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i'm 18 year old girl
i wouldn't categorize myself as a "sexually active" person.. but my boyfriend and i have talked about it and he really likes to get horny and mess around. I told him i'm willing to do some things with him because i want this relationship to work. i really want this relationship to work. i think i'm in love with him.. i think he's the one.
we have been dating for about 7 months now and we recently had another discussion/argument/kinda fight about oral sex. he said he really wants me to give him head and wants to give me head. I've done it before. i'm no virgin mary. but i'm not crazy about it either. I just don't really "get off" when i do oral sex. can someone help me?
when he gives me head, it tickles. like sometimes i will start laughing because it will tickle. it doesn't really get me horny, but its not like uncomfortable. its just like enjoyable i guess. but i dont get off from it. does anyone know why i don't get off of it? and how i could?
when i give him head, i tend to gag a lot. I don't like the taste of cum or pre cum. i tried licking it and it just made me gag even more. there was a point when it felt like i needed to throw up.. so then i tried just sucking it without tongue and that was ok but he wasn't too crazy about it. so any advice on how i can get past the gagging? we tried putting a condom on him but it just tasted like latex :/ blech.
please help!!!!
thank you!!! (link)
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well are you physically attracted to ur boyfriendd?
or try thinking about what turns you on. honestly, whether its watching 'porn' before hand than do it...or 'playing' with yourself. personally i do not do either but for some of my friends it works for them.
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Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half have been going through a really rough time in our relationship. We have been trying to take some time apart in hopes that it will help. Unfortunetly it has done the exact opposite because he has been thinking that i am going around with some other guy. I haven't though, i have barely left my house. And now I have permanently destroyed the relationship i think because I completely freaked out and lost it. i told him that i did sleep with some one even though i didnt. i dont know why i even said that to him but now i dont know what to do. Is there anything at this point that i can even do? (link)
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i think you should just try to explain to him why you said what you said. hopefully he will understand and relize u did it just to make sure he still cared about you and u were angry with him.
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Ugh, my bf is so fine & everyone thinks he isnt... but i dont look for apperance,only personality (Which he has a great one)! so i love him & he is getting me to do some VERY BAD STUFF & i dont want to. of course... my mom found out & i cried b/c i thought tht i would have to brake up with him. I DONT WANT TO! he is so nice & sweet & he always tells me tht he loves me! & loosing him... idk if i would be able to live w/o him! well im grounded b/c i did what he asked me to do for him & when i get my phone back, what should i say?
We only txt this bad stuff on his ipod so he wont get in trouble but i will b/c i txt him on MY iphone. its going to be weird whenever he comes over. so should i tell him to never txt me on his ipod again & to never make me send tht stuff again... or what? What's y'alls opinion?
Thanks. (link)
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well you were not specific on what u guys were texting. could hve been texting about drugs or sexting. so which ever it was next time be more specific. But just tell him you cannot text about either of those kinds of things or whatever it is. say your mother checks ur texts when the bill comes and she saw some things and she was not pleased. just tell him straight out about whatever it is
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I'm eighteen years old. I dated this guy when i was in eight grade all the way till ninth. He was my first love, and i think i might have been his too i'm not sure. But we were together for a year. I'm with a new guy now, and I love him a lot. I have never had as many feelings for anyone. The guy that i dated when i was younger has tried to get with almost all of my friends. He is about to be with one of my other closest friends. And they have only hung out once and he already loves her. They already kissed and are already holding hands. We went on a double date with my boyfriend yesterday. I don't know why but it bothered me the whole time seeing him with her. I don't want to have feelings for him anymore. I don't care for him when i'm with my boyfriend but when i see him all the memories come back...its been many years and i just need help getting over him. i was hoping maybe someone would know how i can get over those feelings. I don't want to be able to like my boyfriend now at full throttle... (link)
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hi, i know exactly how you feel. I have been in your situation before. i did probably not the best thing but i wrote down all of the things he did to hurt me, things that i found a turn off, things i just didnt like, and all the bad and weird things i did not like about him until i relized he was no good for me. if he ever hurt you, or called you fat, or called you anything, or something u find a turn off, things u do not like about him write them down and try to let them over power the good things.. i know this is not the best way but it worked for me..
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so i started off this one year program as this really chill awsome girl, then i started going out and drinking a lot and i slowly but sureley started really sluttying it up.
i hookedup with an entire group of friends and ir eally wrecked my name.
i really really want to change and get my friends back and let people see the girl they loved at the beginning.
how do i do this? (link)
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being drunk can really mess up alot of things- i have some personal experience. If i were you i would calm down. drop the parties not completely if u dont want to but enough to where you can control it. talk to your friends and ask them for help, apologize to them for your behaviors and say how your scared to lose them.
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I realized I like my best friend. But I'm not sure he knows and how he really feels about me. What should I do? (link)
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i have been in your situation a few times. i become best friends with a guy and than i start liking them. what i usually do, (if im willing to date them) i just flirt and flirt, and get theyre attention and make conversation with them. But if your not looking to date him because he is ur best friend and you do not want to mess anything up just chill out and when you hangout dont go crazy all over him. Just be cool about it.
