theres this boy that i kinda like but hes so mean 2 me like in everyway possible and i dont no wat 2 do i need help !!ur probably think well he call u names and stuff wich he duz but there worse than u think!!and now he shoves me and hits me and stuff -clulesss!
You should SOOO NOT like him if he hits you and shoves you. He doesnt sound like a good guy to me. Id find someone else. There is alot of guys out there and you should tell him that you cant do this anymore, and tell him you know, i thought u were a good guy and all, but what you do to me is disrespectful. BEST OF LUCK! Drop one in my inbox if needed :]
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ok well i asked this guy out when we were somewhere for a field trip and there was other schools there and it was funn but i met this guy and i asked him out but then he said no but he said that we could be friends and i was kind of disapointed but i was happy because we were friends but anyway after he said no to me he went and asked my best friend out... so i was said.. my question is should i continue to talk to him or no?
signed,
confused guy problems
um duh! still talk to him..even tho he went out wtih your best friend. Maybe hes just not feeling "the vibeS" between you two.You can still be friends, and maybe down the road, you guys will become more than just friends. hope i help! :]
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i asked this guy out and he said he would give me and answer in a couple says cause he had to think about it but its been almost a week and everytime i ask him he says he still doesnt know. what should i do?
Give him some time. Dont rush anything, cause it might wanna make him say no..you know what im saying?? if you have any other advice thats needed..leave me one in my inbox! hope i helped :]
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yeah i cannot talk to guys..
im in the 7th grade and all of my friends go up and talk to guys no problem
i never kno if i sound annoying or deperate or clingy!!
what should i talk about??
Help!!,
The silent flirter
So i definately know how you feel..its super hard..but you can try starting off like hey..so hows your summer been? or what did you do today? just like general things like that..its hard to answer because i get that way myself..and im like OH CRAP! ahaha..but hope i helped you out somewhat..if you need anything else..u know where to find me! INBOX! hahha..hope i helped! :]
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Mmmkay, well i have this friend who's a guy and one day he'll be saying "your like my only friend" and im always there for you than recently he's just been doing everything he can to push me to my limit like if one of my friends asks him if some girl is prettier than me he'll be like "umm,yeah" or like we went to the fair and he completely ditched me and left me by myself!
NOw he's ignoring me. I dont know what i did I have always been there for him, i dont think he likes me anymore i want to talk to him about it but i dont know wht to say. I care about him a lot i thought he was my best friend,I want to still be his friend i i dont if he wants to be mine...
Signed,
Confused Friend
I am sure that if you talk to him about it, he will want to try and make things better. If he was really your friend he wouldnt be saying that anyones prettier than you, because thats not how friends should be..you know? I'd just come out and be like."it really hurts that you ditched me at the fair and i really dont like that your ignoring me..and i dont want our friendship to end over something like this that can be solved." hope i helped!! :]
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Well i am moving to north carolina and i live in michigan and i have to live all my friends and family and also my BOYFRIEND which is the hardest of all to do! but i'm just afraid that i'll never see anybody from michigan i know ever again! and also another problem is that i have to go to another school so i am afraid that no one wil like me at the new school so boyfriends, family, and friends are being all left behind and also another schoool... what should i do i am so depressed
Moving! i need help asap!
Well, im sure you can make new friends fast and you can still call and mail letters to your friends back home. Trust me. Many kids go through this all the time because of family seperations or cause they just want to move! But you always have your old friends and family by your side..hope i helped! :]
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dear advice giver,
i really need some help! well my ex boyfriend is ocmpletely mean to me well first of all i like this other boy that i met at camp and by the way hes really hott (the boy who i like now) well my ex gott all jealous becuase i staretd liking him at camp because i broke up with him like 2 weeks before we went to camp and now hes still jealous and he has a girlfriend now so why can't i be free to date? and also my ex calls me all these names and uhh.its bad!
hope you can help me!
problems with ex
HELLO KENDALLYN
well, what id do is talk to this ex of yours..and ask him what his deal is, because if he broke up wtih you, then, its his problem..and he isnt in charge of you. You are a free person and able to do what you want...just forget about him. HE LOST A VERY GREAT PERSON.
-good advice giver-
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I know this isn't a really huge deal or anything, but its about fashion. I have really good fashion sense, and a lot of my friends don't! It's really hard when we go shopping together. I try to keep my mouth shut when they ask me what I think of an outfit, but we always end up getting mad at eachother. Any advice?
No question is a dumb question. Well, to be a good friend, id be like, "yeah that would look cute on you." or you could just tell them the truth, because tahts what most people want. Everyone is different and everyone has different tastes. Sometimes that can be hard, i agree. But tell them..its what you like..and if you like it..its up to you. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU! HOPE I HELPED..drop something in my inbox if you need too! :]
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Im a girl, and I have a question about my boyfriend. We're only going into 7th grade, and u no how middle school relationships can be.. everyone wants 2 be in the middle! It gets so annoying though, people always push us to do things that i dont want to do. Any advice?
Well if there your friends, they really wouldnt be pushing you to do anything. You know? Next time Id be flat out saying, you know, i really dont want to do this, and you shouldnt MAKE me. Hope i helped some :] if any more advice is needed..leave one in the inbox! :]
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Ok well i need help because i am overly excited because i am going to my mimis in the beginning of the week and well theres this guy whos really cute that i met at camp like three houses down from my mimi's so we were gonna go over there and ask him to hang out with us but my question is How should i ask him to hang out?
Signed,
overly excited ,12
Well, what id do is call him before you go there. Make sure hes home..ask if he remembers you..and ask him if he'd like to hang :] hope i helped!
