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Age: 15
Member Since: August 2, 2004
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Last Update: August 31, 2004
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i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her?

It shouldn't b a big deal 2 ask her. She went thru the same thing @ 1 point, and she should totally understand. Don't worry about it! Just go up 2 her and ask!

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Hi im a 16 year old girl and I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we dont really talk, and i can tell my friends think i should break up with her, but i really like her and i want to go out with her but i want us to talk more what should i do?

Just talk. Try calling this girl up and striking up a conversation w/ her, or if u guys aren't phone people, talk on instant messanger or through emails. Even better, try talking 2 her in person. Just try 2 keep the conversations flowing. Talk about things u are both interested in and that should help. Good luck!

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How can i make a website that is for free?? I use 2 have aol but i don't have aol anymore so i wanted to make a new website...anybody kno what i can do??

www.4t.com // www.geocities.com // Try 1 of those websites! U can make ur own FREE website!

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ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1

Ya, I know wut ur saying. It's possible 2 b *in love* @ such a young age... but most likely a lotta these kids aren't. They don't realize the difference of *loving* sum1 and being *in love* w/ sum1. O well... they'll (eventually) learn...

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all my friends have got got boyfriends and i havent (im 14 and female), i havent even been with someone, n im scared that they will call me frigid, my mates boyfriend keeps saying 2 me that his mate will go out with me but ive neva met him n i dont wanna go out wit him either.

has any1 got any advice for me???

Don't worry about not having a boyfriend yet. Ur only 14, and still got many years ahead of u. Wait 4 a guy that u really care about and really like... it's probably better not 2 go out w/ this guy u've never met. Ur gonna find an awesome boyfriend 1 day, so just keep ur chin up and wait it out.

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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

Ya, I know how that is, and it's hard. This is sumthin that I believe, so it might b no help 2 u, but I'll say it anyways... It seems as tho if ur waiting 4 sum1, sum1 willbe waiting 4 u. That "special" some1. Not exactly a soul mate, but the person u were meant 2 b with. If u keep waiting (which I think is a good thing) ur sure 2 find an awesome guy who is still a virgin. Good luck!

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months.... and we met at church camp where i asked jesus into my heart for the first time.. and that totally changed my life.. but then when we got home all reality came back.. i had used to be really bad.. such as have sex and drink... and well now i stopped all that and my boyfriend is really religious... and he found out about all that and he told me that when you ask jesus into your heart the first time all your sins from that past are forgiven... and he told me he loves me for who i am now and my past doesnt matter to him.... but now.... we were like in my pool and he get touchy feely.. and im not like that anymore.. we still didnt do anything or anthing. .but it scares me cuz i think that he might try to do something i dont want to.... and also... people sign his buddy profile guest boook telling him lies about me haveing sex with a 21 year old and stuff like that... and he still worries.. and ill tel lhim they arnt true.. but it still bothers him.. i dont know what to do... and my parents are leaving for a week and ofcourse me n him are ganna hang out... i just dont wanna do anything that we will regret... and i dont know how to tell him that without embarrasing him.... please help me!!!!!

WOw, I know how that is. Suprisingly, I've gone through pretty much the same thing (meeting the boy when I asked 4 Jesus, I used 2 b bad, the boy is very religious, the boy getting touchy and so on). Anyways... it sounds like this guy really cares about u if he's willing 2 not look @ all the stuff that has gone on in ur past. With that, plus with him being religious, if sumthin starts 2 happen that u don't want 2, just tell him "no." I truthfully think he'd respect u if u felt like things were going 2 far. Let me know how everything works out and good luck with him!!

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Im attracted to mr. clean i always have been. and im only 13 idk, theres somthing about a nice, bald shinny head that turns me on. what should i do?

Hmmm... that's slightly... odd... maybe ur just attracted 2 bald guys... go find a bald boyfriend. Either that, or good luck w/ Mr. Clean. :-/

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I have an oppsetion i have to mow the lawn everyday my parents are really worryed about my problem what should i do?????

Hm... come mow my lawn 4 me? Haha jk. I don't think this is really a problem... if it is... then go see a psychiatrist.

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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.

I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.

Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time??

Pot is NOT a good idea. First of all it is so bad 4 ur health, and 1 day u are most likely going 2 get caught doing it. U should b trying 2 help ur b/f get offa pot, cuz even tho it looks fun, it is extremely addicting and horribly bad 4 u. Even tho u might only try pot once u most likely will get addicted. You MIGHT get lucky an dwon't be... but u shouldn't take the chance. Sorry, I don't mean 2 preach, but it's best just 2 stay away from pot all 2gether.

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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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Ya, that's pretty normal. Around the time of ur period ur emotions tend 2 freak out a lil bit... meaning that u start crying over little things, or get mad over little things, or even get overly happy sometimes. Don't worry about it. If u really think u have a problem then try talkin 2 ur mom or a doctor and they can help u out.

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see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!!

If he likes u anough 2 break up w/ his g/f AND ask u out in front of the girl he just broke up with, I would say GO 4 IT! Truthfully tho, it's up 2 u. If u really like him then I would say yes, but if u know that u don't have feelings 4 him, u don't wanna lead him on 2 believing sumthin that's not true. Good luck and let me know how it turns out!

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anybody have good quotes dealing with community??

www.firehotquotes.com // Try there!

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I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know

It's best 2 be honest w/ ur parents if u are truthfully bi. Ur parents love you (or I'd hope so) so they would love you no matter wut. Just sit them down and tell them and that should be enough. Good luck! Let me know how everythign works out!

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what is the average size for a male erected penis?

It depends... but usually around 6 inches. The average kinda ranges tho between 5 and a half to 8 inches tho.

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can you get pregnant 2 weeks before your period?

Omgosh yes. Use protection or w/e if u plan on having sex. Always b safe.

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When I get period on my underwear, I try to rinse it out in the sink as soon as possible. My question is this-- should I use hot water to rinse it or cold? I've heard both opinios for the following reasons:

*You should use hot water because it will rinse it out better.
*You should use cold water because hot water will cause it to set and then it will be stained. So I guess my question is, is this true?

Cold water is better bcuz the hot water will set the stain. When u use cold water, even tho it all might not come out, when u put it in the washer that will get most of the rest of it out. Stay away from the hot water.

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I just started giving advice TODAY. And already I've given like tons of advice! Am I addicted? Lol! xDD

Haha... when I first got on here I had an addiction or sumthin 2... or so it seemed like. Lately I haven't been on as much tho. Haha. Well, have fun here! If ya ever got any questions (about anything) let me know! :-D

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Where can I get music for my Xanga? thanks

www.xanga.com/xanga_music // Try there! That's where I get all of my music!

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hey im 12 and like 5'2 or 5'3.. :not sure: and im 107.. bvut i think i lost a lil weight.. wuts the normal weight for this hieght?
xox CraZyBBie

www.am-i-fat.com // Check there.

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