My Brother is 36 and is supper nice guy He would do anything for anyone. He is hard worker. But He is not the most good looking and is very shy and has a hard time talking with others. But he is also the type of guy that once you know him you will most likly like him. As do the people that work with him. He was Sped-Ed student in school so he really does not have friends his own age and never dated anyone. But i know he like to be married so how can i help him.
I always think its 10x harder when you're a shy person to find someone. Check out this website:
www.shyunited.com
its pretty great as its people admitting there shy. So by chatting to other self confessed shy people online who are also looking for love, your brother should become more confident. Theres alot of people out there just like you're brother, so make him know that. Hope this helped :)
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I need help cleaning my room but without it being so boring!I don't have the ability to listen to music a. because my parents are asleep and if I wake them I'll have to clean the whole house instead of just my room b. I don't even have a radio in my room! and c. Even if I did I wouldn't get any work done because i get distracted WICKED easily and I would just sing along with the radio and not do any work! I just cant find anything that makes cleaning the pig sty I call a room fun! :(
heres my advice. You could.
a) buy an ipod and listen to music that you moderatley like, but not love so you're not that distracted.
b) set goals. make a weekly plan. say one day to yourself 'today all i'm going to clean is around the bed' and the next day 'today i'll do the dusting'
c)invite a friend over so you'll have no choice really but to clean your room
d) think of the good bits! you wont loose anything, you'll catch less cold cos theres less bactera everywhere.
hope this helps :)
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OK, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and i thought that i liked him but now i realize that i don't really like him, i am still in love with my past boyfriend and this is really hard i don't know what to do at all with the boyfriend that i have now??? And i think that my past boyfriend still likes me also so i am stuck between the to and did i mention that my mom and my boyfriend now's mom work together and are really close!! PLEASE HELP!!!!
I am 13 years old
and well duh i am a female.
If you've fallen out of love with your current bf then yeh deffinatly dump him, saying you've fallen out of love with him.
Then i'd give it at least a few weeks without talking to any of them. In this time, you can get ur head straight and work out what you want. Its a well known fact of life that WE WANT WHAT WE CAN NOT HAVE. So you're more attracted to your ex bf at the moment because you can't have him. Because your in a new relationship. Follow?
If you do decide to go out with your ex again, take small steps. Ensure you make any break up clear and as painless as possible. You're only thirteen years old, so if i were you i'd just enjoy life atm. hope this helps :)
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I keep dreaming about it with my crush but its like I really wanna do it.What age do I need to have my first kiss? :[
Any age you feel ready. I'd advise you're in a relationship tho-don't hook up with a stranger. Though oral sex is illegal untill you're 16.
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My friends and I were pictochatting and they saw my secret crush on their ds and I can't think of a way to tell them to make them forget it,but to me its still true I love the boy.What can I do??
The thing is, your probably feeling alot more embarrased than they are. They are all friends. Good friends share secrets like this! Just send them a serious email or text saying to keep it quiet-they'll give you lots of support if they're good friends.
If they tease you for more than a day, they're not good friends. And ultimatley if he does find out, it's not the end of the world. he'll appriciate someones noticed him-and find it sweet. It's not like you've told the world about it. whatever you do don't panick :)
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My current boyfriend asked me out about 2 months ago, but the furthest we went was a hug. I know it would probably be more than that if we didn't see each other only once a month. But we always see movies together and hug before we leavem and we always stare into each others eyes but it never went to the point where we almost kiss. Except the last time we were at the movies he asked me a question and I leaned in to hear what he said and i replyed ofcourse but our faces were so close together, and we almost did it we almost kissed untill i kind of leaned back. I don't know if he does want to kiss me or not because we're very close and everything but i don't think he kissed a girl before. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I want to know if i should make a move next time.
I really know what you're going through :/ I was in the same postition with my ex.
To get over it, simply text him; 'would you mind if I kissed you'. face it-its a yes or a no.
Start simple. Kiss his hand or something first. Then he'll probably kiss yours.
Then at the end of a date as you come out from a hug, lightly kiss him on the cheek. don't be nervous. he's with you because he loves you by the sounds of things, not for sex.
