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ex and new
okay so i wasnt really dating this guy..we were kinda just talking and we had dated before and kinda just started right back where we left off and he explained to me that this time would be different and stuff..well after like 2 weeks i told him i wasnt going to date him again bc i didnt want to get played and hurt in the end and stuff and he heard that i only said all that stuff cause i liked someone else and he freaked out! he has anger problems. anyways that was sunday and today it tuesday and theres this ked that likes me and ive liked him for a long time and stuff and like we just started texting and he called me and stuff but anyways my kinda ex i guess lol heard that i like him and thinks that hes the reason i dont want to talk to him anymore and he says hes gunna beat this kid up and stuff and idk what to do to make him believe me that its not
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Tell this guy that you are over! It doesnt really matter why, if you dont want him as a boyfriend any more than thats it! tell him to leave you alone and if he doesnt get some ones help to make sure he leaves alone like a parent or big brother! you can even threaten to call the police( if he wont leave you alone or gets violent!) YOur parents are probally your best guess on who to go to first!
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You should speak to your kind of ex about how you honestly feel and hope that he is as mature as you are. I know exactly how you feel because I have also made a decision to leave someone and ended up having interest in someone else. It is difficult to get someone to understand that your choice is a personal one based on the fact they they ( your ex) just aren't right for you. It doesn't matter who you decide to see afterwards, they are just not your choice. You obviously care about him and don't want him to be hurt, so it is never about the other guy. All you can really do is try to get him to understand how you feel and why you chose not to be with him. Anyone you want to date is no longer his concern. Let him know that he will not gain any points by lashing out in violence towards the other guy. If he can't accept it, that will be his problem. Don't allow that or your happiness make you feel guilty or backslide from the decision you have made. Don't make it your problem because he will use it to try and manipulate you if he can. Guys that don't do right sometimes don't know to handle losing. You did your part by giving him another chance. If he didn't make good on the opportunity, it's his loss, his hurt feelings, and his problem. Don't worry about it. Enjoy your life, have fun and enjoy whoever you want to date. ; )
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