My best suggestion is to have a doctor do a test for a yeast infection. It's only peeing in a cup. And if you go into a walk-in clinic it's free. Plus, it really wouldn't hurt to make sure whether it's allergies or not because of it is a yeast infection it would be better to catch it early on. I don't think it's anything serious but this is just my opinion. Good luck. =)

I'm sure their are sites out there that you can find or organizations. Just search for it on google. Also I know that some people on this site, at least me, would be more then happy to be there for anyone that needs to vent. I've been there, except I did have a big sister AND a mom that I could do that with so I've always wanted to be that for someone else. If anyone (including you if you wanted) ever needed to vent more then just a little you can always e-mail me or AIM me. So it would be more pirvate then always showing up on here. It's totally your choice. Other wise I know there are things are there. You just have to research it. You can literally find anything on the interenet. Most of the time when people have asked me things, I've googled and it and it'll pop up right away 99% of the time. Anyway, I hope to hear from you or that you'll find someone else to talk to. Good luck.

I think it's totally fine. Give it a try. I think the only way you'll know for sure is if you try being with a girl. My best friend that I've known for 7 years is bi and at first she thought it was just her being curious but then she was with a girl and loved it. She still loves guys but she knew for sure that she likes both. So, if you feel like your not into your b.f anymore and you feel the best thing is to break up, then, do what you've got to do. And if you really feel very strongly about being bi. Test the waters. There is nothing wrong with learning who you are. It's part of life. As long as you arent hurting your self or others, have some fun. =) If you are bi, that's awesome, good for you. And if you find out you aren't. That's totally cool too.

Anyway, don't worry about it and give it a try if you want to and see what happens.

Hope this is what you were asking and that it helps. Good luck!

I honestly don't know what that means and please don't take this the wrong way, but he sounds like a prick.

I think you should drop that loser.

If he's going to sit there and treat you like that then you shouldn't even bother.

You deserve way better then that.

If you keep allowing him to treat you that way, he'll just keep doing it girl.

I'm not trying to be mean, but I was in the EXACT same situation that you are in now.

The guy would blow me off like that and we'd be off and on a lot and he'd say stuff and then just ignore me or not tell me what it meant and of course every time I tried to move on he'd act all nice again.

I'm not trying to give you my crap story but, us girls shouldn't put up with stuff like that.

He obviously doesn't care and is a HUGE jerk.

You can do way better. I can tell that and I don't even know you.

I know this isn't what you asked, but this is an advice site and you asked a question so, I'm just trying to give advice.

I'm sorry if this makes you mad, that wasn't my intention.

I just don't think any person should be treated that way.

Good luck. Maybe someone else on here can tell you what that means.

No, not at all girl. It's not your fault. Good for you for getting rid of that weird-o. He wasn't good for you and you felt that and got out of it. That's all that matters. It's okay that you went back to him once, but you learned from it. It's okay to feel the way you do because I've been there. But you should know that it's not your fault. Every girl wants what you want. Every girl wants to be loved and meet a nice guy. Sadly guys like the one you met tend to ruin our faith a little. But, I promise there are good guys out there, and you will find someone. Don't let that one experience effect you too, too much. (not that you are.) Don't feel stupid. There is a reason you went through all of that. Because I'm sure you learned a lot from it. I'm not trying to be all corny or anything so don't think that lol. But it's not your fault that you keep getting hurt, and don't be so hard on yourself. Give yourself some credit for getting out of a bad situation without too much damage. =) I hope this helps and good luck!

Well, actually cramps are different for every girl. Some have it WAY worse than others. Mine were so bad that I needed medication to make them lighter so it would be less painful. But for me, the pain can go to the middle of my thighs, my whole stomach, my sides, and pretty much that whole area is in pain from all the things my body goes through, my friends and I both have that, but I have met some girls that barely get any pain at all. It could be cramps even though the pain is at the area of your belly button. I think the only way you'll know for sure is if you end up getting your period sometimes soon. You can PMS(Premenstrual Syndrome) which is the pain before you get the actual period. But you should probably only PMS about 2 weeks before it happens. Other wise it may be something else. But, I could also be totally wrong, and you can always see what other girls on here say. I hope this helps a little.

