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Hey Everybody!! If you need any questions answered, I'm the one to ask! :) I do give advice to my friends and everything, so I think I can handle anything you throw at me! So, ask and I'll give you an answer as soon as I can!! About me:
I like punk rock music, hangin out with friends, and shoppin!
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Simple Plan
Yellowcard
Newfound Glory
Maroon 5
Ashlee Simpson
Ryan Cabrera
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All American Rejects
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Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?
If you know your boyfriend won't do anything with her, then he won't let her hook up with him. If hes really a good boyfriend and won't hurt you, you have nothing to worry about. And if shes a true friend, she wouldn't do that. I think if you don't get to talk to her much you should invite her, friends last... but relationships don't ALWAYS last.
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okay so there is this boy that i went out with b4 as friend he was really rough like we always wrestled and stuff and i just thought it was his way of flirting so i let it go when he asked me out i said yes cuz i thought the rought stuff would cool down but it didnt and that lead to a break-up. but now i really miss him. and i found out he likes me back and so i really wanna go out wit him again but im scared that hes still just as rough with me! how can i get him to treat me more gentle and not like"one of the boiz"?
please help me asap!
Guys do tend to do that a lot to many people. Just tell him that you don't like to be so rough with him and that you aren't one of the boys. If he gets offended then tell him that it wasn't his fault, but you just kinda feel uncomfortable when he is too rough. good luck :)
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im going out with this gurl hoo lives aways off but there is another gurl i like that lives closer to me but i never see the one that lives out of townbut i cant get ahold of her should i just say im breaking with out her nowing causs i dont have her # wat do i do and i like this other gurl.
If you like a different girl.. you need to get ahold of the other girl because if she doesn't know you broke up with her, then she is gonna think shes going out with you, and rumors could get started and ruin it with the new girl you like. I hope I helped!
I've been really depressed since i graduated middle school back in june, but its not really obvious to my friends and family. Well, maybe it is, but they don't really ask me about stuff, and let me know that they can tell i'm depressed. I dunno if i'm ever going to feel better, and I just wanted to know if anyone had tips of moving on from a broken heart.
Thank you.
If your family and friends aren't saying anything, they probably notice, but think you'd be offended by them asking you if you were depressed. If you feel depressed you need to tell them... they can help! Moving on from a brokenheart takes time... Just wait it out!! :) Good luck!!
idk what to do any more me and this guy went out for a while and i really liked him....but we lived like 20 mins away from eachother,so0o he did this to me 3 times...he keep sayin i dont know if we should still go out any more and by the 3 time he broke up with me.....he broke my heart 3 TIMES and he told me he still loved me and all that and i met another guy like a week ago that i started to really like and ((this other guy that broke my heart was goin to ask me out again and i felt so0o bad that i didnt love him any more and every ones like yellin at me b.c i wouldnt go back out with him ((even though he hurt me more then i hurt him)) what should i do to make him be my friend HELP ????
If they don't understand he hurt you so many times you don't wanna take the chance of getting hurt, then just ignore them. This is between you and the guy who hurt you. If you don't want to be more than friends with him, then tell him that. If he gets mad, he'll get over it! Also, tell all of your friends that its your choice, not theirs, they can't force you to go out with someone that you don't want to. Good Luck!
guys- is there any signs/actions a guy does to show that he is real and true, and hes not just trying to get some?
Usually if a guy really does love you, he'll tell you constantly, and he won't do stuff with ppl behind your back, If he wanted some, I think you'd know!! So if you don't have any suspicions, Then he's probably for real! The best thing you can do is ask him about it, if he really does love you he'll tell you the truth!
hay..im 15 yrs old and i have the biggest crush on one of my friends (shawn)..the thing is, he likes one of my best friends, Nicole, and he likes another girl, Whitney,..Whitney doenst really like him..she just tells him she does so she can make him do w/e she wants and everyone knows this and we tell shawn alll the time but he just doesn't accept it..my friend nicole doesnt like him either..and she knows that i've liked him for the longest time..and i've told him this lastnight cuz we were havin a little 'confession' thing lastnight when we were talkin on AIM and he was tellin me about nicole and whitney and how he liked them so i told him that i liked him but then i changed the subject cuz i was upset about him liking the other 2 girls....i dunno what to do! ive been upset all day..can u help me?!
Maybe he just doesn't want to admit he likes you cuz hes afraid that it could hurt your friendship if someone ended up getting hurt. The best thing you can do is just talk to him about it, see how he feels about it. If he doesn't seem interested in you, theres nothing you can do, just be yourself around him, and be the best friend to him you can be. :) I hope i helped!
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Megan
ok recently one of my good friends has broke up with her boo, lets just say his name is "paul". well "paul" n her hate eachother now, but i started talking to "paul" online n im starting to like him n i can tell that he likes me...and we also sent eachother our pictures so were not hiding anything...the only problem is that i have a boyfriend...but i really like "paul" too, then today i found out that they are friends again..i mean i know for a fact that they wont go out again anytime soon but i am so confused i dont know what to do!!!
If you like "Paul" then you should definately find out if he likes you. If he does, then Im sure things could work out between you two. Its probably a good thing they're friends again so you wouldn't be dating her ex b/f that she hates, and won't be mad/as mad. Also, talk to her about it, she what she has to say. If you like your boyfriend, then stay with him, but if "Paul" is the better one for you, then go for it! Its all a matter of choices. :) Good luck!!
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- - ok, me and my best guy friend Mike keep getting in fights over shtuff. Like EVERY SINGLE time i talk to him, he has to bring up his girlfriend, who is like one of my friends and he KNOWS I HAVE THIS MAJOR CRUSH ON HIM!! and we always get in a fight over it, cuz how would you feel if you asked your best guy friend out *not the brightest thing to do i guess* and he said no he isn't "ReadY" and then went and asked out your friend..? My god!! and now i dunno what to do, cuz i'm sick of fighting with him......
what do i do?
