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Member Since: November 8, 2008
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Last Update: November 13, 2008
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alright so i havent actually KISSED a guy before. weird thing is, i've made out with two? i'm definately not a whore i am 18 years old. but anyways i know how to do like a peck kiss, it's like kissing someone in your family but how to you do the one where your mouth is somewhat open and so are your lips. how do you know if the guy wants to make out or do a kiss like this? don't tell me, "it comes natural" because for me nothing does. i just don't really know how people do that? any explinations or tips would be very helpful, thank you. (link)
french kiss the guy first then if he wants to make out go for it! the kiss usually comes first then the making out part!


okay so i wasnt really dating this guy..we were kinda just talking and we had dated before and kinda just started right back where we left off and he explained to me that this time would be different and stuff..well after like 2 weeks i told him i wasnt going to date him again bc i didnt want to get played and hurt in the end and stuff and he heard that i only said all that stuff cause i liked someone else and he freaked out! he has anger problems. anyways that was sunday and today it tuesday and theres this ked that likes me and ive liked him for a long time and stuff and like we just started texting and he called me and stuff but anyways my kinda ex i guess lol heard that i like him and thinks that hes the reason i dont want to talk to him anymore and he says hes gunna beat this kid up and stuff and idk what to do to make him believe me that its not

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Tell this guy that you are over! It doesnt really matter why, if you dont want him as a boyfriend any more than thats it! tell him to leave you alone and if he doesnt get some ones help to make sure he leaves alone like a parent or big brother! you can even threaten to call the police( if he wont leave you alone or gets violent!) YOur parents are probally your best guess on who to go to first!


F/20

I have very low self esteem. I constantly think I'm ugly and I can't seem to believe what my boyfriend says. He thinks I'm beautiful. Even if other people say something of that sort, I don't consider it.

I know beauty is in the eye of the beholder but my nose is a little too large for my face. And studies have shown people like proportional, symmetrical, small noses, and all that good stuff because it reminds them of youth.

And when I see the people my boyfriend used to like, I want to look like them. But it's impossible. It doesn't help that my boyfriend occasionally makes comments about the girls on TV. It makes me feel even worse. And I've told him all of this a couple of times before.

It's just I don't want him to say things when I'm right next to him. I'd rather to not know at all.

I just don't know what to do. I don't want to care about how I look anymore but it probably will never happen. (link)
I have really bad self asteem too! I know what your going through! This is going to sound lame but, If you say to yourself over and over again ( I am beautiful, I am beautiful, I am beuatiful) after awhile you start to think that way! Its a trick of the mind! try if it doesnt work after a couple months then try it a little longer and if still it doesnt work just know if all these other people keep saying your beautiful than you really must be, why would all those people say it if they didnt mean it! Also If you think your beautiful why does it matter what other people think? It's your body and your life live it how you want to!


Fourteen\Female.
I have been through every stage a curly haired person goes through. The little toddler, never taking care of her hair, so my Mother went to a hair salon and got it cut to my EARS. So everytime it hit an 'awkward stage' I'd have it cut short. Well I'm done with the poof. From like 11-13 years old I wanted straight hair, the grass was most deffiently greener on the other side. Well now I love my curly hair. I've been told it captures my personality perfectly and Im tired of spending hours straightening it, and killing it. Im done with all the time.
I want a quick way to style my uber curly hair. Length is like just barely touching my shoulders, and it will be getting longer. The longer it is the more it weighs down which is exactly what I want. My skin tone is really red, so I can't go like blonde with coloring but I want a change. From my years of straightening my hair is damanged, and ergh bothering me. But I want my curls.
At the moment Im on Naturally Curly.com but if anyone has some life products they use for there own curly hair and can't live without it I wanna know them.
MONEY IS AN ISSUE.
I can't spend a lot of money and I wanna be able to go to like Wal-Mart lol. but if there is something at the salons Im willing to go there.. I guess =]]
Any Help!! (link)
I have had the same problem! I hated my curly hair! I used a straightening iron and now my hair is ruined! anytime I brush it my hair gets "Puffy" so I used a hot oil hair treatment...It was really easy and fast and after a while my hair looked " normal" If that doesnt work....stay in conditioner works great too! and if you use just a little bit of gel at night ( just enough to calm your hair down without it drying and hardening) and put your hair in a bun, in the morning your hair will be shiney and natural looking!


I hope I helped!

Emily


I just found out that my ex boyfriend wants to get back with me. Im so confused becasue my mum doesnt agree with me getting back with him and my dad absolutely wants to kill him because he hurt me before. He dumped me for a girl id known for about a week and was his ex girlfriend. The thing is for some weird reason i do still like him a lot and somehow i have forgave him. It all started off on a rocky patch anyway because of the age difference. We started going out when he was 15 and i was 12, then 3 months later he turned 16 and i stayed twelve. I did turn thirteen two months after that but on my birthday he left me. I dont get it. He says he always thinks of me and that he has had 3 sex dreams about me in the past week alone!!!!! I am 13 now and he is 16. Yesterday he asked me for a hug and when i huggedd him he pulled me onto the sofa so that i was laying on top of him with my head on his chest and he said that he loved me, i could tell by his voice that he was deadly serious. And I said that i loved him. First of all i would like to ask if you have nay advice on getting back with him. Yes or no? And please please please can you give me some advice on how to tell my mum and dad without them going mad and saying that im not going to see him. I want to put it across as im going out with him mum but can you please let me get on with it and be by my side in case it goes wrong because that is all i want, i dont want a lecture. At one point he did mean a lot to me and im trying to make it work again. Please help. (link)
First of all you are only 13 years old and since he has been having sex dreams and has been saying he loves you and all of that stuff you should leave the guy! He probally is going to wind up getting you pregnant and He is just lying to get that to happen. Listen I know that you probally dont want to hear this but I know some really close friends that this has happend to... I am 13 and I am warning you that this guy is probally really bad news! He already left you on you'r birthday for some other girl....how could you let that go? I know this probally seems like is so cute and you love him and he is so perfect and that nothing could wrong but there is and it probally will! Please take this Advice because It might change your life and I really dont think you want to end up pregnant at you'r age either! You'r parents are right and I'm sorry that they are because I know what it feels like to have a guy say and do things like that to me! Stick to a guy you'r age and dont hang around this alot! Dont let this guy take advantage of you and reck you'r life by getting you pregnant!




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