okay well to make a long story short me and my boyfriend broke up and got back together when we broke up i told my mom and she was happy she hates him. but the thing is we got back together and im scared to tell her she'll like go crazy if i tell her we got back together. :( she said she didnt care if we were just friends he didnt do anything wrong though sooo uhh what do i do how do i tell her? should i even tell her? Shes so negitive about our relationship i dont even feel like telling her. Ehhh help pleaseee
DepthofHeart answered Saturday March 31 2007, 12:11 am: Be honest with your mother and tell her how you feel. Tell her you're back together but you don't appreciate her negativity on the subject of your relationship, and that It would mean a lot to you if she would support you. Even if she doesn't like your boyfriend she should at least be able to hold back her comments and trust you to make your own decisions. [ DepthofHeart's advice column | Ask DepthofHeart A Question ]
1993 answered Friday March 30 2007, 11:11 pm: Be upfront and honest - :P tell her in your view how you see your boyfriend and how he reacts and acts in front of you and alone. She will understand eventually and relent. Ask her why she hates him so much, when he didnt even do anything wrong in the first place. tell her to give some reasons for all this hate. And if she doesnt have any then VICTORY! If she does then just give some reasons why YOU think he is a good boyfriend and a good person.
peebles7 answered Friday March 30 2007, 11:07 pm: if I were you I would wait a while, pretend you are just friends for the time being, and once you know you are staying together for a while tell your mom, but try to make her understand that he has changed and he respects you yada yada yada....if she thinks you were just friends for a while, then i'm sure she'll think he's an ok guy [ peebles7's advice column | Ask peebles7 A Question ]
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