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I am 5'2 I have long blond hair. I'm tan and I love the beach. I work at abercrombie and fitch in savannah georgia. I love to help people with their problems. So if you need advice just ask me!
I AM A BIG PARTY GIRL..... I love guys...well i should say my boyfriend. we have been together for six years now. and everything that comes along with that....anywho...If y'all have msn add me....I love my sports to death. I love hangin around with my friends when i have time and I love going to school. I know its weird but i dont have to do much work so its all good.

advice

Everythings set
No ones home
Liquid on me like a net
Making this dome

Im not turning back
This worlds just not for me
Im starting to pack
I know you wish I could see

This river makes a maze
Up towards me
Im so afraid of this blaze

It flickers in the dark
I dont want to let it go
On my fingers its leaving a mark
But its ok because no one will know

Its falling
I close my eyes
I hear my mom calling
I realize i dont want to say good-bye

I jump up and run so fast
Flames
They all pass

Im almost to the door
But its to late
I fall to the floor
I dont want this to be my fate

I screamed so loud
My bodies burning
Wraping around me like an orange cloud
My skin is turning

I stop breathing
I am almost gone
My bodies seething

My brain stops
Its all over

I finished the plan
My ashes they'll keep in a golden pan

And everyone will see
They'll know i commited a sin
They thought it could never be
I tried, but the flames, they always win

Omg dude that is awsome. I love it. On a scale 1-10 i give u a 10.

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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx

Omg girl....First off you have so many ppl that care about you. And your new friend cant be ur true friend if she doesnt stop you from doing it. She needs help too so she couldnt help you. Do you think that your dad would want you to do this. Your lying to your mom and you shouldnt do that. She loves you very much and it would kill her if you died from this. You ruining your body by doin this also. Get some more help PLEASE. If not for you or any of your friends for your dad. I was reading about this the other day on the internet. Go to this site http://www.vinland.org/scamp/institute/dsh.html
I thought it was pretty good. You have so much to live for you wouldnt want to die now. Remember you have so many ppl that love you. If you need me I will be here. You can email me or I have msn messenger you can talk to me there.
My email and my msn is lover_lovesu@hotmail.com
xoxo Megan xoxo

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my family is very racist and very controlling when it comes to mixed relationships and recently i started goin ot wit an 18 year purtirican/black guy. i am italian/mexican and im 14 my family stilll does not no and i dont no what i should do bout this i wanna be with him but i dont want my family to disown me at all. what should i do ?

My family used to be the same way. My aunt is white and my uncle is black. Well I think you should talk to your parents about it and tell them that you are dating him. Ask them to just give him a chance and thats all you can really do. It will probably take them a long time to get used to this but they will get used to it. You shoulnt not date someone cause of what your family thinks cause this guy could be a very good person for you. Hope I helped. Good luck!

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I don't really do that well on tests and I try an study an hour the night before tests. What are some things to help me score higher on tests?

Well you should start studying like 2 days before the test listen exta carefully in class. When your at home studying turn everything off dont listen to music or watch tv and if the phone rings dont answer it or any of ur phone calls. Ask your parents to please not interupt u. Take notes. Hope I helped

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Alright my boyfriend and i have been on and off for almost a year..hes changed alot..we have been going "steady" for 4 months now he sayd he loves me but i dont belive it..he has hurt me so many times and the only thing that makes me believe it just a little is i said if u love me you'll quit smoking pot..and hes been clean for 2 months now and i was not doing it to be a bitch but i did it b/c he is always on trouble with the cops and now hes on probation for 3 years..i just wanna know if i should believe him when he tells me..hellllpp pllz!

Of course you should believe me. If he gave up pot for you then I think he really does love you. That is something that most guys will leave girls for. Tell him how u feel maybe he can change your mind. I hope y'all work out. Good luck

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ok..i've just started talking to this guy on the internet and my friends have told me good (: things about him and im really starting to like him..but he has a grl friend and shes younger than me..how do i give him hints that i like him but i still want him to know i respect that he has a grl friend?