I have to say I really do agree with the last person that answered this.

That girl is a bitch. No if's, and's, or but's. She's rude.

I've been in that situation as well, and like the last person said, don't put yourself at her level.

She's an ugly person. I don't care about her outer appearance. Her personality is nasty.

You shouldn't let her stop you from having a good time. I did let people stop me from doing things that I loved to do and I'll always regret it a little in my heart for allowing someone so insignificant to have that kind of power over me.

Hang in there, and go have a good time.

Ignore her trying to bring you down or make you feel bad or whatever she's trying to do.

Also, like the other person said, try not to think of it as directed at you. Even if she is directing it at you, try not to think of it that way.

You do your thing and live your life and be as happy as you can possibly be, and try your best not to worry about people like her.

Trust me, it's taken me such a long time to get to the point that I am at now, and I wish I had someone there to help me through it.

Go have some fun with your friends from out of town!

And you know what, if you really feel that uncomfortable and you find yourself not being able to have any fun while your there, you can always go home. You don't have to stay.

Your not forced to do anything that you do not want to do. And it doesn't matter why you want to go home or what they are going to think or say about you. Because that nasty, rude girl is going to say and do things whether it is true or not.

Enjoy life, don't like someone so pathetic mess things up for you. I know that sounds corny but seriously.

I'm not 100% sure if she has a new album coming out anytime soon but I'm pretty positive that she is still in the music industry. I know she did "Beautiful Girls" (the Girl's Version/Girl Reply) of the Sean Kingston version. I think if you research "JoJo" on google or somewhere you may be able to find her website to find out any new projects she has going on.

Hope this helps. =)

I'm really not trying to be mean but, just from what I read, she really doesn't seem to be that into you. Being a girl, I've actually been in a situation like that, except I didn't leave the guy hanging the way she left you hanging. But, girls tend to ignore things sometimes when they don't want to be mean or hurt someone (NOT all girls though so please no one get offended.) I just really think that if she really liked you back she would definitely say something and seem more excited. And, I could be TOTALLY off here, and I don't want to seem mean, but my opinion is that I think it'd be best if you tried to find another girl. One that won't ignore you when you tell her how you feel. I hope this helps.

First of all I want to say I'm sorry that you've had to go through this.

Second of all, no, you are not wrong for doing that.

Your friend is rude for being mad at you.

He obviously was thinking about breaking up with you anyway, he sent you the text message by accident so instead of you being hurt even more, you did what was right for yourself.

I don't understand at all what your friend has to be mad about. This guy was out to hurt you and you did what you needed to do to save yourself a lot of heartache.

What did your friend want? For you to stay with that loser? Even though he wasn't even that into you and was thinking about going out with her?

I'm not telling you to not be friends with her and I'm sorry for being to blunt about it, but that's crazy.

He's a jerk, and you deserve a lot more than that and can do better. You don't need to date someone like that at all.

And your friend. Well, it's up to you on whom you allow in your life, but even if you stay best friends with her. Just ignore her being mad at you for now because from the information you've given me she has no right to be mad at you.

She should be by your side telling you how much of a fool that guy is. =)

Anyway I'm really not trying to give you a hard time or bash your friend but I just think you should know (and to answer your question) that, no you did nothing wrong, and no, she should not be mad at you for doing what you needed to do.

Hang in there and I hope this helps a little.

I can really relate to how you feel.

Unfortunately with the housing market being down he way it is right now, it may not be that easy for your parents to move right away even if you dad got motivated to fixed things up.

I'm not going to tell you to stick it out because the strange thing is, is that I went through the same thing in high school.

It's tough, and it really isn't that easy.

Definitely try to talk to your parents about what's going on, especially if your mom has a job closer to where you want to live. Maybe try to help your mom and dad in anyway you can.

