well my best friendis my best friend but she is always goin on at m because i am alot more quite that her an she always says '' oh its always me making the conversation '' an well its kinda annoying tbh so i was wondering what are some good things to say that will make her from saying this again. thanks :)
She's your best friend I can see you don't want to hurt her feelings so boost her confidence. When She says
'' oh its always me making the conversation ''
you reply but your really good at making conversation your such a good communicator. I just get a little stuck because I am shyer than you are. But your teaching me a lot. By all means just add a comment or ask a question when there is a break in the conversation. will get her off your back about it. Asking Questions in short sentances but initiates conversation if answer is short ask "more information" or "How so". This keeps them talking but you are engaging in conversation
Questions start with Who,How What,When, Why & Where. You got to come out of your shell someday your girlfriend will help you come out. Good luck sweetie
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So starting September I began College, I was so stressed I forgot to go to a show I paid 200 dolalrs for. Than my bf parent was drunk and kicked him out so he stayed with me for 2 weeks than he went back as if nothing happened and they didint apologize or talk about or anything. i have lost like all respect for the parent! I still put on a happy face becasue I dont want it interfearing with our 5yr relationship. I am so tight for cash and all I do is wake up go to school come home eat read shower sleep than it all starts all over again. I got very emotional that my bf wasnt calling me back and starting BAWLING! I have not cried like that in Years...and I don't know why I was crying so hard, its so depressing. My bf didnt understand said i was being a baby and he was gonna leave if i didnt stop crying. I started breathing and calmed down. nigh time comes and I can't hold it in anymore I get up from bed go to the kitchen and cry. it's all i know how to do and it isnt making my problems better. How do I stop crying and get a hold of my emotional state. I don't feel anything, im never happy or angry Im just here....I don't know what to do! I'm so stressed. PLZ HELP!
If you are stressed letting it all out certainly helps to get it off your chest nothing wrong with airng your dirty laundry in the privacy of your own home. Your Boyfriend is a bit Cold around the heart to your emotional pain. Where's his sensitive side? You sound very responsible to me keep up the good work This is your life one day you are going to be a grandmother so the bricks you lay down from now on is what kind of a life you want for yourself. if something dosen't work for you... TURF it. You don't need all this extra baggage. Lay down your bricks the way you want to walk the path in your life You sound on track to me so far. If your boyfriend threatens to leave leave you again suggest "That's a good idea". You need comfort if that too much to ask for then have fun at your Mothers. He will not want to do that but you have let him know you are open to his suggestion to leave therefore it's a lame threat. You need a boyfriend who is going to take away your insecurities not add to them A cuddle takes away everything horrible. All you need sometimes is a comforting cuddle when your at breaking point. Take long deep breaths hold for 10 seconds this will bring your blood pressure down if you find yourself getting upset angry or whatever negative vibes. Ask for a reasurring cuddle everything will work out. I hope this helps sweetie Good luck.
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16/f.
So my love life just never seems to work out. I never meet anyone and have it work out between us, y'know. I always seem to get involved with complete pricks, like they seem great at first but they ALWAYS turn out to be manwhores or players, and it's those guys I'm interested in and those guys that are interested in me - trouble is, they're never interested enough to stop being players, they never love me or anything, just fancy me. It's like I have some manwhore-magnet on me or something, that's just the kind of guy I attract. Y'know how when there's more than one girl, a manwhore will pick just one out (because that's their technique it seems), it's like they look at me and decide I'm that one, and I don't know why. And because those guys seem to be my type, I always end up getting messed around, and it happens so much I just feel like giving up now. I never feel quite right when I'm with them either, I feel like I'm somebody else, but not in a good way.
I said how they only fancy me, but that's not the case with everyone. A lot of my close guy mates have fallen in love with me (and I mean love, not just lust or fancying) but I've never felt the same way towards any of them. Which is a shame really, because they're decent guys - not players.
And recently I've met someone who's lovely. I really like him and he actually seems like a nice guy. I guess I havn't known him long enough yet to figure out if he's a player yet, but he doesn't seem like your typical manwhore. All the other guys I got involved with were kind of rebellious and wild, whereas he just seems really kind and friendly. When I'm with him I just feel like he's a really good friend, I literally never stop laughing, and I thought I might have found someone worthwhile. But the thing is, I can tell he just doesn't think of me that way. I'm just a friend to him.
