to break it to be honest i need help i want to know what will make me pretty what make-up honstly i just want to look at my self and say hey i look pretty today but i never do please help
you look very beautiful in that picture...I dont know much about makeup but attitude helps out a whole lot...if you feel like you look good then other people will think so too