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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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I am in middle school...in grade 8 and my friends and I wanna do a dance to a song that will be funny and flirty anyone have and ideas on songs or dance moves...THX Luv ya

hey, public affair by jessica simpson or instigator by kaci brown.

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im overweight but also underweight~my arms ar tiny only like 5in around and my wrists are 3 but i can lift 90lbs with my arms~my stomach rightbelow my ribs is big i cant see my feet standing straight but u can see my ribs~my legs are humongus like 23in around my thighs but i can lift 140lbs w/ my legs what kind of exercise should i do~ im to skinny in areas but to fat in others i just wana be average weight all around not skinny not fat what do i do and dont say a doctor they just said im over and under weight in other areas help mee

hey, well i would ask your doctor about it. he will probably know whats best for you.

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i have been out of school for 2 weeks and will be out about another week because of medical problems . i really want to be homeschooled , but my dad threatened my mom saying that if she doesnt keep me in a public school then he will take her to court and get custody of me . so do you think my mom can go on and homeschool me or do you think my dad would be able to really take her to court and get me ?

hey, well make a poster of pros and cons of homeschooling. of course you can cheat a little and make a few more pros then cons, but you still need the cons there. he could take you to court. his chances of winning are slim.

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i know of KELLE, but does anyone know any other professional and trusted dance costume brands and/or websites?


thanks for the help...
xoxo



14/f

hey, well there is a store called "on your toes" where i live. you can try asking the operator for that. they sell a lot of good namebrands. my personal favorite is capezio.

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this is really gross im not going to lie. My vaginal area has been giving off a really bad odor since yesterday. Im not dirty i shower everyday and i dont have sex with dirty people, im a virgin. Not only does it give off realy bad odors but it leaves stains in my underware that are slightly yellow mostly white and a little bit gewey and clumpy. I will be completely honest becasue i need someone help on this i i was fingered by my boyfriend yesterday and i think it might be becasue of that but hes not dirty and im not either. Whats wrong why am i producng this and how do i stop it from happening? Please help me and thank you

hey, thats all perfectly normal. wear a thin pantyliner to avoid getting it in your underwear. its actually the vaginas way of cleaning itself out.

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has anyone bought the new cd? i want to get it soooo bad but i havent heard anything from it so i wanted to know if its worth going out to buy. thanks

hey, well i personally dont buy cds from any group. i just get the songs off limewire or itunes. theres even http://www.musicplaylist.net where you can make your own playlist for free.

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How do you handle jealousy in your relationships. Not freindships, because i get jealous of my friends all of the time, but i handle that (sorta) but how do you handle jealousy with your boyfriends...i just dont know how...suggestions anyone?

hey, well just think of it like this. he likes you. no matter how many other girls that flirt with him he picks you. so you must be special and all those girls must be jealus of you.

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does anyone know of a site that has step-by-step instructions -that are easy to follow- for making a DIV myspace overlay?

only search advicenators.com

easily answered by google.

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how did valentines day start?

only search advicenators.com

easily answered by google.

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for valentines day, me and all my friends are giving eachother things. i need to give things to about 13 friends. does anyone know any cupcake recipes that are really yummy? preferably chocolate? and a delecious frosting?
whenever anyone bakes a cake we always end up having a cake fight with it
also, i might want to bake cookies so would anyone know any good cookie recipes and any white frosting that would harden? thanx you so much!

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googling was a kinda obvious thing.

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When me and my boyfriend are having intercourse and he goes in deep or in from behind I feel a very sharp pain inside just above my pelvic region. This has been occuring alot. We have tried giving it a break for months but the pain is always there whenever we have sex no matter how long we relax and stay away from having sex. I am beginning to get worried and i can only get a doctors appointment next month. What do you think it is, how and when will it go away and what can I do to help it go away faster? Please help me!?!

hey, well i would just stay away from sex until the appointment. once you get there explain all of this to them. there pretty much the only ones that will know exactly what is wrong.

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My friend Megan one day randomly asked me to go out with her brother, Chris, who I'd never met. I said no, of course. "Too bad! I already asked him!" she told me. Then about a week later I actually did get to meet him on a school field trip. We spent a lot of time together & flirting like crazy, even holding hands a few times while we were ice skating and trying not to fall. So I started to really like him and when I told Megan she's like, "ewwww". She said it was just a joke when she asked me to go out with him. But apparently she really had asked him if he'd go out with me. So now I finally got it explained to him that I didn't like him & that his sister was full of crap. The problem is, now that I HAVE met him, I do like him! A lot! But how can I ask him out NOW? Besides, I don't know if he's REALLY into me or if he was just flirting back because it was a crazy fling type thing. Somebody's gotta help me! I'm too naive to know what to do on my own! And just so's u know, Megan claims she doesn't care if I go out with him. But what if she's lying & it would bother her? Please gimme some advice!

hey, well you have to just basically explain to him what your explaing to us. megan shouldnt have a problem and if she was lying to you then its her own fault. give her the heads up that you like him and that your going to see him if things work out.

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Okay, last month i had something like a period, it was just brown. And this month it turned red. In the summers i ususally spend most of my time outside swimming, at the beach, and all sorts of stuff like that. I am a self concious person when it comes to swim suits. With me just starting my period, what will my figure look like by summer time? Like curves, tummy, and boobs. Like how much would my boobs have grown or my figure have taken shape then?