So basically what I'm trying to say is:
I always attract, am attracted to & get involved with manwhores who mess me around. And manwhores always fancy me, but never love me.
The only guys that do fall in love with me are close guy mates who are not my type at all & who I have no feelings for whatsoever.
And when I do meet guys who I actually like and seem genuinely nice and aren't players, they just see me as a friend.
Do you have any idea why? And what can I do?
Ask yourself what kind of boyfriend do I NEED? not want NEED to make me happy.
A)- The shallow Hal kind of guy hot bod no brains no prospects no trust. Maybe have a baby or 2 to him who will treat you like crap & cheat and generally cause misery for the next 2 yrs or so.
OR
Someone with substance who can support confide respect provide protect monogomy help & be a great dad & hubby for the rest of your life?
To hell with it I know who I would pick. You have to give these great mates a chance at least go out have fun a great relationship starts with trust & friendship. Never with confusion & concerns. I know you'll make a good choice You'll know all you need to know to warn your own daughter one day about this very issue. Good luck
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I am in year 8 and i really like this guy. My friends always match me up with him. He never talks to me and he always hungs around with the popular girls. The thing is i don't need a boyfriend but what if he is asken out and i can't do anything about it??
You never know your luck until you try. Your friends are very suportive What have you got to loose. Get your girlfriends to help out by talking to his mates keep them busy whilst you do your thang with the one you like take another hot guy with you to keep the popular girls busy. Good luck
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Freedom of speech is very important and should not be limited, assuming it doesn't offend or hurt others.
How is this relevant/acceptable to today? For example, people in countries without freedom of speech like America have to go through ridiculous things when they do try to speak up or change things. Any specific examples (American, preferably), or anything along those lines..?
I have to write an essay for a scholarship contest about that concept, but I can't think of anything especially moving/that will get me noticed..
Thanks.
IF You want to write something that will be noticed but is a bit of an obvious choice write about china and how most of its people are literally silenced by fear of what there governement will do to them diffenently mention the Australian iron tycoon that was imprisoned in china for allegedly stealling state secretes and was not allowed to any of his basic rights. and the man who stood in front of legion of chinese tanks ( he was on the cover 'time' magazine)it was allegedly said that china tried everything they could to prevent its release. There is a fine line between freedom of speech and terrorism and tyranny
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so my parents are really strict. by my friend is having like 10 girls sleepovver her house the night of her birthday, but before that were just gunna walk around town and stuff until like late. And she told me like 2 weeks ago that her mom said curfew would be at 1230. and then today she asked me if 2 oclock was okay. to which my mom said no obviusly. but since her mom already said 1230 before what changed her mind? so heres what im thinking...
what a lot of my friends do is that since they know my mom will be the first to say no, then if their [parents wont let them do something, they will ask me, knowing my mom will say no, so they can tell everyone it is my mom that said no and not theirs. so i think she was hoping my mom wouldnt let. which is true. but just to see if she was doing what i think shes doing, i told her mom said yes. and she was all "oh really? i thot forsure she would say no" but so far she hasnt told her that her mom wont let. what do i do if her mom realy did say 2? and how to i get people to stop doing this to me?
How old is she? walking the streets at night is not a sleep over to me it getting in to mischief. and 12:30 is way late enough for a whole bunch of female minors. What do you expect to see out there in the middle of the night anyway. If your friend is changing the times I supect she has a hidden agender or just showing off 12:30 is late enough. You do realise that the drunks and bad guys are out this time of night. If you want your friends to stop tricking you into finding out what plan they can hatch just pretend you didn't ask your Mum yet. Get them telling you how they went asking thier Mum leave your cards till last. Put the shoe on the other foot. turn it around don't fold in and buckle. If something goes wrong on your girlfriends birthday bash I supect this will be the last sleep over all of you have. Please Be carefull. don't take sleezy photos they will just end up on the internet o.k. have fun I hope this helps
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im a sophomre in highschool and i use 2 like this guy in freshmen yr and he's a sophomore now. But i've gotten over him just because he changed and act more like a jackass and more of a follower and that i don't appeciate. But when him confronted him and said to him i don't like him no more like i use to and he's not talking to me.
