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ok, 14/f. ok. long story short- my parents freaking drive my insane. i'm not even kidding. they are CRAZY. for example. this just happend like, 10 min. ago. today i went to target, and i got a new showercurtain for my closet door. i know, it sounds weird- a showercurtain for a closet door, but its acutally pretty cool. anyways, my room is tropical, so i got a vinal showercurtain. when i took it out of the package, it smelled pretty strong. so my mom and i go into my room to hang it up. we hang it up and my room smells really strong. so my parents are getting ready to go to bed, and i'm on the computer and talking to my friend on the phone, and i see my dad coming through the back door with my showercurtain. and i said "what are you doing?!" and he and my mom was like "you have asthma, it is too strong for you.. bla bla bla. " so i start getting really pissed because they shouldn't be able to just go into my room, and take down my stuff. like seriously? wtf?? omg the drive me nuts. so my dad takes the curtain out to the grage and hangs it up somewhere. well, it is a grage, and it is dirty, so it will get dirty out there. and my parents are just like "it needs to air out" so now i'm going to spend $15 for something that is going to get dirty. my parents do stuff like this ALL OF THE TIME. they always team up against me, and never listen to what i have to say. i feel like i'm just here for.. well, i don't know why i'm in this world. my parents drive me so nuts, i never tell them anything. like what goes on in school, when i'm having problems with a friend or somthing. i just don't know what to do anymore. i've delt with this for a while, and i just need some help. so any advice?? please??! thanks so much! (link)
Just comfront them as much as you can and try to get their attention. tell them how you feel about them intruding and taking down your stuff without permission. ask them how they would feel if you started pulling down and taking everything down and pulling everything out thats theirs. tell them that you don't feel that the smell of the shower curtain is effecting your asthma and tell them to trust you.




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1993


okay well there was this girl that i was like good friends with right? and then i started to like her and then she liked me too, but she wanted to get to know me better because we met this year. So then she tells me that she didnt feel that way anymore. So i was okay i still want to be friends and she wont talk to me anymore. She looks right through me in the halls and i think that i've tried everything. We used to be able to talk for hours, and now we cant talk for a minute online. What should I do? (link)
try to get her attention. if you see her again in the halls try to confront her and tell her how you feel about her ignoring you. express your feelings and try not to get aggressive. Suggest reasons why you were friends remind her of why you were friends. Ask her why she's ignoring you. She might tell you and you might be able to resolve it. She might be embarassed of something that you might have done try to find out what it is and resolve it etc.






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1993


Can anyone come up with ways I can get rid of smoke smells?

I can't go to my best friends house because my parents don't like her family because they smoke (but not her). When I go to her house and come out I smell really strong of smoke. I get punished really bad when they find out I went to her house but she's a very nice person it's just a smoke thing.

I don't wear perfume so you can't suggest that. thanks (link)
bring a spare set of clothes every time you go over there so she wont know where you have been :P
if she starts asking questions like did you change ur clothes? etc.
Then just start denying it, hide the other clothes nearby your friends house or just leave it at a dry cleaners etc. So if she suggests to check your bag there will be no signs of you being at her house :P.




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1993


theres this girl that likes my boyfriend and theres a picture of someone who looks like my boyfriend but i cant see the pic is there anyway to make a pic bigger some how but no make it blurry when u expand it? eh help (link)
Take it to a police station and they would be able to like depixellate it, my friend was playing a prank on me and i went to the police station and i askd them to depixellate it. and they did it.

Try it.




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1993


My brother recently passed away and my mother and I were discussing suicide and the bible. I am looking to find all references to it in both testament.
I know of a fiew,
old testament Saul
Judas Iscariot

If you can help me to find others it would be greatly appreciated. (link)
I can't seem to find any, but if this helps then cool:


Suicide is a sin, but it won't take you to hell as long as you have trusted christ throughout your life and yeah. If any of your friends etc. have been talking about suicide seriously or even just for a joke notify someone because they might be trying to give you a hint that they are serious.


Hope this kind of helps you!



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Can someone please help me by finding a site showing a close up map of north america? I have to label a map showing rivers, states, cities, provinces but whne I searched there were some but it was too small so I couldnt' see. thanks (link)
Hi, there is this thing called Google Earth.

Go on to google.com

and click on more there should be a link taking you to google earth
download it

it can zoom in heaps and you can search places instantly.



