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How am i supposed to act around guys?
okay so i know this guy and we used to know each other before and now i live right by him. Im fourteen and hes 15. He asked to hang out and he'll "show me around town" but im a shy person and i havent had much "experience" being around guys..especially being just me and a guy..i know i should be myself..but ill be nervous and i dont want to sound stupid..
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this was so me. i was so scared and i hated looking at them and everything. i understand you. what i did is i just did. i was so scared but then im like, "you know what, lets just go for it." hes just like you and me. so i go and say hi and you know we started a conversation and i became a whole lot more comfortable around guys for that moment. then he asked me to come hang out with him.i was so freaked. i asked my friends about it and my older sister and all they told me was just to be myself, have confidence, enjoy it, and that all he is is a friend and nothing more than that.thats all you have to do. dont be afraid of a friend. once you talk to him more and more, you'll always want to talk to him and you'll become best friends and who knows maybe more than friends. i understand that you like him but just do it. TALK to him. its not as hard as it really seems.once you do it it will be like," WOW i did it!" and you'll happy and then after like couple three times you will so much better. what i wanna say is just start slow. think of him as JUST a friend. hes not your boyfriend just a friend. i feel bad becuase there is really nothing more i can say. i didnt get much info but you'll figurer it out. guys are just like you and me.
Well i hope i did my best on answering your question. i was so excited!! just be confident, be yourself, enjoy the time with him, just remeber he's just a friend and i have another one. RELAX!!! it would be up there in the paragrah but my computer is acting funny. Relaxing is the key!! thats a big one. hope everything works out and ill be happy to answer more of your questions. let me know how it goes!!
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