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what should i do?
it started to get worse a few months ago. but, its been going on for years now. my mom has always babied my brother. even though he is 3 years younger than me she has always done everything for him. picked up after him, made his food, got everything for him, let him do whatever he wants, he never gets in trouble, and he always gets his way. i always have to keep the house clean and he sits around making it harder. my dad has just started a few weeks ago about the whole baby thing with my brother. my dad takes him everywhere, buys him things, teaches him things, and does a lot of stuff with him. i've always been a daddy's girl and now i don't have that anymore. its like my brother is ruining my life. when my boyfriend comes over and we're hanging out, my brother never leaves us alone. he always needs to have his way. and something i have or am using, he has to have or use. i can't ever have something he doesn't or can't have. but he can have everything i can't. he always eats the food i like before he eats the food i don't like, so then i don't have that much to eat anymore. i don't like it and i can't put up with it anymore. we constantly get in fights he starts. and i can't get my way. i don't know what to do or how to deal with it. i just want everything to be fair. I've talked to my mom about it, and she says none of this is true. but it is, and there's nothing i can think of to do.
help me..
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Keep a diary of the time that is spent with your parents list both you and your brother, also record the fights,and the resolutions be totally honest after two weeks look and see how things have turned out, that way you can show proof to your parents, with a little note like WHAT ABOUT ME! leave it on their bed, and im sure things will get better.Lots Of Luck Brie
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Ok i won't pretend like i totally understand what your going through because I don't.
It's probably a small comfort but when you get out of the house you will have a great work ethic, and you'll be really good at cleaning house. Your brother on the other hand you should feel bad for, because he will be so spoiled and he will leave the house if he dosent live with his mom forever and life is going to eat him for lunch.
My mom likes my brother better to though she dosent admit it, he does get away with alot of crap, but then so do I, anyway i just say in my head "a few more years until i'm out" i would try saying that to and if your a good artist draw a big picture of your brother and hang it up and use it as a punching bag whatever it takes to keep you sane
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