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I am married been mrried 6 years (this September makes 7)
Been in a relationship for 11 years no its not perfect thats why I can give marriage advice
My family is so disfunctional so write me bout that I have lots of advice on that
Pets: I take in abandoned cats have 22 a ferret, a dog and 4 fish and have had lots of others
Cooking: I can cook anything I am from Mississippi near New Orleans so I cook cajun or soul food
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Homosexual thoughts: I am bisexual so I can give advice in this area
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I want to get my boyfriend (age 14) something special for his birthday, but I don't know what! In the past I've given him specific things that he'd mentioned he wanted (games, hunting stuff, etc). I know he liked them, because he wanted them, but they just weren't anything "special." I want to give him something that he can treasure and remember me by, the same way I treasure the necklace and charm bracelet he's given me. But would a guy even want something sentimental, or would he rather just have a video game or a box of ammo? (link)
The gift depends on how much you are trying to spend a nice sentimental gift for guy is a watch, some sunglasses (with summer here), if he likes hunting or fishing how bout a nice camo hat to go hunting in these are all things he can remember you by when he uses them another cool idea a wallet that you have your names monogramed in a bracelet with a short poem or your names engraved My husband is 36 years old and yes video games and sports equipment is great to him too! Good luck on your shopping hope he loves it


Recently I have become friends with two girls who I like a lot. They used to be best friends with each other, but before I met them they had a fight and have drifted apart. Now, every weekend they both invite me to do stuff, and I have to choose which one to hang out with. Whoever I choose, the other one feels left out or thinks I like the other one better. I wish we could all hang out together, but I guess that's impossible. It seems like they are competing for my friendship, and I really hate that. Is there any way I can be friends with both of them, without getting in the middle of some drama? (link)
try to juggle your friends to accomodate both but make sure you ar having fun. Maybe you can be the one that brings them bck into a friendship together maybe say for example friend ad I are going to the mall this weekend to shop and I wanted you to go to friend 2 do you mind hanging out with both of us this weekend it will be fun Hope this works but it depends on wat made them drift in the 1st place Good Luck


My boyfriend and I just bought a new home and we had a housewarming party over the weekend. We had a friend named john and a niehgbor we never met before hanging out touching, groping, problem is they are both married. His wife was at home with the kids, and he went to the neighbors house and slept with her. My boyfriend and I were stunned. He has been married for 10 years and his wife is sweet and pretty, neighbor girl 25, he is 38 and she is UGHHH! What do I do if I am talking to his wife in the future?? He is a dog and I am digusted. To tell or not to tell?? By the way he was pretty sober and never mentioned anything about marriage problems in the past. My man and he just went to vegas a few weeks ago and my man said he was well behaved.. what gives?? are men this disgusting after all? (link)
Yes men are disgusting and filthy but women can be also have seen a few of both in my day.
heres the advice ask yourself these questions
1. How close are you with the wife
2. Can you talk to the wife about anything?
3. If bf went to Vegas with him they must be close can BF maybe talk to the hubby?
4. The couple could be swingers and have an open relationship also (yes there are actually people in the world like this)
5. Would you want to know?
Me personally if I am a close friend I would say something escpecially to the husband he did the deed or send an anonomous letter busting him and last but not least at least you found out what kind of neighbor you have now you know to watch her around your man maybe this was a heads up notice to you :-)


what does "prima donna" mean??? its pronounce pre-madonna. im really curious. (link)
real definition:
Italian, literally, first lady
1 : a principal female singer in an opera or concert organization
2 : an extremely sensitive, vain, or undisciplined person

SLANG DEFINITION

Is now often used to describe someone arrogant, vain, or just plain b****y. Diva and prima donna have become synonomous with a show-off or a b****, regardless of whether or not the person in question is male or female.


ok so my boyfriend made a wish a couple of days ago on myspace ofcourse...It was a bulliten he posted...It said "11 signs you love someone (if that will ever happen)"...I confronted him about it because he always tells me how much he loves me and stuff..And he said " i wished that katie and brandon would break up" and we got into a huge fight...Because he sleeps over at Katie's house all the time and he asked her out in september and she said no...He asked me out in november and him and Kaie are like brother and sister...But he likes her...He says he doesn't love me like he used to but he wants to be with me because he does love me...But he can't stop thinking about how things would be if him and Katie were going out...He says he'll do whatever he can to keep us together because he wants to be with me..
My first question is: How can I make him relize that she will never go out with him ever because it would ruin their friendship?(she told me that herself)
And my second question is: How can I help him fix what's wrong in our relationship?because it is just as much his fault as it is mine I had the same problem when we first started going out 6 months ago... (link)
ok he is fantasizing about another girl he is lusting after her find yourself a new guy that is with you and not with you physically but cheating mentally good luck with your relationship


what if someone had there pms for 2 months straight very heavy flow?I know someone dear to me that has this condition and i want to know whats wrong?What ilness is this and whats its cure?She has high blood pressure and sometimes shortness of breath. (link)
it could be pcos (polyocystic ovarian syndrome) or fibroid tumors thats what mine is please have her see a doctor its not fun or healthy to have a cycle that long you are a good friend to be concerned. Birth control pills can help make a cycle regular also try searching the internet for irregual cycles.


Do you think that people choose to be gay?

or does it just happen?

I think that it isn`t a choice, and you can`t control it. I just want to see other peoples opinions.

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Different people believe different things I happen to be biseual did I choose that no was I born that way? Yes I think I always looked at other girls and now that I am a woman I look at other women. I do not believe it is someting that can be controlled


im 13/f
i recently discovered a lumpy thing inside my brest,from my nipple.Im very flat and undeveloped so at first i thought i was finally growing,what age does brest cancer start?do u think i have it?plz help,thnx srry this is kinda grose (link)
there is nothing gross about your question it is good to ask and be very concerned about your health at a very young age have your mom or another close adult take you to the doctor to make sureit could just be a swollen gland or lymph node good luck


i am a female, around 185 lbs. and about 5'4
what should my "average" weight be?
or the normal.
is 110 too little?
oh and any good tips to help me get to my goal.
thank you!
much love
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I am your height and weight and I think I am fine 110 is a bit thin why do you want to make such a drastic weight reduction. try not drinking cold drinks drink lots of water eat fruit or vegetables when you have a sweet tooth craving try excercise and walking be healthy




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