If you have liked him for a long time, it is possible that he has felt the same way but never said anything. The best thing you cam do is just talk to him about it and be honest about how you feel. You may be suprised at the outcome. Find out I he really has feelings for you or if he is just being a player. It is very important to know the difference. If he does want to be in a realtionship with you, then he will have to prove it by letting the other girl go. DO NOT PLAY THE ROLE OF THE OTHER WOMAN. I can't stress that enough, he won't respect you the same way and you will also find yourself in her shoes down the line if you lead him to think that it is ok to indulge in that type of behavior. So, get to the truth and if it is real, get to making changes. If not, you can keep the friendship. If he is just flirty with lots of girls, you don't want to get your feelings hurt. And don't worry about hurting the other girls feelings if he does choose to be with you. If you are the one he really wants, you're doing her a favor by showing her his true intentions. Then she can find someone who really just wants her. It's difficult at first, but she will bounce back. Good luck!

You should speak to your kind of ex about how you honestly feel and hope that he is as mature as you are. I know exactly how you feel because I have also made a decision to leave someone and ended up having interest in someone else. It is difficult to get someone to understand that your choice is a personal one based on the fact they they ( your ex) just aren't right for you. It doesn't matter who you decide to see afterwards, they are just not your choice. You obviously care about him and don't want him to be hurt, so it is never about the other guy. All you can really do is try to get him to understand how you feel and why you chose not to be with him. Anyone you want to date is no longer his concern. Let him know that he will not gain any points by lashing out in violence towards the other guy. If he can't accept it, that will be his problem. Don't allow that or your happiness make you feel guilty or backslide from the decision you have made. Don't make it your problem because he will use it to try and manipulate you if he can. Guys that don't do right sometimes don't know to handle losing. You did your part by giving him another chance. If he didn't make good on the opportunity, it's his loss, his hurt feelings, and his problem. Don't worry about it. Enjoy your life, have fun and enjoy whoever you want to date. ; )

I think that cheating occurs for a number of reasons. Some people feel that there is a void in their relationship and instead of working it out with their mate, they cheat with someone else. Another reason people cheat is a lack of self control. Some people just cannot resist the temptation. Some do it for the thrill of tasting forbidden fruit so to speak. They think that their partner will never find out so, that don't think of the other person in the relationship. Another reason people cheat is because they are in a relationship with someone they do not trust. In a relationship like that, they tend to feel that they don't really have much to lose so they should have their fun. If a person has been cheated on and decided to stay with their cheating partner, they might cheat as well because of hurt feelings and or lack of trust that the other has really stopped cheating on them.I also think that people cheat when they have strong feelings for more than one person but they don't want to leave either of them. They feel torn, and before resolving the issue...they might cheat since they like both people in different ways. I think for people that are younger, they think that they look "cooler" if they are seen as a player, so those types will cheat not because they necessarily want to but for status. Lastly, some people end up in relationships that are not ready and willing to be committed to one person. Instead of being completely honest and mature about it, they may just hold on to the relationship hoping to never get caught. Once exposed for who they really are the other person in the realtionship will feel confused, hurt and betrayed.

Keep in mind that gaining trust is a process, don't expect too much too fast and be consistent. It is possible to repair things effectively but you have to stay dedicated and keep your eye on the prize in a sense. I think that a lot of people say they want to work on things and don't really realize the extreme effort it takes.

For starters, you will need to be emotionally available to this person. So for example: phone calls, late night chats, venting, shoulder to cry on etc. Always let him know how you feel about him, never make him guess. Whenever you leave your mate to draw their own conclusions, it tends to have some inaccuracies. You need to be very up front about everything...that includes your whereabouts and intentions. I know that it sounds a bit annoying, but in order to prove to someone that they can trust you....you have to show them that you have nothing to hide. Also, remember that we are all human and we make mistakes. Your boyfriend can not expect you to be perfect, but you need to be honest with him if it is going to work, especially when it is a long distance relationship as you are in. So, be honest about the good and bad. Don't try to make yourself seem perfect because that seems fake and it tends to make people lack trust in you rather than you gaining it. He will respect you for being up front and real. If he is willing to forgive you, then he has real feelings for you so you don't have to worry about them disappearing just because you messed up. You need to think about why you cheated and make a decision to work on filling any void that may have caused you to slip up. With long distance, it can be difficult but you can make the effort by keeping the contact between you continuous. You can do that thru emails, IM chats, or even something as small as a text message or MMS message with a flirty message or picture attached to it. Even if he only has a few moments to look at it, it will make him smile and you will be on his mind. Those small things will heighten your anticipation for each other. So, make an effort to communicate with him more so that he doesn't feel that you don't care (without smothering him though). If he calls you or sends you a message, return it as soon as you can so he doesn't feel blown off. As time passes, he may not forget but he will be over your mistake and the two of you can plan your future. Good Luck!!

