(im 14 by tha way)Okay three years ago i met this guy..i went crazy for him..we went out for 3 months n i found out he had played me when i was on vaca. well i dumped him..then we went out fer another month or so n broke up again..because i had found out he had tried to play me with my friend hannah! well tha year after that i irnored him completly..i couldnt stand him afta everything he put me through..well he went to a different school tha rest of tha year. then just last school u he was back..at first i wouldnt talk to him then i cracked. we went out fer a week n broke up then went out fer 2 months n broke up again. After that we had gotten in fights didnt talk fer a few weeks started to talk again got REALLY close..that just kept happening tha last 4 months of school. Well then my dream came true he asked me to go with him to our 8th grade dance. I was sooo happy n excited! well a day b4 tha dance i asked him if we were still on fer tha dance n he said "sure...but..im guna hang out n dance with other girls!" i got so mad! so i decided last minute to tell him i was going with sum friends..at that dance he came up hugged me n said u look sooo good tonight! i think he was wanting me to say aww thanks dance with me!! but instead i said yeah i know! n just kinda pushed him away...i felt so great!!! him n my bff have been on n off fer tha past year and a half. Right now she is totally crazy for him. and i know he is just going to end up hurting her again but newayz they talk on ths phone all tha time n she was on tha phone with him tha other day when i was over n he was calling me a b*itch (dont know if we can swear on this website?ol) skut hoe n stuff...i got sooo mad..then every so often he would ask my bff "did she say nething bout me yet??!" he is sucha jerk..and i know hes just doing that becausee i dont like him..but he also left me to really nasty msg's on my cell phone. i want to say sumthing but im not sure because this fall he is going to tha same highschool as me and i dont want to have any trouble! what should i do?!!?!? plz help thanx! xo0ox!!
Tell him he should stop, if he tries to ruin your reputation just ruin his right back.. Ask him why he has to be like that and tell him that he got what he deserved...
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Hey im 13, female. I Like this kid n he likes me 2.. im pretty sure?! Well i liked him last yr n he didnt like me.. but now he does, its a lil weird i kno?! But anyways we always talk n hes really nice and everything but it seems like if i went out with him he might use me kinda, n i brought it up to him b4, but he started laughing n was like noo i wud never, i luv u, n all that stuff thats most of tha time 'fake'. So i dunno if i should give him a chance or not? Because ive been single for a while now, cuz im pretty picky and sumtimes i shudnt be that way, but this time i think i like this kid. But wen schools back in we'll be in different schools once again, n i mean i duno if its gunna last that long. I wudnt mind it being jus a summer thing. N If not we can work it out for tha school yr or sumthin. But i just dont want 2 make another mistake. Wat shud i do?
I'd go with your gut instinct, if you have a feeling that maybe he'd use you, chances are he would... Just keep looking there are plenty of other guys in the world, he's one of many...
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iif i wanna tell the boy i love how i feel and ask him how he feels towards me how would say it exackly ?
The best advice for that is just to let everything you say coem from the heart...
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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?
Well feelings change... You may be a "lesbian" now but who knows that might change... It's not anyones say in whether its right or wrong, you just do what makes you happy
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So right now I don't have any friends at all.I used to but all of them moved or we just grew a part.I am getting homeschooled but I want to go to high school to be able to make some friends.Well the problem is transpartation.How can I make new friends?
Try and meet some people around your neighborhood, go on walks and meet new people or something... I dunno you'll find friends, just get out a little
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Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx!
Well you weren't really together, so I wouldn't really consider that cheating, maybe to the guy you were "together" with might think so but I dunno... Just keep it on the low... It's not like you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...???????
Just try to move on, it will be hard, but try... It's not worth waiting around for something that isn't gonna happen you know? There are plenty of other guys out there... Just be patient and one will come along for you
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does ne body know if laughing actually works out your abs? and if ne body knows some good work outs to get your stomach more toned just stuff you can do around the house without a full on workout please tell me! thanks much..
I think laughing makes your abs stronger I'm not sure though... Just keep yourself busy around the house, don't sit down and watch tv, just do stuff, turn on some music and dance, or maybe clean or something... i dunno just stay busy
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should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ?
Yeah, let them know how you feel, it's always better to let it out, so they know, maybe they feel the same way... age doesnt really matter, and neither does distance when it comes to love
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I was spending the night at my freind "susies" house with my other freind "Jane". we have all been really good freinds since kindergarden and im now 14. Well anyway. we had gotten some chinese food. Susie and i love to eat so we each had large portions of food. Jane only had a small peice of orange chicken and some rice but didnt eat any of it because she claimed she wasnt hungry and that the chicken was too spicy. then she went on to tell us about how lately she was only hungry for salad which is what she only eats.(dressing- water and salt). plus- she runs non stop and has lost a lot of weight and still claimes that she is fat. and trust me this girl didnt need to go on a diet. about 15 min. after we finished eating, we went on the computer and susie and i could hear janes stomach gowling. im really worried, i love her alot and i dont want her to hurt herself. am i being to paranoid? Susie thinks the same way. what should i do?