And until you guys can move, just do your best to do things that you love despite all the crap around you.

High school years aren't always the best, not for everyone.

My favorite so far is college.

Do your best to find research on places you'd like to move and definitely discuss things with your family if you all really are that eager to get away.

And again, if you can't move, do your best to hang until you can.

Don't worry about other people right now, focus on your self and your family.

Ignore those rude coaches and everything.

As stupid as it sounds, things will fall into place. Not that you want to hear, because I know I sure as heck didn't, but it will.

Do your best to enjoy everything while you can until you can get out of where your at, just incase you can't.

Hope this helps.

If you like forever21 you may like LuLu's which sells clothes online. You can check out their website here.

http://lulus.com/?gclid=CIHDuer9kJQCFQZeswodhBctug

Or if you want a place like Delias
this is there online website

http://store.delias.com/content/features/search/jsp/index.jsp?radid=21076S29461090&cmpid=21076S29461090

If you are looking for online clothes that are maybe cheaper than those, just research "online clothes shopping" and search through some of the different things and prices. I do believe that alot of clothing stores like those two you mentioned do have websites you can just order the clothes from instead of going to the story but if they don't I know there are a lot of other online stores you should find. =)

Hope this helps.

You can always try bare minerals as a powder and if the powder doesn't work by it self maybe try using a liquid foundation and then put the powder on top of that and that should make them go away. Or try a good concealer on the places you have freckles and then put the powder on.

I also know that if you buy green lip stick and rub it into your face it covers up the redness of your face and if you buy yellow lipstick it covers up the black circles under your eyes so, you can also try to do some research online to find a lip stick that'll cover up freckles too?

(I know the lip stick color thing sounds weird but I know for a fact those really do work, I have naturally really pink cheeks and you rub the green into it and it tones it down a LOT so that's the only reason I suggest going to a make up store or looking online to find one that maybe help with brown spots or freckels.)

I hope this helps. =)

Guys always seem to want what they can't have.

Maybe the reason they are so attracted to her is because she ISN'T a good friend.

She probably acts like she doesn't care at all, and for some reason or another, guys just like that.

My advice, is to just stop trying, the more guys have to chase girls the more they like it, and if they don't chase after you, honestly, why would you want them around anyway? They obviously aren't worth it you know?

Don't ask me why but my experience with guys and what I've seen my friends go through. Guys LOVE when girls play hard to get.

Especially the ones you are describing.

When a girl acts like she doesn't care (probably like the one your talking about) guys just eat that up and want to be around them all the time.

Or, it's because they do only see you as a friend and just think she'd be a good hook up.

Anyway, I guess the only thing I can think of with the information you've given me is to act like you don't care, like you didn't even notice that they talk to that other girl more.

Make them come to you, but don't be mean to them at all. Just don't be the "good friend" anymore that is always there and stuff and see what happens.

One of two things, either they won't talk to you at all anymore and they suck and are jerks. Or they will be just as attracted to you as you see them being attracted to this "gorgeous" girl.

(And I asked one of my guy friends and he said the same thing, when a girl is just a friend or even if a girl wants to be more, guys tend to be more attracted to the ones that act like they don't care and guys don't appreciate the ones that are always there even though they should.)

Now keep in mind that not ALL guys are like this, so please who ever reads this don't get offended. I'm just guessing by what she's saying that those are the types of guys she's dealing with.

Hope this helps.

If your 16 and you want to lose weight the best way is to eat healthy(meaning, don't make your self sick or starve yourself), stay on a good sleeping routine as much as you can, and exercise.

A lot of people think there is some miracle cure for losing weight and there really isn't.

Treat your body right, eat healthy, don't eat fast food, you work out by doing cardio and toning your body, and you'll be fine. But you can't expect it to be right away.

I've had problems with my weight my whole life and the ONLY thing that works is eating lots of fruits and vegetables for snacks, eating a healthy good breakfast, eating salads with dinner, and healthy things like chicken or tuna for dinner, and working out 5 times a week, doing an hour of cardio and toning my muscles.

