Iam 14, and pretty smart I guess, and wise (and humble about it too :)
I am really into peoples feelings but i still tend to tell you like it is, theres plenty of people out there who are always a pain in the butt and making everyone around them feel like crap, i dont want to be that person.
I awnser a wide variety of questions even ones i dont know anything about, in hopes i can help maybe even alittle bit, but dont ask me retarded stuff i dont want the drama queen stuff, im here to help if your not here to whine.
Also dont ask me gross sex problems im a christian and i dont know anything about 'blow jobs' so dont ask me about them...also if you dont like the awsner i give you then dont read it.
And just for the record I could care less about the rating you give me, so if you got a negative comment send it to someone who cares, and low ratings are good for me there showing im saying it how it is.
In all christian love, 2tammy2
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it started to get worse a few months ago. but, its been going on for years now. my mom has always babied my brother. even though he is 3 years younger than me she has always done everything for him. picked up after him, made his food, got everything for him, let him do whatever he wants, he never gets in trouble, and he always gets his way. i always have to keep the house clean and he sits around making it harder. my dad has just started a few weeks ago about the whole baby thing with my brother. my dad takes him everywhere, buys him things, teaches him things, and does a lot of stuff with him. i've always been a daddy's girl and now i don't have that anymore. its like my brother is ruining my life. when my boyfriend comes over and we're hanging out, my brother never leaves us alone. he always needs to have his way. and something i have or am using, he has to have or use. i can't ever have something he doesn't or can't have. but he can have everything i can't. he always eats the food i like before he eats the food i don't like, so then i don't have that much to eat anymore. i don't like it and i can't put up with it anymore. we constantly get in fights he starts. and i can't get my way. i don't know what to do or how to deal with it. i just want everything to be fair. I've talked to my mom about it, and she says none of this is true. but it is, and there's nothing i can think of to do.
help me.. (link)
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Ok i won't pretend like i totally understand what your going through because I don't.
It's probably a small comfort but when you get out of the house you will have a great work ethic, and you'll be really good at cleaning house. Your brother on the other hand you should feel bad for, because he will be so spoiled and he will leave the house if he dosent live with his mom forever and life is going to eat him for lunch.
My mom likes my brother better to though she dosent admit it, he does get away with alot of crap, but then so do I, anyway i just say in my head "a few more years until i'm out" i would try saying that to and if your a good artist draw a big picture of your brother and hang it up and use it as a punching bag whatever it takes to keep you sane
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how do i get rid of back acne? its so gross... (link)
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i have the same problem i was thinking of the putting the same stuff i put on my face onto my back, i have no idea how to take care of it, people dont really tend to notice it though.
It does hurt really, really bad when my bra rubs on it, or people slap my back or something, i saw some stuff at the store only made for men though that was body acne wash im tempted to try it anyway
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I ust use a tampon for the 1st time and I cant get it out. the applicator was small so it went in but then it swolll up and I cant get it out. I had a very small hole in my hymen. thats how i got it in. but now it wont come out! PLEASE HELP (link)
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I think you need to go to an emergency room, tell your mom what happened and she will know what to do, you'll be fine a doctor just needs ro see it
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I enjoy pork meat, but it has become too expensive, the affordable portion of pork meat for me seems to be the kidneys. I would like to know how can I make my kidney test good, and how long does it take to cook kidneys? (link)
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heres one recipe:http://www.vietnamese-recipes.com/vietnamese-recipes/meat/pig-kidney-with-snow-peas.php and heres another one http://www.asian-recipes.com/authentic_chinese_cooking/stir-fried-dishes/stir-fried-kidney.php for any more info how about googling it
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What things can i do when taking myspace pictures with my friend. like ive kissed her on the cheek,wrote stuff on my hand, post it notes, stuck out my tongue, scrunched my face, danced,pretended to take a picture of her with my hand, opened my mouth-like as a shock, peace sign,shapes with hands-heart,circle,ect, blew a bubble, and smiled, sad face.
please anything else?
