Hi there. I'm Emily Elizabeth and I'm 2O. I live in Idaho and work at a Cheese Factory. I've not had this much fun at work in a long time. I want to be either a Criminal Profiler or a Cop before I'm 25. I graduated in 2OO3 ('O3 REPRESENT!) In High School, I ran the Advice Colum and had a blast with it!!
I've been in about every situation imaginable and I'm still alive and kicking. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, it's just a matter of finding it before it's to late. I will answer any question about anything, so don't be afraid to ask.
I'm currently single and I'm OK with that. I don't like being tied down, but I do have 3 Mexican lovers (inside joke) I love all types of music and am a crazy person who will do anything to make you smile, including breaking my shoulder to help my friend get a date. She got a date and I spent Friday night in the ER, that's friendship, right there LOL. I've got brown & pink hair at the moment and 9 piercings (6 in my lobes, 1 cartlidge, right nostril and navel) I drive a 2OO5 Ford Focus (so that means, yes, I've got a kick ass car, but I just signed the next 6 years of my life over to Ford haha)
Have an STUNNiNG day!!
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Location: Idaho
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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate! (link)
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Make the move first sister!! I know what you mean, the little touch or bush can totally turn you on and it makes you crave more. If it was me, I'd maybe brush up against him and maybe kiss his neck, trying to hint it to him. If that doesn't work, find a Cosmo and circle the "Read her Mind" part and add a post-it note saying something sexy that would involve touching you.
Good luck! =)
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First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind. (link)
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I know the "good girl" title, all to well. I still am a good girl, but I'm a little more adventurous now. teehee.
I don't think the fantasies are anything to be worried about, it's totally normal. It means that you are excited about this new guy and you are hoping for something possiably down the road.
Good luck, have fun & play it safe if you decided to act out your fantasy ;)
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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!! (link)
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Wow. I won't preech, but wow. I was 19, two months from being 2O before I gave mine up and it was perfect. But 14? Wow.. so young. I personally don't think it's a good idea because your body is still devloping & changing. Not only that, but trying to find a babysitter is super hard and unless you have either great support or a job, paying them would be hard also. I hope that they are all ok. Take care & good luck, let me know if I can help anymore =)
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Ok, my dad owns a racetrack about 2 hours away from my house and I always go there every saturday. My brother and a couple of friends also go there and they work on this truck thing. There are 2 guys that work with my brother that I really like and one of them is always flirting with me and says he loves me and stuff but ya I really love them both a lot even though they are 2 and 3 years older than me (there so hot and they're cousins). Well my racetrack closed a few days ago and it opens again in 7 months but I really cant wait that long to see them. One of them who is 14 tried to kiss me on the last night but I didnt kiss him and now I regret it since I will not see him for a long time!!! I keep dreaming about him and I cant wait to see them again I am like so mad its closed...how can I deal? Thanks for your help!!! (link)
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Aww, I bet you do regret it!! It's ok however, because next time you see him, you'll be more prepared than ever and knock him off his socks ;)
Is there anyway that your brother could take you to see them? That's all I could think of, unless you can call them and convince them to come see you.
As far as the dreaming goes, that's totally normal and it means they are on your mind, hopefully you'll be able to see them soon!
Good luck!!
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I have dark arm hair and I am teased about it often so I started shaving it about a year ago. But it takes too long and I have to every day and stuff and sometimes it feels weird when people touch my arms. So is there anything I can use to bleach my arm hair blonde? if you know anything around the house I can use that would be even better. Thx so much! I'll rate ya. Answer asap plz! (I'm a female) (link)
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Hey there. In middle school, if you didn't shave your arms, you weren't cool... I'm still not cool =)
What I would try is Nair (I'd get the sensative skin kind until you know it won't irriate the skin)
I don't know about bleaching it because I'd think it'd burn the hair,but I could be wrong.
So yes, try the Nair. Good luck & let me know if it works or not =)
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Ok... my friend went up to my guy friend and was like "(my name) is such a whore she wears thongs!" and then when i confronted her shes like.. i guess i was just jealous of yours and his friendship becasue you guys are close and i like him... i think thats a bunch of crap... then people are saying that the guy she told doesnt really like me and when i asked him hes like what!!! who told you that... if you understand any of this please help!!
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If you are a whore becuse you wear thongs... I'm a whore... as well as 3/4 of the girls I know. What a bunch of crap.. Let's start a club haha kidding!
It sounds like she is more than jealous, it sounds like she is insecure. If she is really your friend, then she should be understanding and encouraging to you, not saying mean things about you.
