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Silly boys!


Question Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 12:45 pm

14/f. SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!

Well the thing is, I used to REALLY like a guy named David. But now, I'm starting to realize that I probably don't have a chance as I have already asked him. So in a form, I guess I've given up.

I went to Homecoming and danced with a boy named Josh who is wicked nice and cute. So I was like 'wow, I really like him!' but since he is new at our school, he wants to stay single, but I was a definite possibility later in the school year. I was alright with this and then went and was having a lot of fun with David and my other friend Kaylin.

At the end of the dance, I hugged David goodbye because he really cheered me up after Josh said he didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. And apparently he was going to ask me to dance because I wanted to dance with him. David was also acting very awkward at the dance when I was talking about Josh.

So - I'm confused as to whether David likes me? I'm also confused as to whether I still have feelings for David, even though I'm 100% sure I like Josh.


Thankyou in advance!


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MelLeDisko answered Sunday October 8 2006, 3:39 pm:
It sounds to me like David could possibly like you. Guys sometimes need to see a girl talking to another guy or liking them to realize just how much they don't want her going after him or liking him, and how much they really do like you.

I would suggest just putting Josh on the backburner for now, and seeing if anything progresses with David. I'm not saying put Josh completely aside, I'm just saying on the "boyfriend backburner", but still continue to talk to them both and be there for them and flirt with both of them to keep letting them know you're interested in them.

And then just wait and see if David either lets you know of his possible feelings for you and see where that takes off, or if he doesn't, there's still always Josh available once he's ready to start a relationship with you.

Like the person below said, just let things fall where the may and see what happens.

I hope I helped.

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XkittyOkatX answered Sunday October 8 2006, 2:45 pm:
well this david guy sounds really awesome. Maybe just keep josh as an option, since he's new he may really want to see whats ou there in your school. obviously dave is there for you, so just try to stay close to him and be a good friend. dont' concentrate too much on getting a boyfriend or anything, just let things fall into place.
good luck. =)

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