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Will he want me?


Question Posted Sunday November 9 2008, 12:16 am

Ok this guy played me silly and i believed the stuff he said. He liked the girl who i thought was my friend and she liked him. He had told me that he didn't like her. But he started sayin a lot of mean things about me calling me names and other stuff. He claimed he wanted to go out with me but i don't really know. Anyway he knew I still had feelings for him(we dated last year my parents broke us up) and he said he ha them for me. But i don't like him anymore because he LIED. The girl I was talking about has a boyfriend as of yesterday and I believe he doesn't know yet. I know it sounds mean but I am so glad she did it because he can see how he told me stuff like she told him stuff that wasn't true. But I am wondering do you think he will come back to me because now I just made the cheering squad and that boost my status at my school. So will he try to come to me now. I don't want him i just want him to suffer. But am i wrong for wanting that even though he did that to me and i gave him a chance and he didn't use it. And will me being a cheerleader make him come back? If so I want to crush him. Sorry but am i wrong? And what should I do I mean he should've took the chance i gave him, right?

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karenR answered Sunday November 9 2008, 11:10 am:
Seems to me you broke up because of your
parents a year ago. Probably an embarrassing
thing for a guy. So I don't understand why
you feel the need to get back at him. He
is perfectly free to date and talk to whomever
he wants to. So in all honesty having feelings
for you don't matter if your parents are going
to send him packing. I doubt he will try dating
you again because guys don't like dealing with
parents who don't like them.

Forget crushing him and move on. You don't
need that reputation.

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Beebop_lovels answered Sunday November 9 2008, 7:42 am:
He obviously does not know what he wants. It does sound as if he is just too immature to know exactly what a relationship is. I wouldn't worry your head about it to be honest, it sounds like you can do alot better for yourself. Oh and another thing... work on your self-confidence! once you feel happy with who you are as a person and learn to respect yourself, then others will start to respect you also. Best of luck with the Cheer squad! Hope it helps with your self-asteem i really do. x

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