If it was me, I wouldn't pay attention to her rude comments and know that deep down it doesn't matter what she says because he acts like he likes you and thats all that matters.
Good luck!! =)
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Hi guys, This may sound weird comming form a 22 yera old but my doctor was no help when I asked her this question. Some imput from you guys might be good. I have been on and off of the pill sence I have been 15. I recently started up again after being off of them for a few years. This is my second month. I know the hormones are supose to affect you but I am finding myself very moody. I have never had bad PMS or every been moody. I find myself wanting to cry a lot more for no reason, or just really snippy at everyone. I hate this its not me. I was always happy and I loved everyone. The last 2 months have been hell with these mood swings. I am even snapping at my BF whom I love more than anything in the world. I dont want this new attitude to ruin anything we have. I am really worried. I dont want to be off the pill cause we are not ready for kids yet. Is there anything I can do to get back to normal? Thanks guys I really appreciate your info. *Christin* (link)
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Aren't doctors great?? -rolls eyes and glares- haha
I just started taking the pill last month and my -stupid doctor- put me on super stong pills that not only made me sick, but also made me really sensative. The littlest thing would make me either cry or get really mean.
I'd go & talk to the doctor and have her lower your dose or maybe even try a different method, like the patch. Good luck!!
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I went to the tanning bed sunday and all monday and tuesday I was itching terribly. I thought maybe i had a rash but then i thought well maybe its from the tanning bed. And then i kept getting this tingle..all day..it hurt soo bad. I didnt use ne lotion..wat was happening?
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OUCH!! Tanning bed burns hurt like CRAZY!! Get some aloe on it ASAP!
I think that since you didn't use any lotion could have lots to do with it burning. Once I didn't get enough lotion on my legs and fried them something horriable. Make sure it's "tanning bed approved" lotion though, not normal lotion heehee =)
I'd stay away from them for about a week and a half and put aloe on them. Either that or this blue gel called "ICE BURN RELEIF". It smells good and helps take the pain away.
Good luck & don't forget the lotion next time =)
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okay im a girl and i havent gotten my period since like the middle of august, and theres no way im pregnant ive never done anything with a guy cept making out and that cant make you pregnant, so i have no idea why im not getting my period. i got my first one like around xmas 2002 so culd it just be irregular? what culd make it stop? is there sumthing wrong with me? anyone help me please! im kind of scared! (link)
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Well, I'd say LUCKY YOU!!! But that's probably not what you want to hear, so disregard that.
Well, since we've rulled out being pregant, that's good. I would think that since you are worried about it not being here (with good reason, of course) that could be making it late. I've been stressed out before and it's made it late, which is a pain!!
You've been having it long enough, so I'd say that you should go to the Gyno (regular doctors are OK, but a Gyno only works in that department, so they may be more knowledgable about it) and go from there. They may put you on Birth Control to help regulate it. Good luck!! =)
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This may be a stupid question but...
I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?
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Not a weird question at all.
They only hurt when they aren't in properly and then it feels really weird.
All boxes come with instructions on how to put them on, so read that and be sure to relax or it'll be harder to use them.
I'd reccomend plastic applicators, rather than cardboard because the plastic slides in easier.
Good luck =)
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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days? (link)
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Totally normal. It'll be crazy for probably at least 3-4 months since your body is getting used to all of the changes that are going on. Lucky you for it only last 2 days also ;)
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all of my friends have sex now, im 14! and i dunno i can't ever have sex with anybody if they ever ask me, and i know many people are going to tell me to wait n stuff, but i love my boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him!! but i can't im too afraid, or im just uncomfortable w/ my body, how can i do it??! please gimme sum help! (link)
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14? Wow. I'm not going to preech (because I hate it when I'm preeched to LOL) But I waited until I was almost 20 (like 2 months before my birthday, I'm still 19)
What are you afraid of? It hurting or getting pregeant or what? I'd go to a doctor or Planned Parenthood (they would probably be a better choice based on your age) and get cheaper birth control and most PP's give out free condoms, so you don't have to worry about anyone seeing you buy them.
As far as being uncomfortable with your body, who isn't really? If your boyfriend is truly a nice guy, he won't care how you look =)
Good luck & if you have more questions, let me know.
