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Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care. (link)
Of course not because it is a program for anyone to watch and it's a show about family.It doesn't matter if you watch every episode I guess I could probably say that's your favorite show isn't it?Even my brothers used to watch Full house but then they started watching wrestling.


hey!
im sooo excited. basically cos of money problems my mum, me and ma 2 other sisters are moving to a really big flat! we've already decided cos of the £ involved that my sisters rooms and mine will have deep purple carpets. and basically i have no idea what colours to put on my walls. i can have any colour i want. i want it to be girly and im into insence and candles meditation that kinda stuff so what colours shall i go for? i want it to be cosy but at the same time really girly and individual. i already have like silver and purple mirrors, accessories bed sheets that kinda stuff so i just need a colour for ma walls!
thanx for any adivce! i rate! =)
emma xoxox (link)
If you decide to pick purple choose also colors like pink,light blue.You could put some purple flowers on a bowl on the desk of your room,a nightie light that glows in the light,or ones that stick to your wall.You could put up posters of celebrities you like or a painting of a paradise with a waterfall,put in an air freshner in your room so it could always have a ggod smell,decorate your walls with flowers or hearts so it could look very girly.


theres this guy, hes really hott, we were at a mx track while he was practicing and he was totally showing off, hes friend said he likes me but i never see him, he works at this place that i only go with my dad, and i want to see him again to give my # but i dont want to sound desperate, and how do i tlk to him? what do guys talk about? how do i get him to ask me out? what should i do??? plz help!!! (link)
Guys usually like to talk about girls I know because my brother's friends always do and in classes I had.Also they like to talk about games,music,sports,wrestling,boxing.and fight you know guy stuff.If you do see him again say hi to him,tell him you're name,that you would like to get to know him,then give your phone number to him, and since his friend said he likes you then he'll accept it.Not only that you mention also that also you like people that work like him and that you admire him a lot,and smile at him too and he'll start to notice you like him.


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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.

I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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What I think is that if the relationship lasted very short than it couldn't just be a crush or obession.True love between people are true support,when a person would do almost anything for the other person,and to save it.Even distance can't take away the feelings the other person has for the other.If a person keeps marrying different people than they don't what love is about.


okay, so i dyed my hair the other month with the Color Pulse stuff.. i really loved it. like the color it self lasted about 1 week, but it stained my hair. it was this purple/red color. well i want to do it again.. does anyone know how i can convince my mother. im not even supposed to dye my hair until i at 16 .. family rule, she let me do this.

please, i need some creativity here!

i will rate you good! (link)
Tell her that you will do whatever she askes like do the chores or be a more responsible person or get good grades.Tell her it wasn't your fault it stained.Tell her that other girls are dying there hair too which isn't fair but if she tells you so just because they do now you want to do it too then tell her you really like it colored that it is your hair,and that you will take care of it.Convince her so you get your hair dyed.


I am in love with my best friend's ex-boyfriend. I have been for quite sometime. We flirt a lot and everything,but I guess he sees me as just a really good friend. I have helped him through so many problems throughout his relationship my w/ my best friend. Now they have broken up, and I want him. But I can't. He is still in love with her, and two of my other good friends have a crush on him. One claims she loves him, but she doesn't know him like me, she doesn't look at him like I do, she doesn't see what I see. I want him so bad, its like un bearable. But for the longest time, I've been just a friend.I want that to change, but it can't. Unless I want to loose 3 of my friends. (It is a rule of ours that no one can date and ex unless its been many years). I have one more problem, I just recently got a boyfriend, I like him A LOT, and I think about him more than any other guy (besides the one we are talking about), but I guess I just can't get the other one out of my head. I gues you could say, that I love them both, but I want the other one. =/ how to I get him?? (link)
You should break up with your boyfriend first.If you really want this guy is it really worth losing three friends of yours?That is somehting you have to think about.If it is really love than I should tell you love is something so powerful to feel about another person and there are no words to express it,it's just something that you feel inside of you.You must tell him that you really like him and want a serious relationship with him.If he saids he will only see you as a friend than insist that you really care about him more than any other girl will. You should go speak with a couselor to take your stress out that could help.One last thing tell him what you could do to show him that you really like him and that "wasn't I there for you when you had problems with my friend,when you broke up with her".Hopefully he will give you a chance.Good luck!


