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You can call me.
Erin Lynn.


Chances are, I'm going to judge you once in your lifetime, and chances are you're not going to like it.



I'm 16, but somedays I act older and somedays I act younger. I live my life on a day to day basis,& there's not a day that goes by that I don't make a mistake. I'm not perfect, and it shows. I'm hypocritical, impatient, and at times a little bit vain and trust me sometimes it really backfires against me.



I love peanut M&M's, sunflower seeds, 90's country music, and taking long road trips with no destination. I'm a sucker for a country boy, and if he drives a big, loud, chevy truck, he's stolen my heart.

advice

My friend and I are planning on throwing a party where there will be about 10 girls 10 guys, or more, but like even amounts of each.

But we wouldn't want it to be boring, so what could we do?

Well how old are you? If you're younger, you could try playing something like spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven, or some sort of game like that. Or maybe you could rent some movies and all watch movies. It really depends on your age.

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there is a boy his name is sam and i like him how do i tell him that i like him without acually talkin to him

Well, no offense, but the relationship probably won't be that successful if you don't tell him face to face. But if you really are that shy, you can try doing it over IM, MySpace, or leaving a note in his locker?

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Well, im very popular and stuff but like im not very pretty.
Ive never had a boyfriend and im pretty sure none of the boys like me,I just wanna make myself look alot prettier , ive got blonde hair and hazel green eyes and im tall.
Any tips that guys might long for?
And what are some things i can do to change my attitude?
im really loud and im funny .. sometimes.lol

Well, do you wear make up? If you don't, you can start. Just wear the basics, eyeliner, mascara, foundation. If you don't know how to put any of those on, just leave me a question in my inbox, and I'll help you out.

Do you straighten your hair? I think straightening your hair makes a person prettier. If you don't know how to do that either, send me a question to my inbox.

What about your clothes? Maybe you should try more stylish clothes or something? That could make you feel prettier and show off your tallness.

As for your attitude, I don't think you need to change it. Everyone likes loud and funny people, they're the center of attention usually. But if you want, you could try being quieter, and just listening to people and being more respectful. I don't really know.

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What happens when you take pain killers just for emotional pain?? What will happen?? will it make me feel any better? I'm just wondering before I take it.

thanks

Well pain killers are for physcial pain, and you might get some sort of high if you try it, so I wouldn't. It could make your emotional pain worse.

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I just graduated from college and now I'm in a university. So the problem is.. I don't have any friends who can eat with me during lunch. I kinda feel very lonely because I'm not used to eating alone while I was in college. Now, I get to lectures all by myself...spend my breaks by myself..I'm beginning to feel very lonely and depressed.

Most of my friends went to different unis and it's hard to say "hi! shall we eat together?" to a stranger I met during lectures.

I did ask my friends if they were willing to eat alone and they all said "never". But when I asked my family members, they said its alright to eat alone...

I mean like..what if I bump into some of my friends and they see me eating all alone like a beggar? I did try to eat alone before and at that time I kind of tried to quickly finish my food so that I wouldn't see anyone I know. And I don't like to hurry while I'm eating.

So right now..I just need reassurance..is it alright to eat alone in uni?

Well, if you don't like eating alone, and you feel lonely and depressed simply make new friends. Just talk to someone during a lecture or something, and maybe you guys will become good friends. It is fine to eat alone, but in your case since you're feeling lonely and depressed, it's not. Make new friends, and start eating with them.

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can someone please tell me the name of this song and/or who is sings it?

your everything i want
your everyhting i need
your everything inside of me that
i wish i could beyou say all the right things at exaclty the right time ..

please help if you can, sorry it's a kind of old song

Everything you want - Vertical Herizon

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I am going to be getting a car in the spring and i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions
here are some things i am looking for

1) affordable- I'm prob gonna have a max of $10,000 to spend on a used car (with under like 60,000 miles)
2) safe- will be a good quality car and will last me a couple of years atleast
3) decent mileage- gas is expensive
4) its cute- because every teen girl wants a "cute" car



My first pick is a 2004 Hyndai elantra but I need some more back up options


if it helps i live in pittsburgh pa



give reasons why i pick your car too!

