Question Posted Saturday February 26 2011, 6:16 pm
I'm eighteen years old. I dated this guy when i was in eight grade all the way till ninth. He was my first love, and i think i might have been his too i'm not sure. But we were together for a year. I'm with a new guy now, and I love him a lot. I have never had as many feelings for anyone. The guy that i dated when i was younger has tried to get with almost all of my friends. He is about to be with one of my other closest friends. And they have only hung out once and he already loves her. They already kissed and are already holding hands. We went on a double date with my boyfriend yesterday. I don't know why but it bothered me the whole time seeing him with her. I don't want to have feelings for him anymore. I don't care for him when i'm with my boyfriend but when i see him all the memories come back...its been many years and i just need help getting over him. i was hoping maybe someone would know how i can get over those feelings. I don't want to be able to like my boyfriend now at full throttle...
Additional info, added Sunday February 27 2011, 3:48 pm: I meant to say I want to be able to. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DuhxxNina answered Sunday February 27 2011, 12:10 pm: hi, i know exactly how you feel. I have been in your situation before. i did probably not the best thing but i wrote down all of the things he did to hurt me, things that i found a turn off, things i just didnt like, and all the bad and weird things i did not like about him until i relized he was no good for me. if he ever hurt you, or called you fat, or called you anything, or something u find a turn off, things u do not like about him write them down and try to let them over power the good things.. i know this is not the best way but it worked for me.. [ DuhxxNina's advice column | Ask DuhxxNina A Question ]
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