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people not talkin to you
okay well there was this girl that i was like good friends with right? and then i started to like her and then she liked me too, but she wanted to get to know me better because we met this year. So then she tells me that she didnt feel that way anymore. So i was okay i still want to be friends and she wont talk to me anymore. She looks right through me in the halls and i think that i've tried everything. We used to be able to talk for hours, and now we cant talk for a minute online. What should I do?
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oohh.. i sort of did that to my ex. i did it because i didnt want the relationship to get super awkward. (if that helps with what happened with that girl)
anyway, there are several things you can do:
- just give her some space. dont email / im her for a week or two and see if she comes around. you never know what girls will do with a little space to sort out their thoughts
- stop. in school (if possible) just go up to her and say, "what happened?" donttt say, "you never talk to me anymore." that will make her more upset & not want to talk to you even more. use "I" statements like, "i notice that we never talk anymore... is something wrong?" or "i'm sorry for whatever i did... can't we still be friends?" notice how i used "I" and "we" and not "you." if you can't talk to her in school, IM her & say, "are you busy? can you stay for 10 minutes?" if she doesn't respond, or says, "yeah, i'm busy," just send her an email. say something like, "i noticed we never talk anymore and i was just wondering if it was something i did. can we talk and discuss what happened?" she might seriously be really uncomfortable about this, but if you really care about her, you'll do what's best for both of you.
-i know this might sound harsh, but it could be a possibility. you could try moving on if you can. if she really doesn't want to talk to you anymore, she's not worth your time. i'm sure youre a great guy who can meet girls easily & can make friends with girls. just don't bother with her anymore. if her birthday is coming up, send her a card by e-mail or IM and say "happy birthday." nothing else.
honestly, if i were you, i wouldn't spend too much time worrying. i know you really liked her & it's gonna be hard to realize but there's a reason why she's doing this. or she doesn't have a reason at all. she's not worth your time if she does that to you.
i hope i helped & good luck ♥
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try to get her attention. if you see her again in the halls try to confront her and tell her how you feel about her ignoring you. express your feelings and try not to get aggressive. Suggest reasons why you were friends remind her of why you were friends. Ask her why she's ignoring you. She might tell you and you might be able to resolve it. She might be embarassed of something that you might have done try to find out what it is and resolve it etc.
Hope this helped!!!
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I have a feeling she's ignoring you is because she met another guy, then talking to you might be a bit awkward for her. But if you really want to, this might sound gay. I don't know about other girls, but I could never ignore a note that's for me. So write her a note and ask her why she's doing this. Have a friend hand it to her or something. Hah, if that doesn't work, go up to her front door and demand an answer. I really hope your friendship with her isn't ruined. Good luck :]
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