Question Posted Saturday November 8 2008, 11:47 pm
i told my best friend's crushes's best friend that i liked his best friend [my best friends crush] so most likely he told him that i liked him. But the thing was I wasnt serious but I just dont care if they think I am. I know my best friend would kill me for saying that i liked her crush but at the same time i dont care because she has a boyfriend.. so she needs to get over this guy. I really dont like him but I could just see myself with him which is apart of the reason why i dont care if he thinks that. Would it be wrong in your opinion if I went for this guy? Or what do you think i should do about the whole situation?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Sunday November 9 2008, 8:22 pm: I don't think it would be wrong if you did go for this guy. I think its fine. If your friend has a boyfriend and likes this other guy and has a problem with you going out with him then something is wrong there, obviously. I think you should talk to your friend about this. Trust me, you don't want to lose friends over a guy that may not be there for that long. Friends last longer. So you need to think about what you are going to say, or if you are going to say anything at all. I don't your friend so I wouldn't know what would be right to do. I hope everything goes well for you! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
Beebop_lovels answered Sunday November 9 2008, 8:13 am: I think that, if you are single and he is single and you both really like eachother. Then whatever you decide to do is fine. If your friend was really a friend, she wouldnt have a negative opinion. If she is not willing to finish with her boyfriend for this other guy, than she doesnt want him enough. I would say, if you are really serious about this guy, then talk to your friend in the easiest way you can and explain to her how much you like him. If you think that your friend would be too angry and you could lose her over this, then dont say a word. No man is worth losing GOOD friends over. Assess your friendship first, then decide how you really feel about this guy. Good luck! :) [ Beebop_lovels's advice column | Ask Beebop_lovels A Question ]
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