Although he's my former crush i still have questionable feelings 4 him that need be answered because he use 2 like me but never put any effot in trying to get 2 know me better and just brush me aside and now that i brushed him aside and i think he's not feeling the love or friendliness that he use 2 feel. does he deserve the same treatment that he gave 2 me? he played with emotions in law i think you could get sued for that? but you tell me...
He is the beginning of a whole bunch of toads to follow you will probably develop crushes numerous times before you find a husband plenty of time to practice don't get so hook up on a guy so soon that your life stops turning around. I don't think its about how to treat them now all is said and done. You still have to sleep at night. I believe crushes are the beginning of discovering your sexuallity a learning process you have to go through this stuff to learn how to play the game everyone falls the first time. Even the most perfect boy in school gets dumped so does the prom queen from time to time. we all get dumped. Being dumped is better than being cheated on. If you want to get married one day you have to know how the rules go. I know it hurts but you have to go forward take your life by the riegns and forge ahead. Visulise the real prince you want to spend your life with. It's not about controlling it's about TRUST that's the first single most important building block for a relationship. You have to establish trust first and shake hands on it. Good luck with your next crush you have some experience now & you'll be old enough to go on a date too. Cool Fun In the mean time keep up appearances always look your hotty little self be desirable not trashy O.K. develope your own personal style. Things might just start going your way if you make a few changes.
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I got my new puppy, she is six weeks old.
And please don't give me all the crap about her being to young. She eats on her own, and has stoped winning at night.
Any who...
My puppy is a smart dog, an australian sheperd and possibley 1/4 lab but I want to start training her stuff, like the usuall, fetch, sit, etc. But I don't know how to start?
What stuff should will I be able to teach her since she is so young, and what are easy ways to do that.
Your little poochy sounds adorable. Congrats Have you named her yet? on Austar or Fox T.V. Ceasar Milan is a dog whisperer. worth watching if she develops any bad habit. I do know from watching Ceasar I learned these things when you take her for a walk YOU must be the first out the doorway. If the dog goes out first she thinks she is pack leader. you don't want that you have to be pack leader. when walking use a short lead if another dog in street confronts your dog on the street or through a gate lift her head with the lead this changes the brain wave of your dog when a dogs head is low to ground a dog fight will ensue. lift head like you would a show dog. if you want your dog to sit, Hold a treat in your hand place your hand above her face move your hand towards her tail a little bit dogs have to sit to see your hand give her a treat. a small dog bicky Never give your dog human chocholate it makes them quite ill. never give your dog a cooked chicken bones or small chop bones they gulp and choke on them Raw bones O.K. or pig ears to chew on have toys other wise they start chewing on your stuff because thier teeth & jaws need stimulation. play frisbee, when training always treat your dog like a dog not like a child they only understand simple commands not the english language. If your dog goes to bit someone or another dog goes to bite your dog Poke the instigator the aggressive one in the neck with your 2 fingers firmly enough to let them know you pack leader say NO.. in firm voice. When a dog is held down firmly to the ground by the neck you assertain you pack leader she's submissive. a pat is as good as reward than any don't over do the food rewards. A clock under her bedding helps her feel comfort they think it's mum heart beat. place paper on floor when they go to toilet pick them up put them on paper gradually remove the amount of paper over a 2 week period till they grow out of peeing or pooing in the house. Keep disinfecting the floor. If you don't want her pooing on your lawn Place a few bottles of water in a coke bottle on the grass animals don't go to the toilet near a water supply. These dogs like a lot of excersise Have a routine your dog will know it's walky time before you do.I hope this helps. Good luck with you new best friend.
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Well, I decided to wash the bathroom rug last night. I put it in the washing machine because I figured that would get all that nasty grime out of there. Now the water in the washing machine won't come out because the bottom, rubbery part of the rug is stuck in the machine somewhere. I've looked in the machine everywhere but I can't find that rubbery white bottom from the rug! The water just sits in the tub though and I'm afraid I've broken this washing machine for good! My mom bought the washer back in 1996 and it's worked so well every since.