About me now. Im about 5'5 and i weigh 125 pounds. My belly sticks out some, and my sides are like curved some in one spot basically on both sides, so it makes me have "love handles." And im basically, almost flat chested, they just stick out enough to have a shadow between them or to have a shadow at the top or a really low cut shirt, you know like where the boobs "start" theres like a little dark place between them.

14/f

hey, just because you have your period doesnt mean anything. your body will grow when its ready. it might happen in a month, it might happen in a year. alls you can do is wait for that. wear padded bras to help enhance the little cleavage that you do have. being flat chested isnt always bad. most girls with big boobs hate them and wish they were flat chested. basically what im trying to say is, love what you have. god made you that way for a reason.

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15/f

Okay. So I have this guy friend. He's 17. And I like him a lot. He's very nice to me, and we're practically best friends. BUT...about 2 weeks ago, he told me he didn't want to be with me. But we should still be best friends. And so about two weeks ago, I found out he has a girlfriend. She's the same age, but he knew her for a less amount of time than me. The thing is - I get SO jealous and I want to be with him - but since he already told me off about that, there is really nothing I can do. But, whenever we're in a group conversation on MSN or something, I get SO pissed and jealous and just storm off. The thing is - she's really nice. As much as I would love to be happy for them - him and her - I can't face my jealousy. I can't be happy for them without hating her evern though she didn't do anything bad to her. Now whenever I talk to him, I'm filled with hatred and the most JEALOUS kind of jealousy in the world. I always wish them the worst. I always cry about it and wish that they would break up. What do I do? How can I overcome this? :(

hey, alright well he likes her and made it clear that he wants to be just best friends. being jealous all the time might ruin the friendship. would you want to go from best friends to nothing and not be able to talk to him at all? just try to adapt to the new relationship that he has. maybe you guys just werent meant to be and if you are things will work out for you. just wait it out and see what happens.

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15-homeschooled
i like this guy who is a friends bro and i wont see him any more after b-ball season and i dont know how to tell him that i like him in like 2weeks seeing him maybe 3days a week even though i do have his emai

hey, well if you dont talk to him i dont think that you like him. its just an attraction and i garentee that you "like" him for his looks and not his personality [considering you dont even knwo his personality]. anyways, just start talking to him through email and get to know him more.

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what are the best styling tools and hair products i have long thin hair and like styles that i can wear down

hey, well i use pantene curling shampoo, conditioner, anti-frizz cream, mouse, and gel. when i wear my hair curly i use all of those products along with a diffuser. those products make the curls stay in. when i wear my hair straight i just use the shampoo, conditioner, and mouse. it gives the straight look volume.

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Ok.. I really want to go to Brazil sometime soon to see a good friend of mine. I was wondering if anyone knew how I could 1)talk my mom into letting my go and 2) how i can go there for cheap.. any suggestions?

hey, well make a poster of the pros and cons of going there. of course you can put more pros, but you need to have some cons on there so that she doesnt think that your just trying to convince her and avoid the bad things. dont make the cons make her say no tho. there no really way of going there cheap. you can maybe buy the cheapest plane ticket and maybe stay at a lower class hotel but thats about it.

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does anyone know if the ab lounge chair or the 6 second ab things actually work?? if you dont know what they are by name search them in google and you'll see what i'm talking aboutt.. let me know thanks!

hey, well i dont believe in buying those types of things. they might work but not as good as they say on tv. actually joining a gym would probably been much more benefical.

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I went to a party and i had never drunk a day in y life but i wanted to try it and try different taste and drink only so that i didn't get drunk I so I opened one bottle of liquor soft it was but i didn;t finish it but i drunk a bit of it theyn they begin to mix drinks i got a mudslide drink that i didn't finish but it was nasty and i got a strawberry daquori it was fairly good the best i had all night but i didn't want to finish it because i didn't want to get drunk that is why i didn;t try to finish a lot of the earlier stuff because id din't want to finish it and not be able to try somehting else becasue i was already tipsy. I also had a jello shot but it was so strong i could taste the alcohol and i did not ask for that. So was i wrong and that wasteful and shoyuld the buyer have been mad at me but i did pitch in to help buy the food. but i know they put the most money in. Give me your opinion.

hey, well the proper thing to do while going to a party would be to at least bring one thing. whether it be cookies or punch. it was a bit wasteful that you tried so many things and only drank not even half of them. if you wanted to try something you should have only asked for a little before getting a whole drink. the buyer shouldnt be that mad because some people just arent big drinkers. just next time only ask for what your actually going to drink and also bring something little.

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heyy ... okay well me n my bf just got together on the 7th and weve gone to the movies together and stuff so yah but i really wanna kiss him and i dont really no how to .. he said he wants to kiss me to so yah but i dont no what to do like just randomly kiss him or what .. it would be me first kiss so i want it to be special. we've like hugged and everything so yahh... and i need some ideas on what to get him for v-dayy. thanks for the helpp!!!!

hey, well since it hasnt even been a week you should take things slow. if your not ready for a kiss and your just doing it because of valentines day then stop. you have to be ready and not plan it. those are the best and most magical first kisses ever. as for what to get him, i would get him a hoodie since your only thirteen and havent even been going out for a week. but if your planning on something more sentimental, then get him a chain. thoes are usually expensive thats why i said a hoodie at first. also he might only get you flowers and like a teddy bear and if you spend like 70 dollars on a chain for him and only get like 15 dollars worth of presents you might be disapointed. hoodies are the best way to go.

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