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I feel pretty weird asking this, probably because I think every girl asks at least once. I like a boy and suddenly I'm terrified to go near him. There are two things wrong with this. One, I'm the opposite of shy. I'm not just saying that, either. When it comes to anything else I'm outgoing and LOUD. Secondly, this has never happened before! I'm in 10th grade and this is so new to me, it's scary. I really want to talk to him, but I always lose track for about 5 seconds and get this powerful fluttering thing in my stomach. How do I make it stop, and what can I do?
So..i am just like you. I always get that feeling..and what you need to do is take a few deep breaths..and talk to him like hes ur brother..or best friend..or something..it definately works..hope i helped some :]
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I'm sorta pale and have dark hair so alot of people asume I'm goth and it really ticks me off! I just dont like outdoor activities and have a huge fear of bugs...I even think pale guys are way cute! I'm afraid maybe a guy wont think I'm as pretty because of my skintone...which isnt PAPER white I'm part native american so even when my skin is VERY base there is a little color in it and I have freckles. I dont know...I'm just worried guys wont think of me as cute/hot because of it..help?
Its whats in the inside that counts. If you really dont like being your skintone..theres allways those like sprayy tan in a bottle thingys. And it doesnt matter what you look like..if they are really a man..they would like you for your personality. I know im lighter than all my friends..but im still getting there..but yeah you can always do the spray tan in bottle things. hope i helped!! :]
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I am 14/f and i'm gonna admit. i am not skinny. i am not too overweight, and by no means obese. maybe the farthest thing from it. but i am always soooo self concious! iabsolutelyhateit.
i want to lose weight. but i just don't have the drive... until i lose some weight, how can i keep from being self concious???
i so know where ur coming from! im so self concious too..but i always have to think..god made me this way and thats how he wants me. and i motivate myself to do excercises and eat healthy. Im very athletic but i always feel bigger than my friends. Just tell yourself that you look great. Hope I helped!! :]
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my butt holes stuck together its causing nothing to come down,i try to force it to come out but nothing happens.
Im kinda embarrased to say this and I know your disgusted by it but its a real problem I dont know what to do about it.
no question is a dumb question.
id consult a doctor so atleast you know whats going on. best of luck! hope i helped some! :]
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I used to be best friends with this guy, Mike, who is two years older than me. He had a HUGE crush on me, but I never felt the same way about him... so we never actually went out. Now, he has a girlfriend who is 15, while he is 18, and she hates me. She talks a lot of crap about me and calls me names. I have tried talking to both of them about it. Mike said he would talk to her, but it hasnt helped. Its now getting to the point where she is harassing me and saying really mean, hurtful, embarassing stuff. I dont know what else to do, and Im not sure why she is saying all this about me. I have never talked to the girl, and i have never talked about her... but for some reason she thinks i have. I told both her and Mike that I didnt. What else can I do?
She has to be jealous of you because of you and Mike's close friendship. I'd confront her and be like okay listen up chick, whats the deal, i have never even talked to you or about you in anyway..and you saying hurtful things about me isnt helping solve anything. I'd really like to solve this and put this in the past because I know we can solve this. sorry if it sounds cheesy! lol. but id definately talk to her if its on instant messenger, in person, or on the phone. HOPE I HELPED! best of luck! :]
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14/f
all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice !
NEVER, give into peer pressure. You should definately talk to your friends about this. It causes brain damage and especially since your only 14. Do whats right for you, and not for your friends. Hope i helped!! :]
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I have 2 neighbors that I've been friends with for a long time. I'm a girl, 15, and they're both guys, 2 yrs younger than me, if that matters. Anyway, we used to always play outside together or play vido games at each other's houses a lot. About 2 years ago, due to personal family issues, I wasn't around very much for a long time, and I havn't really seen either of them at all. For a long time if I saw one of them on the bus or something, we'd just say "hi" and that's it. For the most part they ignore me. All the family stuff is cleared up now, but since school's out, I still havn't had a chance to talk to them. I want to still be friends with them, but what am I supposed to do? Do I just call them and ask if they want to come over like I would have two years ago as if nothing's happened? Do I tell them I feel like I've been ignored? Please help me, and sorry this was so long!
well, id go over to there house and talk things over..like how they have been since the last time you've hung out and then go on from there..talking face to face would probally be a better option. Hope i helped!! :]
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I really do love my boyfriend. But, I have a feeling he doesnt love mee.. and it makes me so upset. I really dont know what to do. This guy is like the love of my life.
If i were you, I'd DEFINATELY talk to him about it..and ask him what he thinks about you. Hope I helped!! :]
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i've had my glasses for a while now and some of the black paint has been chipped off so my glasses look kind of beat up. i was wondering if there are any types of paint i can use to 'paint' the parts where the black got chipped off? is there a special kind of paint or can i like just use a black sharpie to color it in or what?
thanks in advance!
i love sharpies!! hahah..well id go to your eye place where you got the glasses..and see if there is some way to paint where its chipped..if not, you might be able to get new frames or brand new glasses. hope i helped some!! :]
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i flirt around ALOT but when i reallyt like someone i tend to OBSESS over then. i like them for 1 or 2 yhears before i get over them. they see this as a turn off. i dont know what to do to stop obsessing with these boys. i kno they will not like me but i cannot help myself. if you have any advice on how to stop myself from falling in "love" with these boys or on a way to help them to like me back or on how to stop myself from obsessing pelase feel free to help. thansk a million!
hailey
lol i feel the same way..theres not really a way to stop yourself from falling in love. I like guys for like 1 or 2 years. and i feel like i obsess over them..eventually you will move on. Maybe ask the guy you like to hang out or something sometime. hope i helped!! :]
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