I've washed the bathroom rug in the washer many times now and have never had problems with it before. I just need to know how to get the rubber stuff out, I guess, or should I start saving up to buy a new washing machine?
Have you disconnected the hoses to see if it's blocked there stick a garden hose the other way just like unblocking a vacuum cleaner. I know that euculytus oil disolves chewing gum sticky tape I presume the rubber backing is synthetic rubber. If you cannot get a hold of Euculyptus oil I suspect it will melt the rubber & unblock the hose. I will be happy to post a bottle or 2 to you It's an Australian product it what the Koalas eat But it is highly poisonous to human Never injest it It also is good for colds you splash some on your PJ's & breath the vapours & a lid full in your woollen washes is very refreshing for the fibers. Draino might do it Cautic soda run machine again to thouroughly clean.
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my ex has been playing these games with me for a year and half now (ever since he broke up with me)
how do i get it so hes chasing me instead of me chasing him?
he dated another girl and came back to me and i had him chasing me for like a month this summer, but somehow im again in the vulnerable hurtful position
how do i get him to chase me again?
or how do i tell him without sounding childish that this isnt going to work
its obviously not going to workout because if it was, we had a year and a half to get back together. weve had this whole summer to get back together also when he dumped his new girlfriend who he dated for a month for me. but we never got back together.
whenver i try to talk to him about it, i feel kinda like i sound childish/dumb?
but all i want to do is tell him how i feel. like listen, i dont understand what we're doing here you know? i dont get why we continue talking
how do i tell him how i feel without sounding too upfront/childish or obsessed?
beacuse i dont want to fall hard again (like i think i am now) and then him go and date another girl and break my heart again
we've talked once about things a little bit and he said he still has a lot of feelings for me, but hes not sure what he wants. but thats all weve talked about
What kind of games? Mind games? You need to work out Do you want to have this guys children? If you don't let it go. going out with guys IS the mating game. I read somewhere that girls on the pill choose the wrong guys the pill apparently interferes with the inner equilibrium to choose the perfect mate. worth thinking about. you go on the pill when a relationship is established and the next level is iniment. Can you just lay it on the line once & for all you both need to move on if there is nothing romantic between you both likely. If he does have deep feelings tell him he better put them to good use before it's too late for him. you call the shots. just be confident. Don't speak like a playboy bimbo or anything. prepare yourself before you confront him with an ultimatum. use it or loose it. You've got a life to live.
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okay so i have this white stuff on my vagina it just started like 5 days ago, i do have sex with my boyfriend but we use a condom, what is it?
15/f
Perficly normal It's vaginal mucus it's purpose is to lubricate sex intercourse. If you have sexy thoughts it is stimulated if it is like egg white you are probably ovulating if you are embarrassed you can wear a thin pad or light tampon during special occassions. I use to buy a feminine spray called Femfresh to tone down and freshen any smells of periods and general girly smells etc.
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Relay for Life is a night where we all hang out as a community and "walk" to cure cancer.
www.relayforlife.com
The theme this year is "Rider Walk of Fame: Hollywood." (Rider is our university name.)
Thankssss!!
Can you all dress up as Lucial Ball or Maralyn Monro's or Paris Hilton's Jake the Peg with 3 legs
Look up Jake the Peg by Rolf Harris on u you'll laugh your head off. He's Australia but he lives in England now
www.youtube.com/watch?v=KJleJbn9G6Y -
get a swimmers hat go as a bald Britany spears Sounds like fun though Good luck I hope This helps with some creative thoughts
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does anyone know of any place to get a good strapless bra for bigger chested women. im skinnier and athletic, but i have big boobs. i like to wear strapless shirts, but its hard to find a good strapless bra for big boobs. thanks in advance!
I just surfed the net before & found a site that sold silicone bras that stick on over your bossom no strings attached. Have you tried a lingerie speciality store like "Bra's & Things" or the Ell Macferson range she has the same figure as you do she is large busted with a small waiste. Get them to do a proper measurment first to get the correct cup size. Hope this helps.