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you could write on your hand dont hate me because im beautiful other than that i have no inspirations
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'Ello. I'm going to go to a psychic soon and my mom, aunt, grandma, & cousin went to her and everything she predicted came true. I don't usually believed in them but this girl predicted my aunt would move to North Carolina but they would hate it & come back home within 2 years. A year later my aunt & their family moved to North Carolina and they couldn't stand it and after a year & a half they moved back home. It was freaky!! My cousin is 19 and she brought in pictures of people she didn't even know to the psychic to fool her and the psychic knew which people my cousin knew & didn't knew. She predicted my aunt would divorce 2 more times in her life before she found "the one" and then it really happened!! This psychic is AMAZING. She didn't know ANY of our family but everything she said came true. My mom says I'm old enough to go to her so I really want to. I want to try to find out if she's real the best that I can so what are some things I could do/ask to see how good of a psychic she is?? And what kinds of questions should I ask? I know you might think I'm nuts but this lady is scary!! My mom kept saying the number "37" in her head and the psychic randomly said "37" out of no where. That girl is a freakin' legend! Haha thanks for helping me. (link)
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I am a christian and i believe ppl get these powers from satanic influences, if you think she's scary then dont go see her, i will pray for you and her.
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I know on average your weight fluctuates 2-5lbs a day from eating and drinking but are the inches on your waist supposed to go up as you eat too?
This morning my waist was 26 inches and I've only had lunch and now it's just shy of 27.
How much does your waist fluctuate on average? (link)
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i dont know but i do know you are worrying way to much and you seriously need to find a summer activity to get your mind off yourself, if you are measuring your waist keep in mind that is not normal.
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I've had an eating disorder for a few months now. I was recently diagnosed with Mono in June and I'm almost done with it. The reason why I'm including this in my question is because since your spleen enlarges due to Mono, I haven't ran in awhile. I used to run on a daily basis & eat regularly, but was still on a diet. When I ran a few times a week, I weighed around 130-135 lbs and I'm in the 5'7-5'9 range. I was basically average, but still had an eating problem. I haven't ran for 2 months [since Mono] & I now weigh 122 lbs. I do like running, but I had a few questions. First of all, I'm not sure when it would be okay for me to exercise regularly because my spleen is still a bit sore & tender. Also, since I haven't been exercising, I haven't been eating a lot of food. I've gotten used to eating small amounts & when I do eat more, I get a bad stomach ache. I don't think I am ready to go back to running, because then I'll have to eat more [for more energy] & I'm not sure I'm mentally stable to do that. 122 lbs is not underweight I don't think, but I'm not sure when to exercise & what I can eat. My eating disorder really affected me mentally & I have a hard time eating anything. Does anyone have any suggestions or opinions? Thanks! (link)
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dont excercize right now you are way to skinny to do that, if you are 5'7 your at the bottom of your ideal' weight and if you are 5-8'9 you are annorexic or underweight, it's okay to eat small amounts but with your current weight eat stuff full and i mean chock full of fat.
you were healthy before, believe me guys LOVE curves what woman dosent care about that?
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Hello.
I have selective mutism. I'm f/16 and I was wondering if I could ever get a job? I know people are supposed to get "disabled" people jobs at some point.
I can work pretty well, I just have a social anxiety with speaking. I'm okay being around people.. but what about the interview?
Don't say it's impossible. How can I go about this? Should I put that I have "S.M." on the application?
What job could I do though? Something that would work for me? Someone suggested shipping and receiving.. could I? (link)
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You can do whatever you inspire to and dont let anyone convince you other wise.
As for jobs, hmm you could be a comedian... jk maybe be a sign language teacher, or a janitor or something, ok soz lol my sence of humor is really vivid right now, you could have a job inside your home, or a writer or something like that
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I share a room. Every time my sister's boyfriend comes over and I happen to be sleeping.. he walks in.
Is it right for me, to feel the need of privacy? Because he comes in loudly, without a warning and talks loudly.
I could be naked one time and have him walk by me!
UGH!
what can i do?
it's like 2pm and I had a rough night, I just wanted some more sleep and he woke me up.
what could i say to my mom to make him wait out? (link)
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i would just suggest telling her the story, and make sure to tell her that he hasnt actually done anything wrong mothers can get very in to that, it is totally right for you to feel the need for privacy, and he is being rude.
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are there any risks, or disadvantages to shaving your pubic hair {if ur a female}? (link)
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other then it hurts, i dont know, i dont think when God made us he intended us to shave off that hair, it would probably get really cold sometimes and also you might get more infections because the hair wont be their to catch bacteria if it does im not sure your nose and ear hair does, and it would be cleaner though,
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Is it normal to have not have started your period at 15? (link)
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ya its fine if you dont start when you hit 17 then go see a doctor if you have any more questions go to beinggirl.com
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ok so me and my boyfriend have been goin out for almost 7 months...but until he went out with me he just messed with tons of girls...and when i say messed i mean like did everything but hit home....and all of these girls go to my school and he is SUCH a flirt and i cant stand it...and most of the girls dont like me because i go out with him now so they flaunt their shit right in front of him..and im already a jealous person to begin with so it doesnt exactly help. and i know he is still friends with some of these girls and he hangs out with them and other friends on weekends and i wonder what they do..anyways i talked to him about it and its been ok but i think once school starts again it will start up i dont know what to do? (link)
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ok the thing that hit me first was John Tucker Must Die if you havent seen the movie, see it.
