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14/f. My bf is coming to visit me in august and he is also 14 and we were thinking about having sex. and we really want to and he's the kind of guy i could see myself spending the rest of my life with sense we've been dating for about 9 months. But i really dont wanna take the chance of getting pregnant. What should i do? i no we would use a condom. so dont tell me that. Am i too young? i dont think i am but some ppl do. HELP!!
I think you are too young because you are only 14 and you have your whole life ahead of you. This is just one guy, there could be another guy out there thats 'perfect' for you. Also, if you DO get pregnant it could screw your entire life up. Condoms arent 100% protective.
In my personal opinion, I think you should wait. If you dont feel confident you shouldnt do it. If he is the guy you're going to end up spending the rest of your life with, then hes not going anywhere.
I work in a convenience store and have to deal with some very difficult customers. It has almost become a daily occurrence.
I do my best to be helpful but some people are really rude. This is stressful, especially if we
are busy.
Do you think that people are just becoming more and more rude or could I be doing something better in dealing with my more difficult customers?
Some people are just like or it can be a misunderstanding, sometimes when people are in a rush or stressed out, etc. we can act differently.
Just go on the same (polite, patient, etc) and dont let it stress you out.
Any advice to sooth cramps? Or any good medicine?
I know Advil, Tylenol, lying on your back, and exercising helps.
Any other tips?
Well like you said, those work.
You could also try taking a warm/hot bath or a little excersising.
Hey im a girl who is 16 years old. And i hang with a buch of preppy girl's. They are super nice but they have one prob. They smoke !! And now they want me to. I mean it seems real cool and stuff but i know its bad for you. so can you help ??? cuz i need it!!!
Love,
Under peer preasure
Dont do it, its bad for your health. Just say no or make an excuse on why you have to leave. (Remember the DARE program? lol) If they are good friends then they will understand, if not you shouldnt be hanging out with them anyways.
from experience, does Pantene Pro-V Extra Liso shampoo and conditioner really make your hair straight? is it worth the $$? thankss.
I wouldnt recommend Pantene, it makes your hair like straw after awhile. (Trust me, I used to use it and my hairdresser said that same thing) I know use Loreal smooth and sleek for thick hair.
I would either invest in a straightner or blow dry you hair straight.
I'm normally a confident girl,
I liked the way I looked,
and was pretty comfortable with myself,
I'm asian, and lately I just dont feel pretty, compared to everyone else..
=/
Everyone feels this way, one time or another. Treat yourself to something nice, like a pedicure/manicure or buy a new outfit.
Ooh my I can't understand Romeo and Juliet one bit. I just can't it's way to hard. So does anyone know where I can find a place on the internet to get like maybe a summary of every act or a modern day play like it?
I would recommend SparkNotes.com! I have been using it for other novels/plays. It really helps.
Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!!
Dont have sex just to keep your b/f! If your not ready, your not. Dont get pressured into it. You told him that your not ready.
Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you
Whats next you ask? Sex. Dont go there, though. You are way tooo young! You have your whole life ahead of you!
Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?
A little....Your barely out of high school! You should wait.
all of my friends have sex now, im 14! and i dunno i can't ever have sex with anybody if they ever ask me, and i know many people are going to tell me to wait n stuff, but i love my boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him!! but i can't im too afraid, or im just uncomfortable w/ my body, how can i do it??! please gimme sum help!
14 is just too young for it. You have your whole life ahead of you! It could ruin your life! You should do it when you are mature enough and ready, not because everyone else is. I bet not everyone is having sex anyways!
Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu!
You should wax it! It wont grow as fast...Why would you want to shave it? Or you can tweeze it.
how can i spice up my advice column!! its so plain and boring! what can i do to make it look cuter and better!
thanks!-if its good info i'll rate HIGH
You could add a really cute background or make your page thing (I dont what its called!) I think you may be able to add music. Add a cute Avatar! Hope I helped!!
what is a good short haircut that doesnt look bad on guys? i definetly dont want a buzz cut or bald. i like to have long hair (not super long, maybe a little below my eyes), but my crappy private school wont let me keep it long. they say if i dont cut it ill get suspended, and thats not good. im not a prep but my parents are strict, any advice?
Hmmm....I really have no clue...Umm..how about something like Ben Affleck? Im not sure, sorry!
This sunday its been my one month aniversary with my vegetarianism. Though that kind of makes me sad because for 2 weeks my friends havn't talked to me. They say i've changed a llot, i dyed my hair from blonde to black, wear all black, and am really into rock (though i always have been) and, they ssay they wont talk to me because im a vegetarian! I started skipping lunch, A. because i just cant bring myself to eat. B. because no one to sit with. So i just wait outside (im 13 and in 7th grade)till the bell rings. And home, i lock myself in my room and say like 10 words...max. I just dont want to talk. *sigh* am i slipping into depression. I mean, why should i quit..i do have reason. Factory farms treat there animals HORRIBLE and my 'friends' dont beleive that! I brought my proof, (a book) and they refused to read it. I told them to go to www.meetyourmeat.com and they wouldnt! *sigh* im just so confused, sorry this is long.
Signed,
-.The lost last piece to the puzle.-
They arent your friends. Try writing your feelings out. Be proud....dont let anyone get you down! Hope I could help! :)
so theres this person who i met online. and hes the sweetest thing ever. and i know hes not some crazy stalker whos 76 yet he always says he loves me and he wants to go out and everything. im freaked out that like..he says that. i mean i told him i wanted to get to know him and everything. but sometimes like..i forget about him. blah im just wondering what to say to him..
How can you be sure that hes not a stalker? You never know or can tell until you meet him, which could be dangerous. Just tell him that you dont really feel the same.
my mom and dad separted and now i live with my mom and her boyfriend in missouri. my dad still lives in iowa and i want to go live with him but he doesn't have a permanent place to stay yet. and thats y my mom won't let me move with him. do u think that is fair?
A little. Maybe you can when he finds a permanent place to live.
Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!
signed so SMALL!!
How do you know guys wont go out with you? Have you ever thought that they might only go out with you because you have large ones? Be happy with who you are..
Hey i need help plz. i like a girl thats like 3 grades ahead of me! i don't know what to do cause she is my friend but i don't know if i ask her out will she like freak out and be likr your too young. what should i do?
Hmm, I will do my best. You could ask her and she could say yes or no. If you do you could jeporize your friendship. Just weigh the pros and cons out.
oMg! major problem here! i can't believe i'm even admitting this! but i really like a younger guy! as in 3 years younger!!! he's 13! I can't believe it! Is 3 years younger 2 young? what should I do?
Its ok, do you like him? If so-who cares.