no you cant get AIDS from that. just make sure you keep it clean by putting acohol on the ear with the earing still in yoiur ear becuase if you take it out it might close up. just keep it clean and you should be fine. i do believe you can get blood samples from the doctors office. it would just be like a normal blood test.

this was so me. i was so scared and i hated looking at them and everything. i understand you. what i did is i just did. i was so scared but then im like, "you know what, lets just go for it." hes just like you and me. so i go and say hi and you know we started a conversation and i became a whole lot more comfortable around guys for that moment. then he asked me to come hang out with him.i was so freaked. i asked my friends about it and my older sister and all they told me was just to be myself, have confidence, enjoy it, and that all he is is a friend and nothing more than that.thats all you have to do. dont be afraid of a friend. once you talk to him more and more, you'll always want to talk to him and you'll become best friends and who knows maybe more than friends. i understand that you like him but just do it. TALK to him. its not as hard as it really seems.once you do it it will be like," WOW i did it!" and you'll happy and then after like couple three times you will so much better. what i wanna say is just start slow. think of him as JUST a friend. hes not your boyfriend just a friend. i feel bad becuase there is really nothing more i can say. i didnt get much info but you'll figurer it out. guys are just like you and me.

Well i hope i did my best on answering your question. i was so excited!! just be confident, be yourself, enjoy the time with him, just remeber he's just a friend and i have another one. RELAX!!! it would be up there in the paragrah but my computer is acting funny. Relaxing is the key!! thats a big one. hope everything works out and ill be happy to answer more of your questions. let me know how it goes!!

Bluebell78

http://exercise.about.com/od/abworkout1/
this gives you a list on the site and if you cant get on it type in on google ab workouts.

i have been thinking about it and that is pretty serious. he could be very sick. try changing up his. maybe it the food your feeding him. look it up on the internet and see what it could be. i am dog lover it just wants to make me cry. i hope goes okay. try talking to one of your friends and see if they know a vet by anychance so they can talk to them about it. good luck and i hope your doggie is okay.

now you know the right thing to do would be to help them and not to tear them apart by talking about eachother. its really not worth losing your friendship over this. i just wouldnt talk to him as much. im not rying to be mean or anything but i think the reason your getting jealous is becuz he is such a great guy and everyone gets jealous. dont take that personally. you have to be happy for her. keep helping them. its the right thing to do. just dont talk to him to much so he doesnt make you go over the edge with jealousy.another thing. try just to be with your friend without her boyfriend more often if you dont do so allready. that should cool you off.

hes prob. nervous. it prob took him alot of courage to ask you out. like the other girls said he may want you to make a move. who knows he could be freakin out becuz YOU havent called him! call right now.

i think hes a little tipsy at times or he has girlfriend because if he doesnt remember what he said i think he is tipsy (drunk) now if he denies because he has girlfriend and hes playin you then thats weird. i wouldnt stop talking to him. i say just be friends and just dont be all gushy. just talk to him like a friend becuz if he still does that deny thing that would get real annoying to me. now i think he may have lied a little about not having a girlfriend. thats alittle weird for me so im just gonna have to say just be friends.

i fell your pain except im not comming back to my school where my crush is. i think (just like me) your feelings are so strong for him and you hate not seeing him everyday or talking to him or whatever. i think when you feel sad its becuase you wish you could see him everyday and talk to him. you love talking to him on the computer but it isnt enough. you have to see him. i dont know how long this will be becuz like i said i going through this too but all we can do is hang in there. hey. at least you can still talk to him. well your fun on trip. honestly i think that you'll forget all about. thats what i do when i have so much fun. i forget everything and wish that time would never end. you'll get over. i think i am a little bit. once your with your friends you wont even think about it. the only thing you'll prob think about is when its time to go home and the fun is all over. i think just a phase. everybody like us will get through it. i hope fun on your trip and believe me you wont think about it. have as much fun as you possibly can!! HAVE A GREAT TIME!! if you want to ask me any questions please go ahead.

Bluebell78

dont worry about it becuase it happens to everyone. its just not completly finished. its slowing itself down. give it about 2-3 days and when your done with your period and you think its over and you dont have a pad on, make sure you have panty liners. they are like mini pads. they're just for coverage.

if your hard worker then you should accomplish your goal. yeah i feel you. im getting into shape for soccer and thats alot of work too. anyways. try running ALOT!! go to the park and jog around it or just go jogging. abbs-25 crunches. legs- running,walking,leg lift. arms-punches. you know you can run up and down the stairs for about 10 times. if you dont have weights, i was watching a special and they said use like detergent bottles that are kind of heavy lifting them with the liquid in them or you can use orangec or something. jumping jacks about 30. run in place as fast as you can. drink WATER! eat healthy foods. NO JUNK FOOD!! buy salad and good dressing eat healthy fruit, make a little pasta, healthy bars like healthy K bars or Nature Valley bars something that is good for you. you dont have to give up everything just get things that are more heathier. you can also but this drink its called crystral light and you can take those with you if you go jogging. tip- when you talk on the phone walk around a little bit. thats good too. you can make up your rotuine too. if you dont get enough info you can look this stuff up too. google it or whatever. ok i hope i helped and good luck!!

Bluebell78

i was just like that when i was 14. im over it now. anyways just go up to him. hes just a person like you and me. start little by little. first just go up and say hi. when your done its like glad thats over. then later when you see him ask him how hes doin. then ask later when you see him like hey got anything special goin on this week and just work your way up. i understand your shy and i dont think that your upset about the way you look. you just arent used to talking to your face to face. you know what. if he comes up to you and starts talking to you face to face. dont be scared. hes your friend. talk to him like how you would talk to your friends even though hes a boy. just face your fear. i know its really hard but just try that. when he talkes to you face to face make up and excuse and then work your way from there. thats all i can say. reall yhoped i helped and i want to know that i helped you. and if i didnt help so much im sorry. but there you go. just make a method or something. if you hav more questions please ask me or email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com

I think he is trying to get both of you. hes trying to get you with him and when he would get you, you wouldnt care that he had a girlfriend and you would be like a slut and wouldnt care. then with his girlfriend, if she found out you and him were together too, he would breakup with one of you. Its kinda hard for me to explain but ill put it like this. i think hes a player. hes playin both of you. honestly he doesnt need to be doing that if he has girlfriend. he can be your friend but he flirting. tell him " Hey! you have a girlfriend. you dont need to be flirting with me its not right. i can be your friend but nothing more." and he will need to understand that. and if you tell him that and he's still doing his best to flirt with you, leave him alone. its not worth getting between his relationship with him and his girlfriend and then destroying it. Let him do it with some other girl but not ok! just tell him. make up what your gonna say. but he needs to stop if he has a girlfreind. well i hope i helped and if you have anymore questions please ask me or email me at hsmfan15xo@yahoo.com. good luck!!

Bluebell78

No i dont think you should give up your relationship up about a boy but i know what you mean. sit down and talk to her and tell her how it makes you feel. tell her you dont enjoy and and would like to tell him that its not nice and stuff. just talk to her on the phone and tell her it hurts and have her talk to her boyfriend. hope i helped!!

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