He sounds like a real loser i would not stay with him all he is a scummy player who is taking advantage of one more girl... you!!!!
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Well I'm four months pregnant, and me and my babys daddy arent together, he doesn't believe this baby is his he tells me to screw myself and to find the real baby father. The thing is hes the only one who I've slept with unpertected in the last 6 months. So I know its his. But I got back with my ex boyfriend who I was with before four almost a year before we got into some stuff. We got back together before I found out I was pregnant. I told him I was pregnant he told me he'd step up and help me raise it as his own. Hes in Long Creek (Jail) until January 3rd and I'm due January 27. Well anyways my question is, do you think I should let him step up and raise this baby as his own. Please let me know what you think. (link)
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uh i guess it depends on what he is in jail for... but even so i would highly suggest never leaving the baby alone with him and like ask your mom or something, see what she thinks of him moms always have good opinions, dont become his girlfriend is my advice, he might be getting close to you so he can land his butt in jail again by harming you or the baby, and even if he isnt phsyichally abusive, but maybe emotionally or psychologically and maybe you'll find yourself in a dangerous relationship, my advice is dont do anything with him, but i dont know him so i would just listen to your heart it will tell if hes safe or not, just dont make sure you let love get in the way of you and the babies safety, and next time be more careful and use more protection or better yet be abstenent, until you have a man you love and can trust and marry.
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my girlfriend cant make me cum (link)
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ok this isnt actually a question so i would work on that part of it... is it because you dont really love her, yes even your penis can tell if you really love someone or not, like i was watching a movie one day about a guy who couldnt 'cum' until he was with his true love, and maybe you have a uh... disability?
have you 'cummed' for others, if so then maybe you just dont feel sexually attracted to her. which is not a reason to ditch her sex is not everything in a relationship
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Ok so I’ve been 115 for like 4 years now I eat so much and I never get any bigger well the past week every time I look at food I want to throw up but I’m hungry and when I eat I’m stomach kills me :o( I don’t know what to do ! (link)
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it sounds like possibly you have a stomach flu, i highly suggest going to a doctor
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i mean like tons of years ago, when God made people, he made Adam and Eve. Then they had children, who had children with their.. siblings (is that right? i mean nobody else was around.. or was incest okay then?) who had children with THEIR siblings, and so on. so then after tons of years it comes to today.. does that mean that Adam and Eve our are like great great great (etc) grandparents? cause then like everyone in the entire world is related, am i correct? but that confuses me.. because some people say that we all evolved from monkeys. i kinda believe it but i kinda dont, since i am a christian and i believe that God and Jesus are real. I mean the entire universe must have started from something.. however i dont understand where God came from. Who made God? can you put the answers in simpler forms, too? i am a 13 year old girl.. i read like some children bibles, but the big bible confuses me.. and i dont go to church very often cause we barely have time to in my family with a little baby, my mom who works at night, my dad whos starting a business in a different state.. so yeah. i really want to though, and i pray and thank god when i can. (usually before i go to bed) anyways thanks for answering my kinda long question.