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i am a girl, 18 years of age, from india. i met a guy on the internet a few months ago. he's the same age as me. we both live in different cities but are in contact through net and phone calls. he had proposed me about 2 months back, but at that time i had refused because by his behaviour and the no. of girls he's in contact with, i thought he was a flirt. we still continued to be great friends. but i realised that i have fallen in love with him just a few days ago when he stopped calling me or taking my calls. but then, after a few days he told me that he had been out of his town that's why couldn't take my calls. and now he has reduced the no. of times he used to call. please help me, because i dont want to lose him now. even though i know he has many girls there in his life. but i still cant help my feelings for him. i had already rejected him first and now i dont know what to do when i've realised that i too have fallen for him. what should i do? i want him to love me now. will it be possible in any way?
Are you in India or born there & live somewhere else? Bring back the good old days when you met people at the dance. I don't understand this cyber dating thing I just don't like the concept of believing everything I hear Guys tell lies you can tell if you look close enough & listen to the deception I can catch people in lies all the time.
obsevations & story mixups. If it's the truth the story never waivers but lies cannot be told exaxtly the same they always add something or leave something out or change the angle. So I wouldn't get carried away with him guys are supose to chase girls not the other way around. Don't become so desparate that he is the only pebble on the beach because you know that's not true. You will know when your in love and the mind games he's playing he dosen't diserve you. Can you find someone closer to home someone you can talk to face to face have coffee together and date in the real world not the cyber world. Don't beat yourself up over him. find someone you can cuddle up and watch a sunset with that's what love is about spending time together feeling closeness. Good luck sweetie.
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15/f so three of my best friends birthdays are coming up and i have no idea what to get them!
i was going to get one of my friends an ipod since she lost hers (some of us were gonna get together and put in like 20$ for it each) but her parents are getting it for her :/
so basically i need three really good and thoughtfull presents, there all turning 16 and their birthdays are all in the same week.
i got two or them rings last year, so not jewlery...
idk i really cant think of anything, any help would be greatly appreciated! :)
You guys today you love spending toooo much money on each other you can't buy friendship just because it's not $300.00 dosen't mean you care less than Mary or Jennifer does. I totally recommend you make her something on a low budget that has sentimental value she will always love it. leave the expensive stuff for her working parents to buy. If your crafty I suggest you go to U tube and check out the stuff you can make. Or go to a spiritual shop & buy a beautiful candle holder insence burner aroma theropy for her room is $30.00 tops is more than enough to spend. I bought my best friend a gift box for Xmas inside was 2 embossed white face washers a cake of soap and a pretty candle holder it came in an oval blue spotted box $15.00 she was thrilled. I also bought her long trendy scaves with little beads hanging off the end. $5.00 each see it dosen't have to be expensive just thoughtful and useful. Sometimes I just know it when I see it. Check out gift shops they cover a wide range of gifts. My girfriend bout me a gourgious make up bag that looks like the old fashion purses ladies wore in the 18th century it's bright orange with embroided flowers around it & a slim cotton money wallet decorated with embroided dragon flyies on it I just love it. She thought of me and that's the special part. It's not the price it's the thought that counts. the money you saved being ecconomical you can go out to dinner & a movie with her & friends. Hope this helps
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i love to sing but my voice is crap so do you know a site where i can learn to sing like david draiman[the singer for DISTURBED]or like a metal singer for free or cheap
Some people would think his voice is crap. He's a screamer LOL. Anyway I don't think you can learn on a site you would be better off inventing your self by singing along to a U Tube video. Till your perfected your own style. Can you meet up after a pub Jam with a muso or go to a guitar shop they must know someone who can see what you got. Hope this helps
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My aunt has scabies and is really freaking her out, according to my mom. What are scabies anyway? How did my aunt get scabies and how do you get rid of it? I've never seen what scabies look like but I am curious so does anyone have a picture of them or it that I could check out?
