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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!
well.. certain people try and take their pain in life out on themselves.. physically. So they take a knife and see what they can slit.. sad. :-(, try being supportive of your friend, this will prob. be a hard time. good luck xoxo
I was wondering if it's okay for girls to shave their stomachs because somebody told me that it's one of the places you shouldn't shave. Is that true? and what are the places you shouldn't shave other than your face?
its ok to shave your stomach if thats what you want to do, lol.. nothing happens. Some people are just stupid and probably want you walking around like an ape.. no haha.. just ignore them. Hmm you can basically shave ne thing but your face ... ohh i dont suggest like shaving your hands or arms thats just wierd.
I have braces and for me its hard to brush them right. so when i get them of (in 6 months) i want to get something that will whiten my teeth so i can get baq on track. do you have any good-cheap ideas of what will work. (cuz i try so hard at doing a good job but it doesnt help!)
thankyou so much!
crest night effects. never used it, but heard it works :-D
Ok, I just started a relationship with a girl that goes to a different school than me. I will probably not be able to see her more than once every 1-2 weeks and I know theres gonna be a lot of guys hitting on her at her own school. Any advice on how I can keep her interested and make this work? I wont be worried after a few weeks have gone by, but this first little bit is going to be tough.
the sucky thing is your just going to have to trust her. If she's worthy to be your girlfriend she'll ignore all the guys hitting on her. If you think ahead of time she'll already flirt back with them your already conscious of the fact shes really not true to you, in which case dump her. But the way I see it if she loves you enuff and enjoys the relationship the way she should you will be fine , and just have to trust her. If I can help you with anything further in the situation, inbox me, Im here 4 ya.
Me n my bfz 1 year iz in october but so iz his birthday so im tryna start to save up sum money to get him sumtin but i dont only wanna get him sumtin i wanna like make him sumtin really nice and cute n e ideas?!?!?!?!??!
hmmm....
get him a baseball hat or a jersey, or something he likes. How about cdz or some dvdz he likes?? Hmmm... setup a movie nite for your anniversary/his birthday, you guys can eat his favorite dish and watch a movie, and you can give him a little cake. :-D I think that would be fun and romantic. Good luck xoxo
you know those icons, some have them in their profiles. tsome move some dont but uh... where do you get them?
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www.ghettoicons.com
hope i helped :-D
Im 5'4 and I weigh 115 lbs. Im going to be in 11th grade this year so im 16 yrs old. I cant help to think im fat. Im not trying to be annoying but its so true. I stress my self about it EVERYDAY! My friends tell me "im so skinny, I have a tiny waist and big boobs " thats them talking. I want to believe them I just cant I look in the mirror and see disgust, Hatful FAT! I want to just accept my body. How can I feel better about myself? Please Ill take any advise. Its just been giong on for so long and Im tierd of worring day in and day out! I have other things to worry about like helping my mom with her boyfriend But thats a whole other story.
Well first off, heres why you need to stop thinking that. My sister always thought she was 'fat' and she really wasnt. And her turnout isnt so good right now. She has anorexia and would do anything to take all the thoughts that she was fat, back. So I'm not trying to freak you out or whatever but just KNOW that you are under average wieght for your age, and hieght! I actually found that out online. But anyway, friends dont usually lie. Of course if they thought you were 'fat' they wouldnt say anything mean but they sure wouldnt say 'your so skinny' and stuff like that. How about eating a little healthier though? No need to work out but im sure you'll feel better for eating an apple as a snack over a big hunk of ice cream. You'll start feeling better b/c you know your eating things that are good for you, there fore your not a fat pig! Hope i helped. If you need help about that moms- boyfriend situation, send one to my inbox I am more than willing to help. Good luck :-D
what do u do for a burn on ur skin?
put alot of ice on it. That should help pretty good .. make pressure on it too, it should fade a lot. Hope that helped, i know it helped me! Good luck :-D
does any one know where u can get accesories for a kyocera ohantom cell phone?
well i dont know specifically, but look at the kiasks in a mall they have like a gazillion different phone types. Ask the salesperson if they have anything for your type of phone, im sure they'll know ..
there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say?