PS. i have one more question. where did Satan come from? did god create satan? can you explain to me all that happened with that? and i know that jesus like was born in bethlehem to mary, then later was put on the cross, then went to heaven then came back. so doesnt anyone like know what heaven is like? why didnt they ask jesus what it was like and stuff like that? and how did jesus die the second time? and where exactly is heaven and hell? i hear its on earth according to my mom, like they are the spirits living among us. its just kinda hard to grasp (link)
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I think everyone is entitled to their opinion but please dont believe everything everyone else says, some of the other awnsers on this questions, are so disgustingly repulsively in my opinion wrong and i cant believe anyone actually believes that, anyway now to your question, yes were all from Adam and Eve and they our all of our ancestors, and yes incest was ok back then and i have a theory on that one, see Adam had to have enough genes to atleast start some of the many nationalities you see out there, not all of them because some are created by different nationaliities having sex with others, anyway the main problem with incest is that our genes are so close when were sibs that the baby dies from having genes to close, or it wouldnt be a problem, but Adams family might not have had that problem because their genes were so differerent to make all the different skin colors and stuff that it wasnt a problem- now i dont know if this theory is true, but maybe it is, and as for God ok this is really confusing and no matter what you cant possible comprehend it fully, no one created God he was always there even before the begging of time it says so in the Bible if you dont believe me, no one could create him because he was never created, instead he created everyone else, im highly suggesting reading a real Bible it'll majorly help with your problems and also go to church, they can also awnser your questions there, and yes God created Satan, even though he knew what he was going to do because God knows, plans and created everything, satan was just another part of his plan, i mean if you take satan out of the Bible the whole story is practically ruined, sence satan created a hell with all the fallen angels, and has sence continued to get after God and all his people, and as far as i know Jesus came down to earth, died, resurected then went back to heaven and he hasnt come back down for his 2nd coming yet that is what is called the end times, when all of the christians go up to heaven, and no one on earth has been to heaven and all the people in heaven arent in earth, so we dont really know and as far as i know, people in the Bible did ask about heaven but Jesus kind of kept it a mystery i guess, and there is revelations which talks alot about heaven, and heaven is supposedly above the clouds up by outerspace i guess, and hell is below the earth somewhere i guess below the solar system, and as for the whole evolutionist thing and the fact that apes have 99% of the same DNA as us, well i heard that 1% is so fricking huge that the DNA's are insanely different, i dont know google it figure out what you believe dont take anyones word for it
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Is God real? I'm a raised catholic, but I for about 2 years now I've felt atheist/agnostic.
How do you know it's YOUR god that's real? What if there are many gods? what if there's a goddess?
just give me some proof.
because a lot of times i feel guilty for not being religious and i feel like i should be religious. But I don't want to save myself for marriage and I masturbate which makes me think that I shouldn't be a christian! Can i still be a christian even in spite of those 2 things?
please just give me advice. (link)
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Ok im a christian and im 14 and im having a hard time figuring out things, and all the doubt and things, ok i think God is real, because he has done alot for me, and i can feel his presence in my heart and my mind, like the Bible says he will do, i guess to get proof you can pray to God, and ask him to show you that he is real, I don't think there are many gods or that we are all worshipping the same god, i think possibly satan puts out all the lies to get us away from the truth and into false religions so we die and go to hell and stay there forever with him, and i've noticed alot of agnostic catholics, i think they feel as though they can never get to know God, and that he is to big and powerful to understand, but it isnt a true, read your Bible, pray and you'll feel God's presence, and also the whole masturbating, sex thing WELCOME TO THE CLUB!!!!
I want sex so bad, i dont really masturbate but i like to and also thinking bad thoughts ya get used to it's called hormones, just pray to God and he'll help you through it
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My bff parties sometimes. She is a very good student, so are the people she parties with. Sometimes she has these "parties" at her house with just maybe no more than 15 people, all good friends. She is eighteen.
I am sixteen, and although I've never been to any of her parties, I want to try it. I've never been drunk in my life. If I do go to a party, it will be a very safe environment. I am planning on getting a little drunk, but I am not going to drive (I will sleep over at her house), I will not try drugs (and no drugs will be present, none of her friends do them).
Should I do it? I am a very uptight person, so I think it will be nice for me to just let loose and have fun. I am not planning it to become a habit (partying), but I definitely want to try it.
What do you think? I will be one hundred percent safe there.
How do people act when they're drunk? How many beers does it take to get drunk? I am not planning to get drunk drunk, but just a little bit drunk. (link)
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ok first of all im not suggesting it because not is it only illegal for you to drink, but depending on where you live, its also illegal for your friend to, and once you get alittle drunk, you probably will get alot drunk, and then end up having drugs anyway, and maybe even have sex, believe me its like a snowball you just keep catching more crap as you go on, now dont get me wrong i really want to get wasted to really bad, but i know its bad for me and it wont be worth it, and you cant be "100% safe" anywhere where theres alchahol, or drugs, and also maybe you want to get drunk because your bored and you got nothing better to think about then to get drunk, maybe get some summer actiivty and it'll get your mind off the temptation
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does anyone know any feel good songs that make you have a new prespective on life like "cross my heart" by the rocket summer or Heres to the NIght by EVE 6. THat make you feel more in control of your life. thanks=] (link)
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i love those kind i like some of the songs that some chicks put to music videos so i would type 'hiddenfool88' and 'BeePip' she has a bunch of 'feel good' songs
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