If you can get a membership to a gym, I don't know where you live but I believe it's the same everywhere, planet fitness is only $10 a month, that's it. To go as many times as you want. And you can ask the personal trainers there to help you with any thing you want and any goal you want to achieve.

It really does work and it's the safest thing you can do.

You just have to be committed to it, and you can't stop it once you've reach your goal weight or your just going to gain the weight back again.

Diets never work because they are temporary, it should be a life choice on how you decided to take care of your body, unless you have an overactive thyroid, then you need to see a doctor to get on medication to help you with that.

Other wise just doing what I said before. I'd be surprised if someone had an answer (other then throwing up and starving yourself) that works better than what I'm saying and it didn't hurt your body.

Not because I'm a know it all but because I've suffered from it my whole life too and my friends and family have as well, so I've seen what people do and the diets they have all tried and watched friends harm their bodies by throwing up and wind up in the hospital, so I'm not trying to be rude at all so I hope you don't take it that way I'm just saying be really careful with what you do to your body, it can hurt you a lot in the long run if you don't.

And because I've been in your situation so many times I have asked numbers of doctors and nutritionists and personal trainers and they all told me the same thing I'm telling you. For a person your age, I think that's the safest way to go.

I hope this helps.

I think he may still like you and is just hurting.

Boys are famous for being hurt and acting like they don't care, because they try really hard to push things away and forget about them because it's not masculine to show a "softer side" or emotions.

(Don't get me wrong, some of them are just jerks that will mess with your head.)

But I think if you both are still friends that he wouldn't waste his time toying with you if that's all it was.

If you haven't already told him how you feel, maybe you should and see what happens?

If it doesn't turn out the way you plan though don't be upset. Just know that there will be other "jakes" out there.

But remember to give him time, if you hurt him as much as it seems it won't just go away. Stay friends with him and talk to him. It can't hurt anything.

But if you feel like it's going no where or if you really feel like he is toying with you, try to not let yourself be around people like that.

Hope this helps.

I know how a budget can be.

Think about some of the looks you like and experement with different things.

I think a smokey eye shadow look would look really nice for you.

And shopping online can be a lot cheaper.

The nose ring, I'd say sud, just to change it up.

make-ups you can find really fun and cheap things at like walmart and target. Even fashion there too.

I can deffinitely see a vintage look with you and you can have fun with it.

Just try a whole bunch of different things and see what you like?

The only way I was able to find out about make up and clothes was to try a bunch of different styles and looks and change them a lot.

Your hair looks like you can have fun with that too. if you can color it, just some fun high lights with it, and if your really up for a new look add more layers in your hair then the ones you already have?

I can't really give you anything more specific because I don't know you but, I hope this helps. =)

For Cheap clothes, make up, and hair things, either online, walmart or target. Or if you want to spend the money, sally beauty supply store, you can check out their website too, I believe they give you tips on things. =) Or, if no one on here can help you search on google for tips on what your looking for.

Hey! =) I really love my life and the things and people in it. I love fashion, make-up, going out, dancing, teaching dance, and being with my friends and family. I feel very blessed for the things I have. It took me a while to get to this point though and I know that growing up, and even people my age, you need advice about certain things every now and then. I've always had people give me advice about things and I've been able to use their advice through my own experience and mistakes and come up with some of my own things. And now I'm the one always helping my friends out. I always have new ideas that I love to share. And well, I can't promise I'll always be able to help or give you the answer you're looking for but, I'll definitely do my best. =)


Also, whether you ask me a question in my inbox or I answer one alone I normally ALWAYS add in my experiences because for me, I like to know when people can relate and aren't just guessing, it's easier when someone has actually been through it. And I'm not going to do any favors by lying, so I am ALWAYS going to be honest. But keep in mind just becasue of my experience and my honesty does not mean I am always right and I understand that. Feedback is appreciated to know what I can work on with certain answers, not demanded.

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