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1993




I love love love love this song.
"If you wanna dance"
By "never Heard of it" or "NHOI"
but i looked on limewire and cant find it.

someone PLEASE help. (link)
www.google.com

try there


try
www.dogpile.com

try

www.youtube.com


try

www.google.com and search shereeza

try downloading another version of limewire (if you alrdy have try again and see if anyone has added it in)

try changing your search words



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1993


One of my really good friends got in a humongous fight with me today and we took sides with our friends. I got so mad. She starting insulting me and using these really good comebacks. Do you know any good come backs I could get back at her for?? Shes like the Queen of Come backs. HELP!
I feel like a loser. (link)
Just relent and admit defeat. Sure it'll be embarassing but you'll be friends again. That's the important thing. you'll probably look back on that moment and laugh about it :P. Arguing encorages fights, fights leads to bad stuff dont wanna go there.


So just relent and admit defeat tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels and just say sorry.




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1993


http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j179/squifflet118/IMG_4004.jpg

i already have tight curls, but i want these ones!!!!!!

please give me step by step instructions with products, etc.

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Go to a salon and ask the "hair dresser" for products, tips and instructions. They shouldbe able to help you on that.


You see in windows those manikins wear strapless dresses and it looks perfect on them?

Well I owuld wear them but when I do or a tank top there's like fat that comes out of my arms peeking out and i'm skinney.

What can I do? Hopefull an excercise that won't make me get muscles.. (link)
Hi, im not sure how many your supposed to do but try to do as many as you can and if you feel exhausted and worn out and just stop and rest for a while.
Not sure how heavy the wights should be just pick a moderate weight you can pick up easily and that you can hold firmly without any hesitation.
Try just moving your arm up and down from your fist to your shoulder a number of times.
You can also try lifting those sliding weights, you do while lying down, that could help you.
Don't try lifting wights over your head because that is extremely dangerous especially when you can't sustain the weights.

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1993


okay well to make a long story short me and my boyfriend broke up and got back together when we broke up i told my mom and she was happy she hates him. but the thing is we got back together and im scared to tell her she'll like go crazy if i tell her we got back together. :( she said she didnt care if we were just friends he didnt do anything wrong though sooo uhh what do i do how do i tell her? should i even tell her? Shes so negitive about our relationship i dont even feel like telling her. Ehhh help pleaseee (link)
Be upfront and honest - :P tell her in your view how you see your boyfriend and how he reacts and acts in front of you and alone. She will understand eventually and relent. Ask her why she hates him so much, when he didnt even do anything wrong in the first place. tell her to give some reasons for all this hate. And if she doesnt have any then VICTORY! If she does then just give some reasons why YOU think he is a good boyfriend and a good person.




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1993


so my mom blocked the internet on my cell phone.And thats what i usually use to get ringtones from but i dont know what the name of the website on my phone was so i was wondering if anyone knew what webite for sprint phones what website do they use to get ringtones from ?
thank you. (link)
Not sure but try searching "free ringtones" in a search engine (www.google.com [recomennded])
Be sure to read all the fine print (small writing) and see if they want you to become a member or on a contract so you wont have to pay at all.



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1993


im 15 years old, and my friend is too. so today we went to the mall and since we were there for a LONG time we decided to go to target. we went to the Condoms area, just cause (lol) and we took decided to take them in the fitting rooms and look at them. the fitting lady was there too, but she didnt seem to notice. she was really rude too. we were just there, but my friend decided to take one. we left the rest of them underneath a clothing and left.


as we were about to leave Target, one of the people stopped us. as we turned around the fitting room lady was holding the condoms at us and started yelling. she was like "yall stole it. I KNOW YALL DID. its ALL on CAMERA"
we freaked outt
she took us to the police that was in target. and we were like begging not to tell our parents. the Police was like "you know yall could end up in jail if this was more major.why did yall steal this"

but he finally let us go.
everyone in target was staring at us and it was So embarrasing.

Our faces weer on the camera but they never asked for our names or anything.
I just dont want my parents or ANYONE at my school to know about this. it was funny, but still.



Do you think Anything Bad will Happen??
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Don't think so , if they didn't ask for names their not going to tell anyone. If they were going to tell someone they would have asked questions for eg. your name age etc. So im sure they wont tell anyone and no one will find out unless someone in target knows one of you guys and decided to tell eveyrone in your neighbourhood THEN YOUR SCRWD. lol anywayz they wont tell anyone im sutre of it. Dont be afraid.



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1993


i have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months. we are really close and love each othere very much. recently we have started talking about having sex, and i want to, and i feel that i'm ready. my problem is that how i can explain this to my parents. they waited until they got married and i don't want them to judge me because i don't want to wait. how can i bring this situation up if i have questions? how can explain to them how i feel? (link)
Well just be upfront and honest tell them how you feel and explain to them that your a teenager and teenagers tend to have urges - such as having sexual feelings about someone. Explain to them what you learn in PDHPE :P. They will be sure to understand. They went through these things and i think they should have some dirty secrets to tell :P.