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Hey, i am 15 and weigh 150 lbs. I'm not "fat" but i feel that way. I dont look it or anything, but i have no idea where the weight is going. I have been taking birth control for like 4 months, and that might be the reason for gaining all this weight, but i dont know how to get rid of some weight. I have tried the south beach diet, i dont eat that much.... never really have, i drink only diet drinks since forever, but i still dont know why i am gaining all this weight. It worries me a lot... Hopefully you can help.. thanks (link)
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Hi there. I don't think you're fat, you sound "Chunky" like I am and that's a good thing ;)
Birth control (I'm assuming the pills is what you're on) are the devil when it comes to gaining weight!! ARRG!! They make you retain water so it makes you look big and gain weight. With the ones I was on, I put on 5 pounds in 5 days. I was like, WHOA!!
I'm with the others, I've heard Diet soda is worse than regular, which is crazy LOL.
I don't eat much either and it's actually really bad for you because your body has to work harder and it makes you gain more.. isn't life confusing??
Good luck & let me know how things go =)
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umm...why would u wanna swallow the cum when u giv head?? i think taht is just really sick. i don't think i can do it to my bf. and im not sure wat he wants me to do. i hav also heard that u can get hiv or usmthin from swallowing cum or can get a STD. is this true? and wats sooo great bout swallowing cum from a guy? i would rather just giv head and use a condom. that way i dotn hav to taste it or nething. wat would b best? o im 13/f (and not a slut. im a virgin and ive never gave head and ive been wit my bf for 3 years!!) (link)
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Hey there. Based on expierence, cum just tastes gross LOL. It's salty first off and warm (bleh haha) However, giving head is fun until you get cum in your mouth. What I suggest is giving until he gets ready to cum (and if he's a nice guy, he'll tell you when he's about to) and then you can move and let him cum on a towel.
You can't get HIV/AIDS from cum, but you can get STD's in your throat (there was even a thing on ER one night about it) so unless you REALLY know him well, I'd use a condom, the flavored ones are fun ;)
Good luck & be safe & have fun!
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hey is the thing i have really pretty face but i am kinda chunky. and when i am drivin around in my truck all these guys look at me and wave etc. and then at school i don't get many looks. like 2day there was this one guy that goes 2 my school that i don't think ever really notices me ( and i kinda like him now) but when i was goin 2 my friends house he saw me and wave and smiled and stared as i went by. the thing is since i kinda like him so i talk 2 him in school cuz idk if he relises i am the same person or not, or just wait for him 2 talk 2 me and how can i get more guys 2 like me for who i am and not my body? thanks alot for any help (link)
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Hi there. If he waves to you, I'd go up and say hi to him and see what happens from there. If he is a truly nice person, your looks will not matter because he will be amazed with your inner beauty, which is all that matters anyways =) Good luck!
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i just burned myself on the oven rack in my oven. its blistering now, will i have a scar? it was 450 degrees to let you know...any advice? (link)
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I think as long as you iced it right away, you should be fine, but your skin tone will depend on things as well.
To help reduce the scar, I'd clean it and put Neosporin Plus on it and leave it alone. That's helped me. Can you tell I work at McDonald's?? LOL Good luck!
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Hey i was wondering i know your supposed to take the pregnancy test after your exspected period but... what if you have sex like...i was supposed to start my period on the 27th and i had sex on the 26th and i have skipped my period so when should i take the test ?? I rate high !!!!! (link)
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Hi there. If you were susposed to start on the 27th and you had sex on the 26th, I'd wait about a week and half. Did you use protection or are you on birth control? That can make a huge differnece. Or if you are worried about being late, that can also make a difference.
If you didn't use protection & are worried, go to the doctor and ask about the "Morning After Pill" that will help prevent getting pregnant.
Like I said, wait about a week. Good luck & let me know how it goes =)
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i want to pierce my cartilage by myself. how should i do it? is this a good idea? n if not how much would it cost at a professional place? thankz (link)
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Do not do it yourself!!! Like the others have said, Cartlidge is very tender and has tons of veins in it. If you hit a nerve, you could paralize your face, ouch!!
I'd reccomend going to the tattoo/piercing place in your area, not even the mall because they generally don't get a lot of training. Hope this helps and happy piercing!!
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My nana gave me a real gold and pearl necklace for my 17th birthday. I was wondering is it safe to wear it in the shower or will ir ruin the pearls?? (link)
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Happy Birthday first of all =)
Personally, I wouldn't wear it in there. I only wear my body jewelery in the shower and 2 rings, but I'm always checking to make sure they are ok. If you want to clean them however, for as funny as it sounds, use toothpaste and a toothbrush LOL
Have a good day!
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Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks (link)
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Well... while I don't really reccoment piercing it by yourself, if you are set on doing it yourself, go here http://www.bmezine.com/pierce/diyp.html They have lots of info on how to do it yourself. Good luck with it and remember, don't touch it after you do it, infections suck!! =)
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