Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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i know it is in the bibble that you are not suposse to date someone of a diffrent race.well my boy-friend is afro-american and im cacassion.is that a sin and if you love that person should it really matter about race??
13/f & my boyfriend is 15/m
ps. do you think that is to much of an age diffrence?? (link)
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I don't think it's anywhere in the bible that says races can't mix, but I'm not totally sure, but I still don't think it should matter anyways. We're put on this earth to love, and that's what you're doing. You're loving a guy, not a skin color. So no, it shouldn't matter what race somebody is. And I don't think that's much of an age difference, most people date a year older or two so it's perfectly normal.
I hope I helped.
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what does it mean to whore, or to whore for whore? I see this on layout sites and i was wondering if anyone could tell me what happens when you do this and what it means? thanks! (link)
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Alright, well to whore means to create a code with your picture on it and a link saying to add you as a friend, and then you post it as a bulliten, and people'll click on your picture to your myspace, or they'll click a button below it and add you there.
So sometimes whenever people say "whore for whore", they're basically saying,"if you post a code thing asking people to add me in one of your bullitens, I'll do the same for you," which'll basically give eachother more friends.
I hope I helped.
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I have bean accepted to join the Royal Marines in July 2007 but i am not sure if i sould go, i fell in love with an amazing girl and i dont know if i can leave her. she always cries whenever i bring up the subject and she is begging me not to go. I have wanted to join for my entire life but now i am not so sure because i am scared she will not be there for me when i come back.
Please help give me your opinions. (link)
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If this is something you've been waiting and wanting your entire life, then I say do it. It's a great way to go out there, see the world, serve your country, and experience things most people don't get to experience everyday and learn.
If this girl really loves you back, then she will be able to wait for until you return. If you two love eachother enough, whenever you do return, it'll only make your relationship that much stronger, and that much greater. And she should also be supporting you with something you really want to do and have been waiting to do before you even met her.
And I'm sure ( my cousins in the Navy, I know it's not the same thing, but he gets to ) you guys could exchange letters back and forth, and my cousin even got to return home for Thanksgiving and visit family and people for awhile before he set out again, so you might even get to visit her every now and then.
If you want, check out the Royal Marines website, and see if they can answer any questions about how to contact people and if you can visit them and whatnot:
http://www.royalnavy.mod.uk/server/show/nav.2566
But like I said, I think you should go for it.
I hope I helped.
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I'm 16, and some of my friends from our school football team go out drinking after the games and stuff. What could happen to them if they get caught? (link)
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If they're caught they're either going to get thrown into jail and they're parents will be called, or they get charged with underage drinking.
Here's a site that tells you more of what could happen:
http://www.tabc.state.tx.us/LegInfo/UnderageLaws.htm
I hope I helped.
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...I'm wondering if dating my best guy-friend is the best thing because I've heard that you'll never be friends after but as I've said before...I've dated one of my other friends and we broke up and we're still good friends...The thing is...with this guy...I never really liked him before but now I feel as though I can't spend a day without talking to him...Is it a good idea to date him.... (link)
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Well even though SOME say that you'll never be friends, some say the best relationships also start out as friendships ; so date him, give it a shot.
And I don't think you guys'll necessairly never be friends again. It's only awkward if you guys make it awkward, and so on. If you two were to just push it behind you guys and focus on being friends again and just talking and work on it, then I'm sure you guys could smoothly get your friendship back on track.
To ensure you two'll stay friends in the end, maybe just talk about it with him first and let him know you're worried about what's going to happen if you two ever were to break up. Some couples even make a promise to eachother when they first start dating ; no matter what happens, you'll always remain friends. That might make you two feel a little better about your relationship and dating eachother.
I hope I helped.
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hi I'm a freshman in highschool and my mom just told me that I need braces I don't want to have braces!. I already have acne and need glaces I'm gonna look like a total geek. I don't know what to do. Is there anyway how I can fix my teeth without using braces?. Is there any invisable one?. Any ideas. Please. (link)
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There is a invisible kind of braces called invisalign, but they tend to be alot more expensive then regular braces usually cost. But check out their site:
http://www.invisalign.com/generalapp/us/en/index.jsp
Having braces isn't that horrible, alot of teenagers wind up getting braces whenever they're a young teen or whenever they're a little older, so you might get yours off while alot of people are getting theirs on!
If you take a look at the site, and your mother doesn't agree with the cost and everything, then ask her if not get invisalign, then can you at least get contacts so you won't need glasses.
And as for the acne, maybe try purchasing proactiv, I hear that works really well. And if you're eating alot of greasy foods and junk food, try and keep away from it and make sure to eat more healthier types of foods and just make sure to wash your face and keep it clean.
I hope I helped.