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1993


So there is this guy in my 4th Period class: lets call him 'Mark'. So Mark has the most amazing smile and breath taking eyes. I think I do like him, he seems different from all the other guys, more calm and layed back but heres the catch -we never talk. But I really wish we could. I'm not great at conversation starters or getting guys attention. What can I do to snag his attention then?
We always make eye contact and I think we always catch eachother staring at one-another. Its cute but I want to move on to something else. What can I say/do? I am really oldschool I think the guy should make the first move, but that hasn't worked for me. So obviously I won't be all "OMMMGGG *hugs*" or touchy-feely with him.


...

Help.
:] (link)
Go up to him, be upfront and honest with him and tell him you feel about him and tell him what you want to do. If he rejects you or tells you "lets just be friends" don't worry - the world is a big place there's heaps of guys out there you'll be sure to meet one thats perfect to you! Another thing you could do is hint him buy complementing him about the way he looks, the way his eyes glitter etc. he'll be sure to think your up to something :P You could always send him a card or be a secret person on the internet and find out if he likes you. Try making a random email and add him on msn and ask him questions and then in the middle of teh conversation ask him if he likes anyone in his class. He might tell you, you never know. But if you do that NEVER tell him you did that otherwise that's just betrayal he might be really angry to you and lsoe trust in you. That's how i find out my girlfriend liked me :P. Now we're a really good couple and we are living together. :P

I hope this helped a lot


Thanks and i hope it all works out.


1993


do most girls shave them? when they are like 13,14,15?? do guys prefer it?? please leave me alot of answers (link)
Most girls shave their pubes off. As most guys like it like that. Some guys may like it, you can start shaving whenever you want, always remember to use a new razor every as using the same razor will cause rashes. Pubes are completely natural if boys don't like it they have to live with it. Boys - when they reach about 13 they will start growing pubes so what's the difference?
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1993


I love dancing especially hip-hop.. but i'd really like to find an online video that teaches me the steps to some really good songs (goodies by ciara?) but i cant find it does anyone know where i could find a "step by Step video"? (link)
Well, if your looking for the video there might be some here -

www.youtube.com


they supply heaps of videos and they should havethe video you are looking for - its best to join so when you learn the moves you can video yourself and put it on youtube! its a great site!




i hope i helped!




Thanx - 1993


My most boring class in high school is English. I cant stand that class at all. My teacher is sooo boring. Im not even kidding. It feels like we are learning history actually. We cant talk, we're separated by our friends, I sit by in between my most 2 worst enemies. Its freaking horrible. I just hate it so much. And then I always walk out to go out to my locker so bored. Im seriuos its so hard to survive that class. My face just drops and my lips just stick out. I cant do anything but listen. The question is HOW CAN I SURVIVE SUCH A BORING CLASS? (link)
try make it fun - try picturing everyone in thei runderwear or naked :P:P


So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?

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Let your "friends" know how you see Larissa in your view. If your friends don't believe you when your telling the truth their sure not to be good friends. There's heaps of people out there, anyone, anywhere could be your friend you never know. Just let them know how you feel about them hating you confront them and be upfront and honest with them. My friends used to hate me cuz i was hanging out with "lozers" i told them how i felt and why i hang around with them. Soon enough they started hanging out with the people they called "the lozers".


Well i hope this helps you!





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I'm just so lost and i feel so stupid because i've never really had a relationship before..btw 15/f. and i met this boy awhile ago and i had a crush on him when we first met, but i swear i have a crush on all the guys i first met. and now recenlty were talkin again and i think hanging out tomorrow. and it was about a month since we've talked. and my crush is back and he just told me he found out the girl he KINDA liked had a bf. so there is hope for me. but ahh i'm so lost. how do i know if i really like him, i'm pretty sure i do because when i hear his name i always direct my attetion to that conversation, look for him in the hall way to say hi, when my phone rings i just have a little hope its him, and when i see his friends i look behind them to see if hes there. and ahhhh i just want him to like me but i think why would he like me out of all the girls. and idk i just need some adive but hell i don't even know what to ask for adive. stupid boys got me so messed up i can't even ask a quesiton. well pretty much any advice will do on this subject. (link)
Well you have to be upfront and honest and tell him what your feelings are, if he says no (which i hope he won't) theres heaps of guys out there don't worry! Your only 15 theres still heaps of time - if you really believe in yourself you'll be sure to meet someone special and you'll know their he right one. Guys - all they think about is sex and girls - most of them anyways - so it may be hard trying to find the perfect guy but you'll get there for sure!

I hope this helped!


1993




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