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So, over the past months I've been second guessing my love for my Boyfriend. I've been dating him for 4 months now, but I've known him for about 2 years before we started dating. Before we started dating you could tell that there was always something more between us. And this year we finally started dating. and It's been an awesome couple of months. I never knew i could care about someone so much until I met him. But this last month, I've been thinkin about everything. Do i really love him? Is this guy the one? and i've been so depressed the past month. I'm so confused. I cry about how I don't know if I love him, then I'll cry about how I'm hurting him not being around him. then i cry about how i don't want him to leave or go. I've never been or acted like this until I met him. and its only been like this the past month. Oh and his family is AMAZING. i LOVE him family and they love me. I feel like i've been dating his family the past month, not him. and i really wanna get back to dating just Him. but when he tells me he loves me, i just wanna break down and cry. i just miss the way things use to be, just having fun with him and not worrying about Love.
Oh and i have a doctors appointment next week, because I'm crying so much and so badly. my mom thinks i have unbalanced hormones because its been so bad.
What do i do? what do u think?
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Okay well you have not been sating this guy for very long. You shouldnt straight up "love him" yet. Maybe you just need to stop for a second and breathe. Write down everything you feel and think on paper so you can visually see everything. Make charts and everything. Take a day to yourself and put a little separation between you and him. Hangout with your friends a little bit more and go out with them, and hopefully when you see him again youll be really happy to see him. Also stop going over his house for a little bit or whatever your doing to see his family. take a break from seeing them too. Hangout at your house or actually go out on a date so it can just be you two.
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This won't be to long but anyway I have made mistakes in the past with guys and I am not going to go there but lets say I know good methods that work to get a guy but I just was wondering if anyone had anymore because I really need some help. I know everyone says be be yourself I know that its just do you have any like fun ways or you know what I mean haha?(:! see I am trying to get back my ex boyfriend and I can't really use the same approach anyone have any ideas?? -ThAnks(: Happy Holidays(: (link)
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just start off by like when you see him just smile and maybe wave. than very slowly start talking to him online, or texting him. Or if your still in school, which i am thinking you are. text/IM him online and ask him if he has a certain teacher that you and him might both have and ask what the h/w is or if u had any homework. than just ease ur way into a conversation.
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This will be long....
So first off ive never even kissed a guy and i'm in sophmore year...some of you will think oh that's not bad but it really take a tole on you when all your friends have and all they talk about is guys and their boyfriends =(, I have the smallest boobs ( they won't be getting any bigger because of my genes) my mom was small too. ANyway those things make me very self concious.But anyway i reallly need your help trying to undetstand this guy.
So me and this guy started talking and well everything seemed to be good but i don't know if this is normal things guys do. They text you one day saying" lets hang out" and the next day they don't text you for days making you sit there and wonder if you did something wrong. I really didn't even care that much I basically was like ok whatever. but then he did it alot.like i will text him ( and the other way around) and i'll say something and he won't text me back for a loonng time. He always asks how my day is I'm just confused should i wait I mean i'm really not going anywhere aha but still is this good bad? I try to wait a while to text him back maybe like waiting for me you know? Can you give me ideas making him want me like he does to me?? thankyou (link)
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Okay well i am 15 years old, and i have plenty of experiences with guys but i still get super confused with them i actually just asked a questin on here about one. But many guys do that! Or they will just take from 30 seconds to 2 hours + to answer a text. When that happens to mee when i finally get the answer i delay answering as much as possible. But i also ask them what they are you doing, in a casual way "so what are you up too?" and if they say nothing, just say something like well your obviously doing something because it took you forever to answer. Just make him aware that he took along time to answer. But also be careful with guys. Cause it seems ur new to the guy life. Just dont fall head over heals for anyone you do not know to well, odds that they might hurt you could be easy.
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Hi everyone, 23 and female here...
I saw the red flags, but I had just come out of an emotionally abusive relationship; I refused to believe that I had run straight into a worse situation...but I had.
I've been free of him since mid-October, when I took the day off work, gathered my things, and left. We were living together in the house he bought to share with me, talking about marriage and kids...I know it sounds bizarre, given the abuse, but in his own sick way, he loved me. I never doubted that...and I loved him. If I listed the qualities of my dream guy, I would almost describe him. I dreamed of spending my life with him until he started to physically hurt me.
So here's my problem:
When I left him, I turned off my emotions. If I had let myself feel, I knew I wouldn't have been able to do it. Until this past Saturday, I've been pleasantly numb. I'm very busy, I have a lot of responsibility at work, and I don't have time or energy to waste on being upset. All of a sudden, that logic doesn't seem to be helping, and I find myself biting back tears all the time. I realized that I know only two ways to cope with things: to suppress what I'm feeling completely, or to let it take over.
I have a therapist, but I don't think I'm getting what I need from her. I've seen seven different therapists in my short life and none of them have been able to help me. I'm also on an antidepressant, and STILL having these problems.
I know this is kind of vague, but I don't know what to ask, exactly. I just...need help...any help. Please.
Thanks to all who try. (link)
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Well it sounds like you have been going through a rough time. If you can afford to take a day off from work (or take a sick day) you should stay home and write all your thoughts and feelings down on paper so you can visually see them. Than write down everything you do not like about your ex, and the things you do like. Than think about it and say with all the good qualities remember that there is a man out there for you with all those good qualities than will not have the bad ones that he had. In that day you take off (or a weekend day that you do not work) invite a close friend over or family member who knows you the best, and talk to them. Than afterwards go out somewhere to help distract you and remember time heals pain, and friends and family are always there for you to lean back on. And if bad things never occured in life, we would never appreciate the good things than come our way.
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heey so i just had my period .. i think it was brownish color, will it go to red soon? like blood? (link)
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Yes it is normal for your period to be a brownish. In the beginning and towards the end of your period it may be a light flow so it just may not be a very dark red at first and towards the end because its almost gone. Hope that made sensee!
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