Hi I found out I had them 6 mths ago talk about itchy I thought I was having a reaction to the bath products but it got so bad I went to Dr & I was horrified to hear I had scabies. They are a tiny microsopic arachnid Which is 8 legged mite that live under the skin surface. the itch comes from them moving around. The first sign is small pimple like blisters this is the eggs. They lay thier eggs in the crease parts of the body not on the head for some reason. To get rid of them You need a specific lotion from chemist that kills them you may need a perscription. My husband had to paint my entire body front arms legs feet hands fingers let it dry 5 minutes turn over and do back bum legs feet toes. except pubic area 3 nights in a row. This cured the problem. You can contract them anywhere. where there is an infestation touching someone who has them etc apparently they are contagious if you touch the eggs they are microscopic so you would't know till the symthoms start.hope this helps
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what is a "soumpe"???? because my friends said that i have a big soumpe, and then he told me that it meant butt and a girls part. IS IT TRUE??????? because i dont know if i should believe him.. (and idk if thats how you spell it)
When someone wants to say names that make you uncomfortable you have to tell them not to say it.
Please don't say that! I don't like it when you call me that. I couldn't find anything on soumpe except some Norway thing I think it was food so No I think he made it up. Next time he says it tell him If you don't have anything nice to say to me then don't say anything. There's more to me than the skin I live in. Don't be so shallow I find it offensive. IF soumpe means BIG BUTT Kim Kadashian & Beyonce have whopper's & it's their best assets. Dose it make them feel better putting you down? Are they really friends or are they out of line? Stand up for your self esteem. don't believe anything negative unless it's constuctive critisism. This is not constructive critisism. Your beautiful indide & out that's what matters. Hope this helps.
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I'm only 16 years old ,I as well have a 6 year old sister.
My mom is a drug attitic and was sober for 4 monthes after a 9 month relapse,which was the worst time of life for me.
Recently she began using again,she yells at me for NO reason,throws my stuff,tells me all this bad negative stuff and doesn't understand how much it hurts me .She usually goes in the middle of the night to get drugs and it wakes me up and I end up crying all night .She never cleans the house when shes on drugs and leaves it to me to do.She blames everything on me and just thinks everything is my fault and she promises all the time that shes done and she lies about it and covers it up with some story.I'm such a happy girl,I've never smoked and never done drugs and I don't need this negativity in my life.My father used to be a drug attitic as well but he doesn't yell at me or blame me ,he understands me...yet he just doesn't do anything.He lives with his mother now,so I can't turn to him.
She's gotten close to hurting me before ,but she hasn't...yet im scared.
She thinks that when shes on drugs,that she's no different from when she's not on them.Obviously thats false.I sometimes pack my stuff and stay at a friends house,but sometimes she threatens that If i dont come home,she won't give me money for things like food,clothes,etc. So I end up coming home,even though I just wanna stay out with my friends.
Please help!,im trapped and alone
You are such a strong & responsible young lady & you should not feel threatened in your home least of all by your mum. Drug and alchol addiction is always a destructive cycle. Do you have a kids crisis line you can call? Why can't you & your sister stay with your Dad & Nanna? Your Mum needs help & you are not able to provide her with the professional help she needs. so you might have to consider tough love. She is emotionally blackmailing you to keep you under her control. Her life is out of control. I feel so sad for you & your little sister. Can you secretly video her have a video diary show her how bad your situation is show her she is too unstable to have you in her care. she not showing you 2 care she is destructive self indulgent. She should be running the house not the children. Can you seek out a trusted friend parents to guide you in this process of sorting this mess out You cannot go on like this. when you leave home your sister is still vunerable for even more abuse. Save yourselves even if you cannot save your Mum she has to save herself. Good Luck Sweetie I'm praying for all of you. Seek help from a trusted source.
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What is a good dish to bring to a potluck dinner? I am going to one this weekend and I STILL haven't figured out what I want to bring. I want to bring a dish that most people will enjoy so I guess something not TOO extravagant, you know? What are some really good, delicious ideas for dishes to bring to a potluck? THANKS!
I love taking Vegies in complimentry sauces because people don't think of vegies They are so yummy and cheap enough to make heaps of it.
My personal favourite is Potatoe Bake Continental make a sauce where you just add water pour over sliced potatoes cover with cheese and bake 30 min
easy as falling off a log. I also love the taste of baked vegies so I cut up into small cubes Pumkin carots potatoes sweet potatoes spray with oil and grill turning when needed. also Boil 1/2 a cauliflower or brocholli till just tender not too much. put all vegies in a large serving dish pour over Hollandaise sauce also a packet sauce from continental from supermarket you just add boiling water water. I hope this helps.
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