Put him at ease. if you make the first move, he'll know it's ok for him to do the same.
as for kissing on the lips, make sure it's in a quiet place. and don't do what i did and say 'I'm going to kiss you now' (because i was shy) as that kills the romance. Again, come out from a cuddle, smile and look at his lips, and he shuld get the message. hope this helps :)
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ive like this guy since 4th grade hes cute, funny, nice, and really easy to talk to o and by the way im in 8th grade now and he just found out that i liked him and he said he didn't like me like that then about a month later he asked one of my friends if they know if i still like him but they said no (but i do) she said no because now i have a boyfriend whos his best friend but it turned out he didn't know that my and him were dating and i cant tell if he asked that because he likes me or he just wanted to know
Sticky situation :/ Well when my ex started chatting me up in year ten (sorry i'm Brittish) when asked if he fancied me by his friend, he said no in front of me. And three motnhs later we were together.
Boys often mean the opposite of what they say. Why else would this guy ask after you otherwise?
Think about this. Are you going out with his best friend because it's a way to get closer to him?
Whatever you do, don't ask him out. Otherwise that might tell him that you don't know what you want. Let him see that he fancies you, and let him be the one to ask you out. Meanwhile, do extra fun things with your boyfriend. Fun is the basis of a great relationship :) Good luck
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this guy and i have broken up and gotten back together so many times i lost count but im the one who keeps breaking up with him. . . he loves me and i thought i loved him but i like him more when we aren't going out and then when we get back together little by little i stop liking him we cant even last a week do u think i should break up with him for good or just wait a while longer to c if i change my mind
A fact of life is that we want what we can not have.
So of course you're going to want him more when you're not together, because you can't nessecarily have him back. Follow?
I think that if each time he keeps saying yes to you asking him back out, then it shows he is kinda emotionally instable at the moment. It'll be best to completely ignore each other for at least a couple of months.
This will do either two things. Either you'll both meet other partners and kinda forget about one another. Or you'll both see that you were made for one another and that youre relationship is deep. Also, i'd say sooner or later he may say no to you. And if he says that, you'll be shocked and want him more. So thats why taking a break from it all for now is best. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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I have a crush on two boys and can't decide which one I like the most.One does martial arts the other loves something else.They both do archery and so do I.Which should I love most??
I'd agree-the one who treats you best. Imagine you told them both right now about something terrible that has happend to you. eg: a pet died.
Which one could you imagine comforting you?
Also, which one would you say is more your friend. because friendship in a relationship is essential to make it last. hope this helped :)
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I am twelve years old and I'm very confused about my guy friend's and my relationship. He always talks to me before class, joking around and so. Sometimes when I look towards him I catch him looking at me, and other times out of the corner of my eye i see him glance at me. Though in the hallway when he's with his friends, he doesn't even acknowledge me! Are these signs he likes me?
I'm 15 and i've been put in this position myself :/
There was this guy at school and i thought he liked me-he was doing exactly the things you mention. He went quiet then for about a few months, and asked me out :) so i'd say yeh this guy does like you.
If he stares at you for more than five seconds he definatley 'likes' you-it's not just a casual stare. He might not ackknowledge you in the hallway because otherwise his friends will start to tease him. And then he'll think he'll drive you away.
If you like this guy then don't give up. Play hard to get, because men want what they can not have. Lastly, you are twelve years old. Although this definatley does sound like the foundations of a relationship, make sure you don't rush. enjoy your child years while you can! hope this helps :)
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Wednesday is me and my boyfriends 5th year anniversary, and we haven't kissed yet.... Alls we have done Is hold hands and hug what do I do?????
Well firstly congrats to making it five years :)
I was in a five month relationship a few months ago and we held hands, hugged, kissed on the cheek but that was all. Same problem. It really depends on you to. Some people just arn't into that sort of thing. I mean did you see the Royal Wedding-how shy Prince William was to ask Kate to kiss him?
If you want to kiss him, then this is what i'd do and not do. Don't say when you're about to 'I'm going to kiss you now' as this breaks the romance.
Make sure you're alone somewhere, and when coming out from a hug smile at him and then give him a little peck on the lips. Smile afterwards.
If you don't want to kiss him then don't worry. Some couples kiss in their first date- yet some married couples rarely kiss at all. Don't let relationships in Soap operas and films rule your relationship. Hope this helpd-sorry its so long :)
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