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I'm 13 and jsut starting cheerleading this year and I was wondering: What type of clothing is good for cheerleading practice? I know definitely soffe shorts, and I also have nike sneakers. What are good brands or types of tank tops/ t-shirts are good for practice but aren't extremely expensive. Also if you have any other kinds of shorts that would help too. THanks!

I used to cheerlead and yes soffee shorts are definetly the best, i have them in every color. For the shoes, nike is fine. For the top, i suggest a really good sports bra that gives you good support and then wear a loose t-shirt or tank top over it. Hope i helped!

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"looking for love in all the wrong places staring you right in the face"

It's a R&B song and a guy sings it. Any ideas who may sing it?

Thanks.

TAKE A CHANCE by ONE CHANCE

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im sooo prude, but i want to be fashionable too.

i like to wear:
.high waisted pants
.skirts that go to the knee or past
.turtle necks

i am absolutely not fine with:
.midriff bearing tops
.anyone seeing my things(if we're not married lol)
.anything tight. tight is absolutely not acceptable.
.cleavage. no, no, NO.

i really want to be very fashionable. any suggestions?

I think a past the knee white flowy skirt is really cute with a plain t-shirt covered with a cropped denim jacket. Maybe add like a belt around the t-shirt too. Let your hair down so you'll look comfortable and fresh.

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for lent i am giving up myspace
but i dont think i will be able to keep that "promise"
yikes .
iono
so what are u all giving up ??

oh snap .. it's lent again
bye bye my dear DEAR sourpatch
i'm totally addicted to them

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The is this guy and we are good friends and wehang out and tell each other a lot and we both like eachother a lot and I was at his house the other day and his parents were out...no one knew I was there,and we were in his living room watching tv.Suddenly we were holding hands,then he put his arm around me and I leaned into him and he kept moving until we were laying down and we kept looking at each other,we almost kissed but then we didn't .He broke my jelly braclet and it means make out so I don't know HELP...What are his thoughts?

he's most likely into you but he doesn't know what you're thinking so that's why the kiss never happend

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i'm looking for a swimsuit that comes down to like my belly button. i looked at target but they didn't have any. any other places that might have one like that? if you could, find some pictures of some at a certain store. thanks alot. (:

check target again, i swear i got my bathing suit that goes down to the belly button from target so they should have them

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Okay...this is a really weird quesion....but how can i become a prep? (and i dont want to dye my hair...highlights are fine though) like i need tips on personality and looks. thanks:D

0NE W0RD --> H0LLiSTER!!!!

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are there any codes to hide your top friends on myspace?

go to whateverlife.com or hot-lyts.com
they should have the code there

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tomorrow is spirit day at our school. and the theme is monopoly. i want to dress like the dog piece. i have a little ribbon i'm gonna put on my neck. and i'm painting my nose black w/ 3 black dots on each side of my nose. how else can i look like a dog cause i dont have much and its tomorrow? or is their any other ideas to look like something from monopoly? thanks

for ur ears, put them into low pigtails

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everybody in my school thinks i am emo or gothic.
so i dress black/red sorta different the others , look on the ground often , don't make eyecontact , mostly am sad (but that's just cause i hate the school and i'm lovesick lately) have naturaly black hair and naturaly white skin. yeah okay and i admit i hate myself , and hate my life blablabla
but does that make me emo?
cause i never thought about it that way

you're just you, that's who you are. emo's just another label the world offered and don't pay any attention to it unless you wanna become one.

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is it true if a boy bugs you in a playful way he likes you? cause this boy always bugs me and make me laugh and when im working with my friend and he just came over and got closer to me and on thursday he just came running and like hug tackled me he just does stuff to me to get my attenion everyday does that mean he likes me

not sure but from what you're decribing, sounds like he does.

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why is there so much hate in the world? Every one is labeling everyone. Today I got so mad cuase my friend who is emotional and likes black, some kid walked up to here and asked her if he could teach him how to be emo. It really hurt my feelings even though it wasn't towards me. But Even if you are emo. punk. goth, hard core, why does it matter? as long as everyones being thereselves then it should? why does everyone catorgorize everyone? it's rude.What is the difference between punk, goth, emo anyway? help please

SO glad you brought this up, i completely agree.
labels should be BANISHED, like FOREVER.

punks are punks, there's no way for you to actually "decribe them" as rebellious or whatever cause not all punks are the same.

emos [which is what i consider myself] DO NOT CUT THEMSELVES, atleast not ALL OF THEM. they just deal with emotions and they're all individuals, so nobody should assume that emo people cry and cry and cut and cut.

goths .. oohhh what the "preps" should be afraid of. whatever. goths don't even do anything to people, they're their own social group so y make fun of them or talk about them that oh they worship the devil cause they always wear black, as if! and nobody who's goth DARES to enter HOT TOPIC because it's too ... GOOTTHHHH, it gets SO annoying when i hear people say that. ggrr.

preps are seen as preppy girls who are cheerleaders and live and breathe hollister, american eagle, mini skirts, and flip flops. i really hate that, cause when people ask me do u shop at hollister and i say yes they assume i'm a prep .. wow, that's really sad how people just jump to conclusions like that.

ghetto and gangsta, once again another label. when people see you rock nike and jordans they immediately think that you're ghetto and rap every word you say.

labels exist so there's nothing i can do about it. but i do have to admit that i consider myself to be categorized in those labels but not just one. i think i'm emo and ghetto but i don't really care. i could wake up one day and wear vans and enties. the next day i could rock jordans for all i care, and when people see that, they get the impression of you as a wannabe punk or a wannabe ghetto person which is CRAP i tell you.

anyways, just be who you are, screw labels lol
wow this was long, if you read all the way here then thanks!