Signed..
- Stupid Best girl friend
If he says hes not ready, then he means hes not ready to go out with YOU, because he doesn't want you to be hurt if something happens.. and then possibly ruin your friendship. Just talk to him about it, make him understand how you feel about it. If he doesn't, then just wait it out.
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~M.e.g.a.n.
okay, well i'm a 14/f and i hate my thighs cuz they're pretty fat *im a size 9* i've tried eating right, i usually run 2.8 miles 2-3 times a week, i play sports almost everynight and i do thigh excercises in bed..nothings working...does anyone know of any really good excercises i could do to slim down the tops of my thighs? thanks, and i will rate all advice.
I know exactly what you're going through, I have the SAME problem. The only thing you can really do is just try to eat right, and keep up on the leg excercises. good luck!
aim: cheermms24
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ok..i'm 15..im seeing this guy who's 16..and i really like, ok well love him and everything's so perfect right now..BUT i've never made out with any1..i've been the type of girl always into sports, school..not really had time for boyfriends or serious relationships..BUT he thinks i have "french-kissed" some1 and i feel dumb telling him
OKay, first, you won't look dumb, and if he really likes you then he won't care!!! And if you just tell him that you never have, maybe he'll be happy that he's your first, And then if you don't tell him, he'll never find out, so either way you're fine!! :)
Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?
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Well, if shes talking about him all the time, she probabaly has feelings for him again. Why don't you just ask her why she talks about him so much, in a nice way so she doesn't get offended. Then if she does like him, encourage her to ask him out, or hang out with them both at the same time. Good luck!!
ay yea um u know me :) but uh..i need adivice cuz i'm goin thru a CRISIS...i like this girl named ...cant say and she dont think itd work out between us cuz its uh..long distance..but i really would make it work for her b/c i like her alot and i jus wanna make it work :( but...i jus....i dk...
okay.. If the girl doesn't think its gonna work out, then shes not the one for you. Long distance relationships work, but only if both people are willing to make it work.
Hope I helped................
my bestfriend has a crush on this guy thats one year older then us and i think i like him too...b/c like every time im with him he turns me on somehow..i don't want to let my friend down but i don't think that boy even like my bff and i dun think he likes me ethier...wat do i do?
I don't think you should make a choice that would hurt your friendship.. especially if shes your bff like you said. You should talk to her and ask her how she feels about it, and then maybe ask him how he feels about you.. and then how he feels about her.
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i liked this *casey* like a month before school ended. and then when it did end i barely saw him or talked to him cuz he was on vacation alot. he would call me sometimes and would talk to him on the computer. i just couldnt like him that much anymore cuz i barely saw him. i found out like mayb a month ago he did like me but i dunno if it waz true or not. then i saw him last friday at the mall n we were talkin n all this stuff. i realized dat i still like him alot. i found out that he did still like me. this girl *danielle* likes casey too. basically shes obsessed wit him. i told her if he did ask me out i wuldnt b/c of how much she likes him. i realize now that was a big mistake and i told casey i liked him last night.. n now hes gonna ask me out and i really wanna say yes but i alredy told danielle i wuldnt.. wat shuld i do.. sorry so long
Okay, you told one person you'd say no, but then you really wanted to say yes. It seems to me you just didn't know what to do.. so you lied.. but on accident. So first thing, just try to tell Danielle that you really like Casey, and you think you're not doing something for her, but for you.. and she should understand.
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Okay I liked this boy that i worked with and he gave me a ride home from work and we had sex well after that he doesnt really talk to me much and when he does all he talks about is sex and I just wanted a relationship with him but i dont think he wants that .. So im still crushing him alot but i dont think he is crushing me so i need some advice like should i still be stuck on him and how do i get over him its so hard! Thanks
Okay... If all this boy talks about is sex, then thats all he wants. If he doesn't talk to you much then when he does, thats the only thing he talks about... thats kinda obvious thats all he wants! You should definately lose this guy and find someone thats in the relationship for you, not for sex. Good luck!
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OK. this is more of a problem for my friend. She used to be the happiest person and always nice and friendly. But i slowly watched her change. now she is constantly unhappy and she is always being mean. i really miss the old her. i asked her why she is like this. she said its because she has no self confidence. how can she get her confidence back so that shes the girl i used to know?!
Okay, if she has no self confidence, then find out what she doesn't have self confidence about, weight, looks, ect. and then once you find out, work with her on it.. if its weight why don't you both join a fitness club together and you guys can just buddy up and workout together. If she doesn't want to go out in public, try a workout tape. Now if its looks.. just make her feel good about herself, theres no such thing as an ugly girl... so compliment her, but mean it when you do.
I hope I helped~
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Last year my step-dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor. (cancerous) And since then everything has changed-- which i expected. But i didnt expect my whole family to get so uptight about things. I mean, hes not fully cured ( never will be ) but hes still living.. i want to show them that he can still have fun!!! How do i help them understand that it would be bettter for everyone if they let him out a little more? ik.. its a weird question, but i need some advice..
~ cori
You are absolutely right, if he's sick, he needs to get out an enjoy life! Try telling your idea to your family.. they'll most likely understand. Tell them how you feel, and tell your step-dad how you feel also! Be completely honest with your ideas and don't hold back.. good luck!!
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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???
Okay, Sorry this is happening in such a bad time, and it must be really hard for you. If your friend is really a best friend she should understand that you are going through a really tough time and that you don't always have time just for her, but just try to apologize for not showing up, if she's a true friend, she'll understand.