Just say to him i kinda wanna go alone, or i really need to be by myself. Most likely the kid will understad, i doubt this would hurt his feelings. Hope I helped, let me know what happens.
My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!
What do i do?? please help...i rate high.
Thanks so much..
Unfortunately this ones really tough. Its unfortunate adults have the last decision, but theres still hope. You NEED to explain to your mom ONE more time.. hes unhealthy and he cheats on her and the fact that shes marrying him will make her cry all the time because he will constantly be cheating on her. Ask her if she wants to keep crying and if she wants to keep on having sad days or if she wants to move on and get a NEW life. Explain to her the whole control issue could even lead into an abusive relationship. You need to stress all the dangers and unhappiness of marrying him again and again. Hate to say it, but maybe you can bribe her. She MUST love you because your her kid so just be like if you marry him i refuse to live with you, or something extreme like that. I d k.. other than that you need to KEEP on trying and making things difficult and making him look really bad. Good luck! If you need any other help, inbox me, i really wanna help with this situation, let me know what happens.
my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
qtpie101
well dont go out with him if you think he'll only go out with you for looks. And dont worry about loosing wieght for him, dont bother, at 13 you shouldnt have to be loosing wieght especially for men. 5 pounds isnt bad at ALL. But I would give this guy a try if you like him, but dont let him mistreat you!
if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??
No not really. It would be different if you made out with 100 different people.. but just one is no big deal. I wouldnt make it a habit but its not terrible.
For those of you who use PictureTrail is it free?
yes!
What is a good daily fitness routine I can do that will cover most areas of the body?
jogs around the block, do crunches for the ((abs))
do guys like when girls where fishnets? (guys answer too!) and what are some good sites where i can order some? thanks
UHH no.. its sorta.. slutty.. but im not calling ne one names its just what people think of that.
ok. My sister has behavioural problems which make her argue and shout all the time, we are supposed to be seeing a family counciller soon because it's a REALREAL problem but my parents keep forgetting about me and giving my sister loads of attention because they say she's 'got problems' they keep explaining it to me and saying they understand how i feel but they just DON'T what do i do?
wow, thats really sad, sorry to hear. Its not so much they dont care about you, its just your sister obviously requires a LOT of their attention. I promise hang in there until she sees a counceler and things will get better. Try being really sweet to her ALL the time b/c you will be a good influence. Dont let her see you yell b/c that obviously will be no good for her case. Good luck xoxo.. if you neeed ANYTHING just inbox me ... :-D
im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...)
umm idk hieght doesnt matter but you guys are REALLY far off in hieght. If you like eachother for who you are then thats all that should matter. If people say stuf, ignore them, like you said yourself I LIKE HIM TOO thats all that matters. Ignore the crowd and follow your heart, and thats all that should matter.
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good luck
Hey..my good friend's parents are having a divorce..and her dad doesn't even know yet? The court date is on monday?! Whenever I go to her house...their parents seem fine? I know for a fact they don't fight at all! Ahhh and My friend is acting like nothing is wrong?!?! PLEASE HELP
well unfortunately your friend probably doesnt want to talk about it. She may just be covering up what shes feeling. Theres nothing for you to be worried about, b/c its really not your situation, so just accept it for now, and if it helps, ask your friend what she does feel.
sorry this had to happen 2 her
Your trying to be a really good friend tho.. and thats soo important.. :-D
byyye xoxo
I have light brown hair and big dark brown eyes with long dark eyelashes. How should i wear my make up so i look my best?
wear blue eye liner!! Try putting some in the corners of your eyes, egyptian-like. Haha. I know it sounds wierd but its actually really cool. Put on shades of eye shadow that matches your outfit but at the same time makes your eyes look brilliant, you can experiment with that. Try using a really good lip gloss, and your set to go.