I hate to say it, but most guys are immature at that age. You did the right thing by slowing him down and if he can't respect that, it's his loss. You are trying to be his friend and if he seems cold or standofish, forget him...it's his loss. You don't need a guy like that anyway because he would have only tried to use you to get what he wanted. It's ok to be nice to him but don't ever compromise your moral standard for a guy.... doing so will only leave you in regret. Also, if his friends don't wanna hang out with you now, they were never your real friends to begin with. Don't waste your time or energy on any of them. There will be someone who will adore you and treat you with the respect you deserve. In my opinion, you have done all you can so just leave it alone. He doesn't want something meaningful, he wants something fast.

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It usually is difficult to remain friends with your ex if you can't get passed your feelings for him. The two of you ended on mutual terms, so there is no reason why you can't be friends though. You are going to have to maintain your self control and just be honest with him about your feelings. Who knows, maybe in 6 months or even a year the two of you could work things out or end up spending more time together. If you think the two of you will date other people, set boundaries so that you are not having uncomfortable conversations about girls he likes. It's really a tricky thing, but if you are serious about being friends with him give it a try and make an effort not to be jealous. It is possible that he could be a better friend than a boyfriend to you. If you discover that it really is over, you're gonna have to move on.

I know that you do not want to see a doctor, but you really have no choice. Something could be wrong. People usually don't get periods because of pregnancy, poor diets or a tumor. You need to get checked out to be sure that there are no problems. I don't really understand why you would wait two years to see a doctor when you should be getting pap tests anually. Go get checked out, your body has begun letting you know that something is off by you not having a period. Don't ignore your body. I have no idea why you wouldn't want to see a doctor, but you will feel better once you know.

It is ok that you feel awkward. You are going to feel better and good about yourself once you begin to accept being a little different. I don't feel like I have ever really fit into one group or another, but that just makes me different as well. What sets you apart from other people is one of the most beautiful things about being human. You are lucky to have friends that actually want to hang out. They obviously like you and Probly just wanna hang out and get to know you even better. You don't need to worry about being awkward, being who you are has gotten you friends that like to spend time with you. Just relax and be yourself and you don't need to jump out of the pictures. You have just as much importance as any of your peers so don't be afraid to make your mark. Embrace who you are, love yourself and the fact that you are different. Others will find it attractive and inspiring. You could actually cause some followers to have a mind of their own seeing how you don't conform. : )

Ok,since your doctor has told you that you have a yeast infection you don't have to worry about it being anything else. You can go to your local drug store and pick up a box of the monistat. It comes in a 7day, 3day and 1day treatment. I reccomend buying the one day to just use it and get it over with. It is about $20 and it should clear up within a few days and you wont be irritated. About the cells, that has happened to atleast two females that I am close with. They are probably going to want to do a biopsy to get a better look at the cells. These screenings have become very important recently because doctors have found that some of these Atypical cells are coming from women coming into contact with the HPV(human papilloma virus). Don't panic, a lot of these cells actually clear up and go away on their own, but some types of HPV can cause cervical cancer. There are a lot of people who have HPV and it doesnt make them feel different or anything but it can cause abnormal pap tests. You may not even have HPV and sometimes they do not know the cause of abnormal cells, but they will want to be sure if they can. Talk to your doctor about getting the Gardasil shot that protects women from most forms of HPV that cause cervical cancer. Just because you get abnormal paps does not mean you will get cervical cancer, but it is important to educate yourself on the facts. Get the shot and always protect yourself when having sex. Your abnormal cells could just go away on their own in months and you will be fine. Good luck.

If you really care for him deeply, then let him in little by little. It seems that he is earning your trust back, so just give him the trust that he earns. It is natural to feel comfortable with him because you fell in love with him before. Don't be blinded this time by the feelings that you have for him, but embrace what you are feeling for what it is. If the two of you get to a point where you know that you want to be with eachother again and you will be happy together, consider yourself lucky. Not many guys change and if he hasn't time will give you that answer. I suggest that you enjoy being in this good place that you are in and take your time with it. This could be the chance for love that the two of you always wanted before but wasn't able to get right the first time. If he does change back to his old self, don't beat yourself up about it....just move forward with your life and know that you gave it your all. I know that you are nervous about letting your guard down, but treat him the way you feel he desrves to be treated by you. people never change because someone else wants them to, so if he has its because he really wants to be better for you. Be patient and enjoy, move slowly, there's no need to dive right in. It doesn't sound like he's going anywhere.

