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so embarassed, dad caught me..
i had this guy over. funny story. i was trying to make macaroni and cheese, yes i've never made it by myself before. well i ended up spilling water all over myself and so i took my shirt off and was in my bra, no big deal to me. my parents were gone at the moment. well the garage was open so i couldn't hear my parents come in. i just never put a shirt back on and we were in my room like cuddling and all of a sudden i heard my dads voice coming upstairs i was like OH CRAP and i tried to grab a sweatshirt from the ground quick and as i was doing it, i look over and saw my dad standing there staring at me. i knew i was caught, so embarassing and he was like whose here? and i told him. and then that was it. well when this guy left my dad comes and talks to me and was like what were you doing with him, with your shirt off? and i was like i spilled on myself and i was changing! and he was like yeah okay, he was like i don't care if you mess around with him, just be smart about it (awkward) so now when i see him i'm going to feel SO weird, and its going to be awkard because i think he knows what really was going on. i don't know what to do.
17/f by the way
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I'm going to echo Thelaura.
Your parents arent stupid. How do you think you got here? I guarantee your parents didn't just have sex once each time they wanted a kid. Scary and disturbing to most people (I have no clue why) but your parents are sexual people too.
This isnt a big deal. It'll be awkward for a while. That depends mostly on you, because your father apparently isnt that worried about it.
As much as parents usually want to believe their kids can be innocent forever, most eventually come to terms with it. Your father knows you're going to have sex, he knows you're going to do things with guys. It sounds like he's relatively prepared for it, and its about time to come out of denial that your parents see you as some perfect innocent flower who would never, ever let a guy touch her.
Don't do anything about it. If you want to talk about it, go talk to him. If not, just deal with the awkwardness until it goes away. If you can't get over it, then you probably should go talk to him about it at some point.
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I actually think your dad was pretty cool about it and handled it well. He knows you're growing up now, so was just reminding you to be careful and mature about things.
Think about how much worse it could have been.. He could have kicked up a huge fuss in front of your guy friend.. THEN you would have had something to be embarrassed about!
After a little while, you won't feel so weird about what happened and you'll both gradually forget. Don't be awkward around your dad, just be yourself about it and don't mention it again.
I promise it won't be so bad after a little while - don't think you're the only one who's got yourself into these funny situations :)
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So, you are 17 eh? Well to be honest, it sounds to me like the issue is with your dad, not with you. As a parent myself i can relate to the 'awkwardness' of the situation and how your dad may be feeling...after all, you are his 'baby'. The thing is, it was probably a better thing that your dad had this encounter, as much as you are finding your way and developing relationships/sexual relationships, your dad is also developing new skills to be able to 'let you go'. If there is still an awkward atmosphere then, like i said, it will only be on your dads terms because he is feeling incomfortable and dealing with the fact that you have now grown up. Dont be embarrassed about what happened ok, it is a natural process and we all get into situations like this at some point! Just BE CAREFUL! consider your parents and their feelings, especially when under their roof and all will be fine. x
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