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Hey!I'm Casey and i live in Rhode Island.Feel free to ask me anything or to im me!
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: xoCaseyox27
Member Since: April 23, 2005
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Last Update: June 18, 2006
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
Don't give in !What happens if the wedding doesn't happen?you'll be broken hearted!If he keeps persisting and it bothers you i think you should leave him!
Casey out!


14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx. (link)
I think maybe you should ask him to start calling you instead of you always calling him.
Casey out!


ok the guy who im basicaly going out with and we are inlove well he called me crying from work and he told me he doesnt know whats wrong and he is thinking about suicide and stuff and he just wants the world to die basically but i dont know why i need help to figure out what to do he is going to come over to my house in like three hours and i need to think of something fast and i want to know what is wrong does anyone have any clue or knows what im going throug??? (link)
I think you should try some serious supporting to him and just listen to what he has to say!
Casey out!












Last night I did this really hard aerobics class at my gym and i am sooo sore that it hurts everywhere everytime i move...is there anything i can do to make the soreness go down?...thanks (link)
I know how you feel i used to take karate!Try both of these:either put heat on your sore spots or put lots of ice on your sore spots!
Casey out!


I'm 13 and my brother is 15. He picks on me a lot and sometimes makes me mad but i love him very much. I just wish we were closer. I try to talk to him but he don't talk to me much. How do I get my brother and me to be closer? (link)
I think you should just ingore his rude remarks and I want to let you know the fighting between you is normal!
Casey out!


Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?! (link)
I don't think it is a good idea to ask her out again i think you should just move on and forget her.If she can't see how good hearted you are she doesn't deserve you!
Casey out!


my friends mom is lets say not the nicest person in the world. my friend comes into school with bruses (not big ones but they shoulden't be there in the first place) and fingernail marks on her. i ask her and she just says her mom and her got in an argument, and not to worry, but i do. i really want to help her but i don't know what to do. please help (link)
You should tell her how serious abuse is and ask her if her mom is abusing her. If she doesn't tell you anything then tell her you'll report this to your guidance counsolor.If she still doesn't tell you anything report it to the guidance counsolor right away!
Casey out!


when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true? (link)
What your feeling is normal i used to feel the same way!And yes you will find love eventually.But be patient and don't force yourself to love!
Casey out!


I need to know if my husband is cheating.I am 23 and he is 20. We have a 4 month old son and have been married almost a year. He is working out of state( In Florida and I'm in Texas) and living with a bunch of his single friends. We had been having problems even before he left, but since he got there we have been fighting constatntly over the phone.If he decides he's done talking he will hang up and either turn his phone off or just ignore my calls and text messages. He always seems to be busy (working, eating, showering, going to the gym,ect.) There are times when I can't get a hold of him and he tells me he left his phone in the other room. We had an argument and he truned his phone off all night. I recieved a text message to my phone the next morning that read" sorry about last night. My baby's mom was calling all night so I turned my phone off." He claims it was his friends playing a joke and that they did teh same thing to another guy too. However, He was not even angery about it. He seemed to not care at all. Of course he denied cheating. That same day I discovered pictures of naked girls dancing on a bar on his phone while online. He says his brother took them because he didn't have a camera phone. What should I think? Is he cheating? How can I catch him when he's so far away? Your advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
I thinkyou should try whatever you can tosolve your problems with him and go to counsiling TOGETHER.whatever you do try not to split up for your sake and your son's!!!


im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do. (link)
I think you should sit your friends and him down and tell them all that you want to spend time with them all.Then you could spend time with both your friends and him and set aside time for just your friends and time for just him.
Casey out!


ok well last night i went somewhere and after, i went to this guys house.. we were alone and stuff and we did some sexual stuff... but like i mean i have a boyfriend... and i totally hate myself for doing this to him... i dont want to tell him, but what if someone finds out and tells him...help? (link)
You should tell your bf because if you don't tell him and someone else does...he'll be really mad!if you tell him he'll realize it took u a lot of courage just to tell him.Then he'll forgive you!
Casey out




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