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A friend-Enemy-Friend-Enemy-Friend-& Enemy again!
Okay, here's the problem. There is this girl named Jordan, & she was in my homeroom (7th grade) & so... like we started becoming good friends. She came over & my mom didnt really like her & so she said tht i shouldn't get to attached to her. Well, i did. So we went back & forth being friends & enemies. I got jealous the first time b/c she had her bf in our homeroom & mine was in the other pod (on the other side of the school) so i didnt ever see him. We had a pep rally at school & her & her bf were holding hands & i was jealous b/c i couldnt hold my bfs hand. & i called her bad names over txt. So after a while, we became friends again, but a WEEK l8r, i found out from one of my most HONEST FRIENDS EVER, tht Jordan hated my guts & called me a bitch. So i went off on her & i was like if you hate me guts so much then fine i wont b your friend. & she lied to me & said tht she didnt do tht & this boy had proof tht she did tht. He told me she did.
So, my question: do i need to become her friend again, b nice to her but not get so attached? OR do i just need to not be her friend & find new ones... BETTER ONES!
Thanks.
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You shouldn't become her friend again she lied to
you and called you something she shouldn't have she
said it behind your back none the less and didn't tell you directly which she should have done from the start real friends don't lie and call one another names behind their backs you deserve
better friends one's who will treat you with respect and won't do what she did it was her loss she lost you as a friend she chose to say what she did and it resulted in her loosing a friend find other friends and move on from her :)
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You should find new friends. It's mental abuse what her and YOU are doing to each other. You deserve better friends that aren't two-faced.
You'll find better friends that will give you positive feedback and not call you a bitch behind your back.
But don't find guy friends. They suck.
:)
Good luck.
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