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i told my best friend's crushes's best friend that i liked his best friend [my best friends crush] so most likely he told him that i liked him. But the thing was I wasnt serious but I just dont care if they think I am. I know my best friend would kill me for saying that i liked her crush but at the same time i dont care because she has a boyfriend.. so she needs to get over this guy. I really dont like him but I could just see myself with him which is apart of the reason why i dont care if he thinks that. Would it be wrong in your opinion if I went for this guy? Or what do you think i should do about the whole situation? (link)
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I think that, if you are single and he is single and you both really like eachother. Then whatever you decide to do is fine. If your friend was really a friend, she wouldnt have a negative opinion. If she is not willing to finish with her boyfriend for this other guy, than she doesnt want him enough. I would say, if you are really serious about this guy, then talk to your friend in the easiest way you can and explain to her how much you like him. If you think that your friend would be too angry and you could lose her over this, then dont say a word. No man is worth losing GOOD friends over. Assess your friendship first, then decide how you really feel about this guy. Good luck! :)
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16/f What are some ways to be a tease a guy without being really slutty? and would you consider a tease and a flirt kind of the same thing ? If not, which do you think is better to be ? (link)
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Definately better to be flirt rather than a tease. If you tease someone without really knowing them, you could get yourself in alot of trouble! so watch what you are doing and who with ok.
Nothing wrong in flirting, as long as you dont step on anybodys toes or come across as too 'pushy'. Best way to attract the attention of a guy that you like, is to show interest in the things they like, what they do, their friends and interests e.t.c. Smile, look them in the eye and be there for them as a friend. Whilst doing all these things, they will become more and more attracted to you as a person. And there you go, best of luck hunni :) x
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What do you think is a good hair for a girl with karamel colored skin.
Rite now I have a lot of colors in my hair.. for the most part its dark.. it has brown black some blonde and orangish colors. But i want to dye it a different color now.. what color would look good. Pics would be helpful. (link)
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I cant tell you which colour wouold suit you best, no matter waht colour your skin is, it all depends on how you wear it, what it does to your confidence and also to suit your personality. I know this sounds silly, but until you have found the one you love, you will always be undecided. I would be really careful though, if you have dark and red in your hair and you go lighter, it will most likely have a yellowish/orange tint to it and no-matter what coulour you dye it you will always see them through the colour. I recently dyed my hair a grape-red colour which was a HUGE dive for me as i am blonde. I have never had a better colour! it makes me look so healthy, even on bad skin days! BUT i did need a new wardrobe though! :D
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okk.
This guy (lets call him seff) Seff likes mee.
And i like him too.
And so my friend asked him out for mee.
He said noo because he didnt know mee.
And i need questions to get to know himm..
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I agree. Try and 'relate' to him, talk about the things you BOTH have in common, after all, you wouldnt want to start out on a one-sided relationship would you?. If you dont have much in common like school/friends e.t.c.. then one of you needs to make the first move in making a date or doing something together. And from there you will both have the opportunity to talk and share likes/dislikes. Good Luck! :)
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In my honesty box (an application on facebook), a guy wrote 'HOLLAAA' - can anyone tell me the meaning behind this? What is the point of writing that? Haha thanks. (link)
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Hey, well Holla is as if he were whistling at you or giving you a compliment on your sex appeal i spose.
Not much point, but after all, its a 'guy thing' lol.
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i had this guy over. funny story. i was trying to make macaroni and cheese, yes i've never made it by myself before. well i ended up spilling water all over myself and so i took my shirt off and was in my bra, no big deal to me. my parents were gone at the moment. well the garage was open so i couldn't hear my parents come in. i just never put a shirt back on and we were in my room like cuddling and all of a sudden i heard my dads voice coming upstairs i was like OH CRAP and i tried to grab a sweatshirt from the ground quick and as i was doing it, i look over and saw my dad standing there staring at me. i knew i was caught, so embarassing and he was like whose here? and i told him. and then that was it. well when this guy left my dad comes and talks to me and was like what were you doing with him, with your shirt off? and i was like i spilled on myself and i was changing! and he was like yeah okay, he was like i don't care if you mess around with him, just be smart about it (awkward) so now when i see him i'm going to feel SO weird, and its going to be awkard because i think he knows what really was going on. i don't know what to do.
17/f by the way (link)
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So, you are 17 eh? Well to be honest, it sounds to me like the issue is with your dad, not with you. As a parent myself i can relate to the 'awkwardness' of the situation and how your dad may be feeling...after all, you are his 'baby'. The thing is, it was probably a better thing that your dad had this encounter, as much as you are finding your way and developing relationships/sexual relationships, your dad is also developing new skills to be able to 'let you go'. If there is still an awkward atmosphere then, like i said, it will only be on your dads terms because he is feeling incomfortable and dealing with the fact that you have now grown up. Dont be embarrassed about what happened ok, it is a natural process and we all get into situations like this at some point! Just BE CAREFUL! consider your parents and their feelings, especially when under their roof and all will be fine. x
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Ok this guy played me silly and i believed the stuff he said. He liked the girl who i thought was my friend and she liked him. He had told me that he didn't like her. But he started sayin a lot of mean things about me calling me names and other stuff. He claimed he wanted to go out with me but i don't really know. Anyway he knew I still had feelings for him(we dated last year my parents broke us up) and he said he ha them for me. But i don't like him anymore because he LIED. The girl I was talking about has a boyfriend as of yesterday and I believe he doesn't know yet. I know it sounds mean but I am so glad she did it because he can see how he told me stuff like she told him stuff that wasn't true. But I am wondering do you think he will come back to me because now I just made the cheering squad and that boost my status at my school. So will he try to come to me now. I don't want him i just want him to suffer. But am i wrong for wanting that even though he did that to me and i gave him a chance and he didn't use it. And will me being a cheerleader make him come back? If so I want to crush him. Sorry but am i wrong? And what should I do I mean he should've took the chance i gave him, right? (link)
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He obviously does not know what he wants. It does sound as if he is just too immature to know exactly what a relationship is. I wouldn't worry your head about it to be honest, it sounds like you can do alot better for yourself. Oh and another thing... work on your self-confidence! once you feel happy with who you are as a person and learn to respect yourself, then others will start to respect you also. Best of luck with the Cheer squad! Hope it helps with your self-asteem i really do. x
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