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Question Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 4:58 pm

I share a room. Every time my sister's boyfriend comes over and I happen to be sleeping.. he walks in.

Is it right for me, to feel the need of privacy? Because he comes in loudly, without a warning and talks loudly.
I could be naked one time and have him walk by me!
UGH!

what can i do?
it's like 2pm and I had a rough night, I just wanted some more sleep and he woke me up.

what could i say to my mom to make him wait out?


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2tammy2 answered Sunday August 5 2007, 7:27 pm:
i would just suggest telling her the story, and make sure to tell her that he hasnt actually done anything wrong mothers can get very in to that, it is totally right for you to feel the need for privacy, and he is being rude.

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_marcialynn answered Sunday August 5 2007, 7:26 pm:
First, I would try just telling your sister's boyfriend that it bothers you that he barges into your room without warning. Let him know it's yours, not his, and that there wouldn't be a problem if he'd just knock. & Be nice about it, of course :]

If that doesn't work, then I would just tell your mom that you tried talking to him, and it didn't work, and I would ask for her to talk to him. Knowing boys, they'll usually listen to their girlfriend's parents.


Good Luck :]

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hotpotato answered Sunday August 5 2007, 7:25 pm:
Your mom knows about this? She should understand. I think there should be a knock rule before entering a room, especially if you are sharing it with someone else. That's not really fair to you and you do have a right to privacy. You can make a little doorhanger or sign and put it on your doorknob that lets people know that you're busy or w/e. Anyway, isn't there someplace else your sister and her boyfriend can go? Like the living room? Or maybe you can sleep in your parent's bed? I hope your situation gets sorted out!

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