Tell her you're worried about her and give her compliments on how nice she looks and how her body is great the way it is.. it will boost her self confidence and she'll probably feel better about herself and eat more
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i just dumped my bf i totally regret it he is hurt he just doesnt wanna go bak out cuz his friend told him not to and idk i need help
Tell him if he really loved you and was seriously hurt he would take you back... or you could do something sweet for him
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how do u rate other ppl
you have to ask a question and you rate their answer... yeah you have to be the one asking the question
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I'm a 24 year old woman and I don't live with my parents anymore, but recently I stayed with them for a couple of months and I accidentally found out that my father's been looking at pornography on the internet. To say it was a shock is such an understatement. I'm still shaken up and upset after 6 months. My parents have been happily married for over 30 years and I've never ever thought my father would be the type to look at porn. Ever since I found out, I kept a close eye on my father and I started to notice that he does look at young women in mini skirts etc. when we go out. It's raised a lot of questions like, have I been a fool to think my parents are happily married, are they hiding something from me or is he having an affair and on and on. I can't see or think of my father in the same way I used to anymore. It just feels like I've been traumatised. Please help me. How can I get over this?
Well most guys look at girls, I guess it's just a habit... Just try to think about other things, when you talk to him just try to be nice and not think about what you found out or anything...
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Friday night me and this kid finally met, he was such a sweetie i instantly fell in love with him. We were hugging eachother holding hands and we even kissed once!...I was so so so SO happy because he treated me like i deserved to be treated...Well we all went home and I couldn't talk to him that night or anything because I was in trouble for being out so late, but the next day I started talking to him, and he was acting so weird!...Like he says "...You know i cant talk to you whenever you want me to!" and I know thats not mean but if felt so painful because of how much i liked him!...So today we talked again and he was being so sweet, balling me baby, but then hes like "its as simple as this...I dont wanna date you" I was crushed and broke out into tears!! and i really cant get my mind off of him..The reason im so crushed is because Friday night he told me he really liked me...but now hes saying all this stuff and now saying he has a girlfriend...my heart is so broken, and i cant stop thinking about him...what should I do?help!!=( xoxo // Lyss (I'm 13 and a girl)
Just try to move on, look for a new guy, there are plenty of fish in the sea, your guy is out there somewhere, just keep your head up and keep looking
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Ok i really really really like this kid hes 16 and i`m 13 and we live hour and 15mins. we talk online and on the phone alot ! should i tell him how i feel and should i keep tryin for him or give up ?
Hmm I think I just answered a question like that? Oh well... if you think you will see him enough try for it, tell him how you feel and see how he feels in return...
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Theres this guy, and I really really really like him a lot. And my friends met him and saw us together and they all say that he deffinetly likes me too! They try and get us to hook up, but nothing ever really happens. I'm going to an amusement park with him later this week, and my friend said shes going to get us together, but what should I do? What if he's to shy, do I go for it? HELP PLEASE!!!
oh and im..13, and im a girl. did i really have to put that in there? what for? just curoius
Just be yourself, he'll probably go for it more than likely... Lol the age is so it makes it easier to give advice when you're dealing with a certain age group or something
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hey! well i`m 13 and i went campin a few weeks ago with my brother and a bunch of other peopl i usually go camping with there all close friends and alot of times we meet alot of kids well this one time we were playin manhunt and we met a kid who just turn 15 and i thought he was cute from the start sorta like love at first site ! well afta that night all i could think about was him we would look at each other alot and talk !! the next night we were suppose to play that game again but we couldn't so we all just went ova to his fire and hung!there were no more chairs for me by the fire so he pulled up a chair for me right next to him and i helped him make a a s`more and then we left and he gave me his s/n the next day we left the campground and i have been talkin to him on line and on the phone alot he said i was hot and we flirt alot but the probablem is age he 15 and i`m 13 and he lives a hour and 15 mins. away what should i do ? can u help ? x0ox
Well to me personally age doesn't really matter, I was 14 and went out an 18 year old last year... But its different for other people, it all depends on how much you like him... An hour isn't really that far.. he's 15, he should get his liscence soon, maybe he could come visit you? If you want a relationship with him, maybe you could give it a try, I dunno just try it and see? Lol that probably didn't help very much, I'm talking to my boyfriend right now and my mind kind of goes blank lol... But anyways, give it a try, and if you do go out try and see how often you can visit him...
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All my life ive never been the new kid ,I just got out of 8th grade (frum a private skool)and all my frends come frum diff towns so the highskools we are going to are gunna be differant anyways i dont know anyone in my new skool ill be going to in September so i was jus wondering if you think ill meet new ppl and make sum frends just like whats it like???? cuz im mad freaked out
Just be yourself and you will make friends in no time...
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i dont kno anyone in my new skool *highskool*im not a mean person and i have alot of friends in my old skool do you think ill make friends cuz im really scared about it please help!thanks in advance
Yeah, just be yourself and you'll meet new friends in no time
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Since of late i havent been really happy anymore with my bf, so i talked to him about it today (7-12-04) and we decided to take a break. It didnt kick in yet that i was now seperated from him for awhile but as im writing this email... im starting to realize that maybe i shouldnt have done that.
I said i needed a break becuz i wasnt happy and i wasnt sure if i really wanted to be with him and even though this feeling was on and off... 75% of the time i was feeling that i needed a break so thats why i took it. I needed time to figure out if being with him was what i really wanted.
IM so scared of losing him but becuz we are taking a break we arent talking and im scared to admit that maybe i was wrong . Yet im also scared to go back with him and find that i really did need the break.
What should i do?
Tell him the reason you wanted to take a break... If he really loves you or whatever he won't let you out of his life...
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