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Well I was thinking about being a gothic girl for holloween. But since my mom doesn't like holloween she won't buy me a gothic costume. Any ideas what I could wear?. It has to be like things that I could get at home because I have no money thanks! (link)
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Clothes:
Anything black, of course. If you have any fishnets laying around, wear them and wear some black boots or if your mom or a possible sister has any laying around and wear a black t-shirt. If you guys have any necklaces with a cross on them, wear them, and wear some dark lipstick, dark red would be good and just put on some concealer or anything that'll give you a pale skin look. And wear alot of black eyeliner and maybe make those cat eye looking design on your eye like this:
http://www.missgroovy.co.uk/images/cat_makeup_eyeliner.jpg
Also if you try and rack up a few bucks ( it doesn't cost much ), just go to the dollar store or an eckerds or something and look around and see if they have temporary hair dye and get black and possibly red if you have enough to spend, and just give yourself black hair with red streaks going through it or red tips at the bottom.
I hope I helped.
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i have no idea on what to be for halloween...any ideas or suggestions? (link)
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GIRLS:
(Cute/Sexy):
-Angel
-Fairy
-Devil
-Catwoman
-Superwoman
-Maid
-Pretty witch
-80s person
-One of the girls from Charlies Angels
-Pirate
-Fanta Girl
-Cavewoman
(Silly):
-Spiderman
-Superman
-Mutant Teenage Ninja Turtle
-Hippie
-Hobo
-Bob The Builder
-Boy
BOYS:
-Vampire
-Zombie
-Pirate
-Batman
-Pimp
-A Girl
-Superman
-Batman
-Any superhero
-Hugh hefner
-Mario brothers
-Napoleon Dynamite
-Caveman
I hope I helped.
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Theres this guy.
And rumor has it hes liked me briefly three times.
I really like him and I want him to ask me out but I think he likes another girl now.
How can I get him to noticed me? (link)
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Just start talking to him more and showing him how great of a person you are, and sort of remind him of why he should like you again.
While you're talking to him, just and find some common ground to show you guys have similiar interests, and just pay him alot of attention and compliment him every now and then to make him feel special. :) And of course, flirt.
If he's like you three times before, I'm sure it won't be that hard to get him to like you again.
Then if you feel comfortable enough doing it, maybe after awhile of talking to eachother and flirting and whatnot, tell him that you have feelings for him.
I hope I helped.
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13/F
My friend and I were thinking of being the Doublemint Twins for Halloween. Does anybody have any ideas for what we could wear?
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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Well for your hair, if you don't already have blonde hair, then just buy two blonde wigs so you can style the bangs and curl them and however you need to, or you can just buy blonde dye that can wash out the next time you take a shower. And also buy just two pairs of headbands to wear also.
For the clothes, just try searching for those types of dresses that are sleevless and sort of look 50sish and if you really want them to be green, talk to your parents about possibly dying them green so they look more like the doublemint twins.
I've tried searching the internet for them, but I'm not doing so well. Maybe just look for some green dresses similiar and if you have to, cut of the sleeves so they're sleevless and sew on those big looking collar things. It shouldn't be too hard just sewing them on really quick.
I would also buy some doublemint gum and just carry it around so if nobody catches on real quick, that might help them out.
This is the picture I was looking at that you might want to try and imitate:
http://www.churchofreality.org/images/gumtwins.jpg
I hope I helped.
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i recently purchased an ipod nano. i put some songs on there that i would like to take off. is there anyway i could go about doing this? please and thanks. (link)
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I don't have an ipod NANO, but I have a mini so I'm pretty sure they still work the same, right?
What I do whenever I want a song off is before I plug my ipod in to update itself and everything, I just go into my iTUNES and click on the songs so they're highlighted, and then I hit the "delete" key that's on the right side of your keyboard, below "insert". And it should delete the song, and then after you're finished doing everything you want to do, just like you normally do, plug your ipod into the computer and let it update itself, and it should take the songs off your ipod.
I hope I helped.
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14/f. SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!
Well the thing is, I used to REALLY like a guy named David. But now, I'm starting to realize that I probably don't have a chance as I have already asked him. So in a form, I guess I've given up.
I went to Homecoming and danced with a boy named Josh who is wicked nice and cute. So I was like 'wow, I really like him!' but since he is new at our school, he wants to stay single, but I was a definite possibility later in the school year. I was alright with this and then went and was having a lot of fun with David and my other friend Kaylin.
At the end of the dance, I hugged David goodbye because he really cheered me up after Josh said he didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. And apparently he was going to ask me to dance because I wanted to dance with him. David was also acting very awkward at the dance when I was talking about Josh.
So - I'm confused as to whether David likes me? I'm also confused as to whether I still have feelings for David, even though I'm 100% sure I like Josh.
Thankyou in advance! (link)
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It sounds to me like David could possibly like you. Guys sometimes need to see a girl talking to another guy or liking them to realize just how much they don't want her going after him or liking him, and how much they really do like you.
