I like this guy..and i have known him for years..and he was dating one of my friends for a year and half..they broke up and now i like him i have been hanging out with him like everyday for the last month and i really really like him..he is everything i like..nice..funny..nice body:)..lolz..i told him i liked him and he also says he likes me 2...but i feel really bad if i were to go out with him...What do i do????
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:45 pm: Talk to your friend - find out how she would feel if you two ended up dating. I had a club going at one point, and our main rule was "your sister before your mister" and we stuck to it.
If your friend would be bothered by it, decide which is more important - your friendship with her, or your possible relationship with him.
The final decision is yours, just talk to your friend first and find out what's going on in her head. Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
MissVuitton325 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:32 pm: I have three words for you...
1) Follow
2) Your
3) Heart
I know it sounds corny and cliche but if you know in your heart that you really want to be with him, I say go for it. First though, explain to your friend how you feel, but don't let her response persuade your decision to have a realtionship with this guy on a more boyfriend-girlfriend level. Things like this take time and once you weigh the pros and cons of the situation, you'll know what to do. Not very helpful I know... just listen to your heart, I cant give much more advice than that. Good Luck, Hun
QTPNic answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:25 pm: Well talk with that friend n see how she still feels about the guy..if she has no feelings for him ask her if she minds you going out with him. if not then you have no problems..i think everything will turn out. [ QTPNic's advice column | Ask QTPNic A Question ]
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:22 pm: I agree with Hotblonde123! You definitly need to check with your friend to see if she would mind you dating her ex-boyfriend. Most likely she will mind and not tell you. If you are really good friends with this girl, dont hurt the friendship over a boy! If this boy is more important to you, then I say follow your heart and go for it!! If you decide to date him, dont be rude to her and dont talk about him around her. It might hurt her feelings. Good luck hun!
Hotblonde123 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:20 pm: Well first of all you should talk to your friend that went out with him and make sure she is ok with it because u wouldnt want to ruin a friendship over a boy. If she is ok with it then you should be extra flirty with him and if yall do go out dont talk about him as much in front of your friend as you would anyone else. Hope I helped. Good luck! [ Hotblonde123's advice column | Ask Hotblonde123 A Question ]
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