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Is it bad to have confidence and think you are pretty?

This is coming from someone who had low confidence for a large number of years. I would never call myself pretty.

but this is a new year and the past is left behind.

and I'm a lot happier now. It's scaring me I guess. I'm happy when I go out and I smile ...and feel pretty?

Is that bad?

I mean.. confidence in everything.. that you think you are good?

It feels.. really weird/wrong.

man, i wish i had as much confidence as you! lol

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does anyone know if there's like a reason jt got killed off degrassi. like in real life. like was ryan a bad actor or something? did it have anything to do with ryan?

ryan had to too choose to either go to college or stay at degrassi, but since the writers decided to kill jt off, then ryan said he was fine with it so now he's going to college.

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I have this friend named Alica, we were really good, close friends during my sophomore year (now a junior), but she has done many things behind my back. Once she randomly stopped talking, and what I found out was she was trying to get away from me! I asked why, and she said I was "not being a friend". As a fact, I did nothing to her! I am 100% sure I didn't (so don't say I might of anyway). Then we made up, and she always overreacts. If I forget to call her or text her, she'll yell at me when she sees me, asking where I was, why I didn't call, and she goes, "Why are you mad at me?!?!" When I am not!

So we got into an argument, and stopped being friends. Then we madeup 6 months later, but she got worse. She does what she used to do, plus she always lied to me. I would tell her to meet me somewhere after school THREE times, but never showed, and all of a sudden stopped talking to me again. So I got very angry, called her up, and went off on her, cussing her out, and telling her to not talk to me again. We haven't talked since, and my friends are glad I am not wasting my time with her anymore. I feel quilty for being harsh, but she has done so many horrible things to me! But did I do the right thing?

Sorry for it being so long, but thank you very much for your time.

my answer will be short and simple

Yes u did the right thing, you've tried to be her friend numerous times but it always ends up getting worse so you're better off without her.

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ok, so stuff like this really bugs me.. when i cant remember the name of a show or movie, etc. who remembers what the name of that oldd nickelodian (sp?) how from like 4 or 5 maybe 6 yrs ago. it was, like, they had kids go to malls, ammusement parks, etc. and they had to act out stuff and get random people passing by to help out in the skits. then inside the actual set of the show.. there were 3 pg circles (they were labled 1, 2 and 3) the audicance would run to the particular circle which symbolized the number of skis the kids would get people to help out with. its driving me crazy!

are u thinking of "figure it out"??
hopefully i answered ur question.

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What should I do ?

blistex all the way baby .. the one in the little blue thingy sorry, hard to describe it lol

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okay well i weigh around 117 pounds and im about, 5'4. I am turning 15 this year. I am convinced that im fat, i hate myself for it too, i watch what i eat 24/7 and even though people tell me im not, i still feel that i am. I am probley one of the most self concious people. so i guess im asking about what i should weigh

sweeties, you are NOT fat!! i'm a year younger than you and i weigh more than 117, so no you're NOT fat

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ok so to start off i like 3 guys alot, 2 are my best friends and the other one is the most popular guy in school. i dont know who i should go after and what to do.

guy A)my best friend for a long time, i've liked him forever but never told him i liked him and he's now going out with one of my best friends. he's the type of person that will always be there and just sit and listen and say some sort of quirky comment to cheer you up. me and him have a very complicated relationship. he's very flirty with me when his girlfriend isnt around and has smacked my ass a couple of times. and at parties he'll sit on me and be all flirty with me but he's always just joking around. his girlfriend knows he flirts with me sometimes but she knows its just a joke so shes ok with it. we tell each other "i love you" but just as friends. recently i told the guy that i liked him for a long time but i told him i stopped liking him when he started going out with his girlfriend, but that was a lie. i dont know if i should tell him i like him. if i do im affraid things wont be the same between us.

guy B) another one of my best friends. he's kind of a man whore that has never got any real action but he's currently looking for a friend with benefits. i dont want to be his friend with benefits although i have thought about it. he asks me what i think of girls that he has started talking to and took me on the ski lift for the first time so i wouldnt get scared (im scared of heights) and he stayed on the bunny hill with me the whole day even though he is a really good skiier. he's a really good person inside but he has girl problems. i told him i liked him about 3 months ago but i think he forgot. at parties he'll pay full attention to me and will flirt with me the whole time but in school we're just back to friends. i dont know how i should get him to realize that i still like him becasue flirting isnt working.

guy C) the guy would be my dream boyfriend. he has the perfect looks, funny personality, and same intrests as me. but he only talks to me for about 5 minutes a day. he has "his girls" they're not friends with benefits but he pays a ton of attention to them. i want to make myself stand out because i would really love to go out with him. but he's also a grade above me (but we have alot of classes together) and i dont know if he has an age issue. but how do i keep a conversation going with this guy and stand out from his girls

guy A sounds like the best choice if you ask me, but your situation is very complicated and it's like if u make a choice you can't change it. but yeah i think guy A is the best choice.

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Can anyone tell me? just keep them laughing.

well first of all, if you're trying to get a girl then lots of good luck


tease her, not too much but enough to get her giggling .. girls like to be teased
tell her embarrassing stories or something
be like a class clown or something

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