I know how you feel because I used to be shy and I would avoid parties when I was younger. My friends would never believe that now because I've become a regular party animal. If you want to become comfortable in these types of social situations you have to get out there and you will get used to it. You will become more comfortable each time you go out. Since you don't want to be there not knowing anyone it might be a good idea to invite another couple that you like to go along with you. You could even invite a couple of your own friends. There is nothing wrong with that and people do it all the time. You will have more fun. Also, be inviting to others at the party and smile and make eye contact. If they are his friends you will probably see them again so it will be good to make your first impression a friendly one. Always be yourself, don't ever feel like you need to try and fit in. It sounds like you are a strong individual and everyone has their own anxieties so just get out there and have fun, relax and be you.

Sometimes making out from your head to your toes can really heat things up. Try kissing on some other areas of the face. A gentle massage while sensually kissing is passionate. One thing that you may not even pay attention to are your hands and feet. If you lock hands and toes you will feel more connected to one another. Close your eyes and just really let go. Caution: this can lead to other pleasureful behaviors so be careful lol. Just let go and do what comes natural, it will be exciting and fun.

I have had my tongue pierced twice and it does hurt, but the piercing is done so quickly that it is over before you can really hang on to the pain. You just need to bring a friend or someone who makes you feel comfortable. Choose a focal point and try to relax. It is done before you know it. Afterward it gets sore and your tongue swells a little. After a couple of weeks it won't be sore and you will love it. You MUST keep it clean and take care of the piercing to prevent infection. There will have to be a parent/ guardian if you are not 18.

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Sometimes when we believe that something is happening to us, our minds can have a way of creating confirmations for us. You could in fact be experiencing legitimate symptoms, but it is possible that it is all in your mind. There are many women that do not have any symptoms of pregnancy and don't know that they are for months. Since you know that there is a possibility, it is good that you are aware of your body and your cycle. The best thing you can do is take a pregnancy test to know for sure. It is possible so you just want to take one so that you don't have to keep worrying in suspense.

With most people, sending a message on facebok is a casual thing. people are also somewhat lose about they add to their friends list, but I believe that he added you hoping that you would say something to him. If he wasn't interested in talking to you at all he would not have added you. Since you are very cautious with family and others associated I can understand that you want to be careful what type of message you send. If you are intereested in something serious, you should try talking to him on the phone and eventually get to a point where the two of you are hanging out. Since it has been a while though, sending him a message on facebook is a good way to start. It won't be a face to face thing, so you can relax and be casual.See what he says back and you will probably feel better. Once the subject comes up you can just explain your situation to him. Playing hard to get is ok sometimes, but if it has been a year and you are obviously making no progress, its time to try something different. You don't need to completely throw away who you are, but find a happy medium.

you did the right thing if that is what will make you happy. Being with your friends is what you want anyway. Like you said, you can see him at lunch or at other times. You would probably rather being with them anyway incase you and him have a problem and he starts to treat you differently. If you were in his class then, you would be even more miserable knowing you didn't choose to go with them. You have your best friends, so you will be fine and you will be that much more excited to see him once you get out of class.

From reading this I wouldn't say that you are abusive. Anyone that is pushed too far will react in a big way. I do feel as if your partner is too controlling. It is good that you recognize that because a lot of people will just make excuses for their partner. I'm not sure exactly why and I'm not sure my speculation would help you much, but your partner is insecure. It is very difficult to be with someone who is that insecure because no matter what you do, they are insatiable. Most of the time it doesn't work out unless the couple can come to an agreement. You feel bad because you reacted forcefully so you should apologize. You will feel better, but you also need to sit down and talktp your partner about how you have been feeling. Let him know that you will not tolerate being controlled any longer. If your partner has a problem with that the two of you will have to go your separate ways. You make sure that you are in control of your behavior and do not become violent. Tell your partner what you need and accept nothing less than that respect. He needs to respect you by giving you the space you deserve as a human, and you need to respect him by keeping your hands to yourself. If you don't try to resolve the issue, leaving things the way they are could mean that you finally get angry enough to really hurt him. So, you are not wrong, just work on the relationship.

What you are saying is true; people have to be in your network in order to see your profile. Even then you can adjust your privacy settings so that only your friends can view your profile. So, they would only see your picture, name and network. You can also, as you said make yourself unsearchable to staff of companies, everyone or just networks outside of your own. With all of the privacy settings that facebook has in place you don't even have to allow others to see your profile picture, or you can make it so that only your friends can see it. So, basically as long as you only add people that you choose or know as a friend you are fine and could be invisible if you want to be. I use social networks all the time, so I'm telling you because I have maneuvered all of the options I've mentioned above.

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