You should just tell him that you like him, but you respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and your not trying to break them up. Good luck

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I have a boyfriend who I love sooo very much!! I wouldnt do anything to hurt him! I have a few good guy friends who I ONLY talk to on the internet because my bf doesnt like me hanging out with them. Well, one of my friends asked me to go to a party with him tonight or we could go to the mall another night. I'm not sure I should because I think my boyfriend would be mad! What should I do? And if I shouldnt hang out with him, how do I say no without saying my boyfriend wouldnt want me to. He always says "F*** your stupid boyfriend" :-/ Thanks for the advice!!

Well first of all if your boyfriend doesnt trust you around your friends he isnt much of a boyfriend. And I can see why your friends say that because your putting him before your friends. You friends will always be there but your boyfriends will only be there for a little while. Talk to your boyfriend. Maybe he could go do something with you and your friends to get to know them so he will trust you more.

OK well first of all i was just trying to help cause i have been there before. So when all ur friends fuckin stop talkin to u dont come cry to all of us bitch.

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i'm starting to get some things ready for back to school. i'm gonna go clothes shopping soon at the mall and I want some really great clothes to "wow" everyone at school. anyone know where to get cool clothes??

I love shopping it's so much fun and I always end up spending way too much money anyway i get my clothes from.

Abercrombie and Fitch
American Eagle
Gap
Wet seal
Hollister
Rave
Pac Sun
The limited
Its fashion
lane bryant
Cato
Express
Thats all i can think of now
Good luck on finding clothes HAVE FUN!!

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ok i dunno if i like this poem i wrote can you guys help me

Checking my pulse:
checking my pulse
trying to see if i'm alive
as i lay here
me sweat making my hair stick to my face
my heart pounding
my stomach spinning
checking my pulse
becuase i just told you
how i feel
i feel as if i've been lifted away
into a world unknown to me
into a world lead by you

It was a little stange and I didnt really get what you were talking about but its a good poem.

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me n my boyfriend are going to different highschools and i really think hes going to find someone new... What should I do? should i dump him...or what? its going to be really hard

No you shouldnt break up with him. If y'all really like each other then he will not want to find someone new. Yeah girls will flirt with him and try to mess with him just cause he is a guy and they know he has a girlfriend in another school. I always date guys from other schools and I never have any problem except for other girls trying to flirt with my man. Just let everyone know that he is your and no one can take him from you. Hope I helped....GOOD LUCK!!!

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I like this guy..and i have known him for years..and he was dating one of my friends for a year and half..they broke up and now i like him i have been hanging out with him like everyday for the last month and i really really like him..he is everything i like..nice..funny..nice body:)..lolz..i told him i liked him and he also says he likes me 2...but i feel really bad if i were to go out with him...What do i do????

Well first of all you should talk to your friend that went out with him and make sure she is ok with it because u wouldnt want to ruin a friendship over a boy. If she is ok with it then you should be extra flirty with him and if yall do go out dont talk about him as much in front of your friend as you would anyone else. Hope I helped. Good luck!

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Hi, I am Noni and my family hates my boyfriend. Only because he dresses gothic. I mean, he believes in God though. Anyways, I really like him, and he really likes me. My mom refuses to let me call him, e-mail him, and all. He is really sweet. And everyone thinks I should break up with him because he is going to high school, and I'm only going to 7th grade. And I am 13 and he's nearly 15. I am 13 and a female. What should I do?

You should ask your parents to give him a chance. Then invite him over for dinner or something one night and y'all can sit down with ur parents and talk. If you really like him then talk to your parents if after they still dont accept him really talk to them. They are your parents and they do have a right to tell u that u cant see someone at ur age. He is going to high school and ur only in the seventh grade. It will cause some problems but u will get through them. Hope I helped and good luck!

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