Mustanggggg!

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whats an "upgradtion"

It's when you get upgraded on something.

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alright,im a guy. 14/m and homecoming is tonight and I don't have a date so im just going alone. I have alot of friends that are going with dates though. So what do i do when i get there, will they probably only want to be with there girls the whole time? then im alone? i've never been to a homecoming and i know a fe other people that are going alone but not many, what should i do when i get there? and what happens when they say all couples dance? help please, thanks

I went alone to my homecoming, and I thought it would be weird like that too. But it wasn't. Just sit with your close friends, and don't worry about their dates. When the couples dance comes on, find girls that don't have a date, and ask them to dance. The worst that could happen is them rejecting you. and atleast you can't say you didn't try.

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Where do people get that Pink and yellow Fall Out Boy tee-shirt that says "Break Dance, Not Hearts". Thanks a lot :)

Hot Topic. : )

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What are some good excuses to get a guy's number or screen name that you like?

"Heyyy. I'd love to get to know you! What's your number?"

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What are really fun hings to do with friends? not too many people just like 4-6. It has to make me seem like a reall cute sweet and fun girl. What can I do? How do i act? What do i wear?

You can go to the mall and hang out. That's always fun. Or a movie or something. Just act lke yourself, don't be fake and someone you're not. Wear normal clothes, dress for the weather. You shouldn't have to impress.

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hey whats a good place to get some good love pictures...

liek i went onto buddy4u.. but they all have liek the same pictures....

any toher sites??

Search xanga blogrings for Photography.

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My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance

Just call him. It's really not that hard. Pick up a phone, dial his number, and talk.

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Ok im thirteen years old and i dyed my hair during summer recently as in about .. oh say a month and a half ago i started losing hair i would think a lot since my first time, but i dyed my hair in july i shocked my body i guess recently by eating only dinner and a snack when i got home from school i didnt lose much the first few weeks but in the past oh say....three weeks i have been noticing it when i hold all my hair is one hand and then pull gently with another and some falls out containing about 15 strands...i only have been using shampoo for the past month and a half too and i have been eating salad but sometimes with chicken...please help me and tell me what my problem might be, im also not a woman yet so how can my hair be falling out? also i may be getting this women problem cause i got large breasts early and my period when i was ten so .. any advice? ill love u if u give me good advice, im literally freaking out!

what the fuck does eating salad but sometimes with chicken have to do with the fucking kind of shampoo you're using?

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I use an itrip to listen to music in the car. Sometimes it sounds good, but a lot of the time its really fuzzy and staticky and nothing i do helps it. What should i do to make it not staticky and fuzzy?

I wouldn't really rely on something called "itrip" to listen to my music.

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I'm not sure where this goes but anyway..

I'm on the yearbook staff at my school. I'm in 7th grade. Our teacher told us to start thinking of ideas for catch phrases so people will but a yearbook. Kind of like a slogan for the yearbook. Any ideas?? I really have no clue. Our school is called Gateway Middle School, our colors are purple and gold, and our mascot is a panther if that helps. Thanks!! =]

Gateway to memories.

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I'm not sure what should I do so I come to you guys. I'm going to take a poll so I have a better way to do it or not.

My sister just began to drive (she's 17) and she broke a law. For the first 6 months, she shouldn't have anyone in the car except herself and a sibling (that's me). She took some people to Dairy Queen (less than a mile far...you could walk there) from school. She does colorguard and thought it won't hurt. She didn't just break my mom's law, she broke the actual law.
Should I:

A. Let her go and if she breaks a law again and gets caught, it's her fault.
B. Tell my mom that she did it and she might get her keys tooken away, but maybe she'll think again...maybe.

If you have any more things I could do, do tell. And why should I do it?

Thanks!

I don't really think you should worry about it. Once you start driving, you'll do the same thing.

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I need to get a new cell phone. I haver Verizon and I do NOT want a razor. I need something reliable that has a good camera! Money is no object.

Slvr's. They're an upgradtion to a RAZR, and they're prettier.

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does anyone know to any good sites to go to when your bored

i know i-am-bored.com and bored.com but thats it

keep it PG rated please

..MySpace.

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