I would suggest just putting Josh on the backburner for now, and seeing if anything progresses with David. I'm not saying put Josh completely aside, I'm just saying on the "boyfriend backburner", but still continue to talk to them both and be there for them and flirt with both of them to keep letting them know you're interested in them.
And then just wait and see if David either lets you know of his possible feelings for you and see where that takes off, or if he doesn't, there's still always Josh available once he's ready to start a relationship with you.
Like the person below said, just let things fall where the may and see what happens.
I hope I helped.
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how do I get the guy I really like to notice me? (link)
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Well, I'm not sure wether you two talk already or not, but if you don't, start trying to make conversation with him whenever you do see him wether it be about a test in school or a class, and just try to find some common ground with him and then you can later drift the conversation into more personal experiences and whatnot as you two get to know eachother better (it'd be a little weird sharing a personal experience with a strange, you know? )
But if you already do, just talk to him even more and flirt with him a little here and there and as you get more comfortable, maybe even flirt a little more. And just compliment him every now and then and whenever he talks, show you're interested in what he has to say, it'll make him feel special. There's so much to talk about ; school, family, friends, music, sports, hobbies/interests, etc.
I hope I helped.
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Is it alright to wear kahkis and a nice button up shirt to homecoming? (link)
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Yeah, it's perfectly fine to wear that!
I hope I helped.
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There's this kid in my school. He's like a best friend to me. But he told me he likes me. I don't want us not to be friends anymore. But I don't like him like that. He's like a brother to me. But I don't want to tell him that I don't like him. I don't want to break his heart. What should I do? Please help! (link)
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I know you don't want to hurt him, but if you're not honest with him you're probably only going to be continuing this even longer and it'll only hurt him MORE in the end.
Just the next time you talk to him, explain to him that you're sorry, but you only like him as a friend, and you really hope this doesn't ruin your friendship because you don't want anything to become awkward and whatnot. I'm sure since he likes you enough, he figures he'd rather have you as a friend then nothing at all, and sure it MIGHT be a little awkward hanging around eachother at first, but if you both make an effort to just push it past you and move on, then everything should be able to get back on track.
I hope I helped.
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whats in crystal meth?
for my health class we are all doing a report on a drug, i dont even know what this is...can someone explain!? (link)
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Here are some sites to help you out:
http://www.usdoj.gov/ndic/pubs5/5049/index.htm
http://www.urban75.com/Drugs/meth.html
http://www.doitnow.org/pages/101.html
http://www.zoot2.com/justthefacts/clubdrugs/crystalmeth.asp
I hope I helped.
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I dont have a best friend, I never did, I am not in a clique, and I dont have many friends. Sounds fun, right? Yeah right. There is a major clique problem in my school-- I figure, If i cant fix it, find the clique I fit in. Idont fit in any clique. The popular kids rule the school. I'm friends with indivudual Pop ular kids but together, i'm a no one. Most kids in my school dont like me, dont ask me why but i really want more friends. I tried out for cheer. and kick. and didnt make it, I was dissapointed because I really wanted to be part of a team. And have those girls to sleepover with and have my 'group'. Help?
I rate high!
(13/f) (link)
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I know the popular kids "rule" the school, but trust me, in a few years once you guys get to Highschool, there's no popular people, really.
I know you're only 13 and you're trying to find what group you belong to and everything, but it really doesn't matter. Why not belong to all groups? You shouldn't HAVE to fit in with a certain style of people, why not make friends with everyone, which might make more people like you, and it'll increase your amount of friends. Just try talking to more people in class and putting yourself out there and socializing with everybody and all your friends friends.
That's really smart of you to try out for activities to make some more friends, so don't let that stop you ; go out for more activities. There's always thousands of different clubs or activities you could join like Choir, Art, Drama, Photography, Dance Commitee, Student Council, etc.
I hope I helped.
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um is it harmful that i accidently swalloed a couple of my rubberbands for my braces..?
i keep forgetting to take them out when i eat,
so then late i notice one side of my mouth doesnt have it..
and then the other does, so i assume i ate it.
ahaaha.
uh yeah i think its okay is it? (link)
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Hahaha, I think it's fine if you swallow a couple, but don't try and make a habit of it. Just try as much as you can to remind yourself to take them out, and have your parents try and help and remind you as well, and ask your friends if they can in school and such.
I hope I helped.
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why doesn't it show the groups i'm in on my myspace? (link)
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Because either you might have a code somewhere in your layout or you put one there hiding your groups, or if you go to ACCOUNT SETTINGS, and then look for the words PROFILE SETTINGS and click on "change settings". And then look for the words "Display Groups I Belong To" and the of course click the box to enable it, and it should be working now.
I hope I helped.
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one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal? (link)
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He probably really did like you, it's just whenever he said it he was waiting for your response and whenever you didn't say anything back, he might've been embarassed and quickly said he was just kidding.
I hope I helped.
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