i am 15 and going to be a sophmore at my highschool. and i guess me and robbie had a crush on eachother in 5th grade and we went out in 6th grade and 7th but on and off ( you now how those middle school relationships are, dont mean anything) but i guess its funny because we even talked in middle school after elementary and he IMed me the other for the first time since like 8th grade.. but we have been talking online the last couple of weeks and lastnight he asked me to hangout sometime next week. we will probably end up going to see a movie or sumthing but honestly ive never really been on a date. ive had serious relationships but i mean we didnt go on dates first, i dont know how to explain it. so i need some ideas on where to go, what i could wear, and some stuff to talk about. thanks alottt (link)
You could dress up in a skirt with nice designs on it like butterflies,or flowers or stripes make it look fancy or if you prefer shorts get on that is new or off the hook you could get a baby blue one,light pink,tan color with a shirt that has diamonds or bright colored or sparkles.You could go shopping at Rainbow,Necessary clothing,Walmart,Jazz,Brooklyn,Mandee,Tommy Hilfigher,Macy's,Levi's,other stores you could go to.Match your outfit.Wear your hair loose either curly or straight.Wear some lipgloss or lipstick that matches you.Talk about things he enjoys,about his childhood,and growing up.Have fun with your guy!Write to me whenever you like!


Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse? (link)
That is abuse and that's just nasty.How could he actually do something like that.Your parents have to know about this if they don't believe you go get help from friends,psychiatrist,or an adult who will believe you.You have to do something about this it's not too late if you don't than it's most likely he'll probably go to the limit.This situation has to be solved there is no way you too could be alone together stay away from him,watch your back, and you have to defend yourself when he does that.This brother of yours needs help!Show him you're tuff and yell at him,and tell him if he keeps on doing that your going to tell on him!Take very good care of yourself.Any time you need help write me in my inbox.


my brother is really spoiled. Here are some reasons why:
*he gets whatever he wants
*whatever he does i get blamed for-no joke.
*when he wants friends over, he can have them over (I cant.)
*if he slaps me or hits me or punches me, even if i dont say anything or touch him, i get yelled at. EVERY TIME.
*one time my friends came over and he started just peeing his pants right there and my friend and i told my mom and she didnt believe us even after my brother admitting it because she thinks hes "perfect" and would never do anything like that.
--this gets VERY annoying VERY often. I really wanna change this but whenever i tell my mom how i feel she goes "Oh please..grow up I never baby him" when she knows she treats him differently. I cant even have friends over without him around us!! please help me! what can i do???
Im 14/f hes 9/m (link)
What you need to do to open your mom's eyes about how her son is no angel.There are ways like do you could have a hidden camera,capture his disgusting behavior if you have trouble have a friend or ask an adult how to use it.Or take him a picture without him noticing doing bad things.When you do you should also take out the film but make sure it's full if you don't know how ask someone but not your parents because than they'll start asking questions.If your camera to take photos has numbers increasing each time you take a picture well you'll know when it's full when the number is just there then it'll go down to zero , then a E that's what it did to my camera I used.If you don't have a camera buy one at the pharmacy,buy a film but if you don't know how like I said just ask someone to help.Take my advice.


okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat? (link)
Do at least 30 situps which help flatten your stomach then run for 45 minutes.Also do 30 pushups and make your hand into a fist to help tighten your cores.Then take a big ball place it onto your stomach take your time and move up until your knees touch it then bend them but you're knees are still on top of the ball move your legs up without using your hands do 2 sets of 10.But don't do weights or use machines for pull ups or other ones to build muscle because you'll only be getting muscles instead of losing the weight remember that it's very important to have that in mind.If you want other moves just ask me.


i am skinny and thin and i love my body but as always like everyone i dont like one part of my body..which is my thighs...my inner thighs kinda rub together and it would help alot if i got some help.please give me your best answer on how to lose weight in my inner thighs quick with a good diet and excersice answer please only answer if you got a good answer thanks much!!! [also extra neone kno ne excercises that would give you tight abs ;-)] (link)
I have some moves to get fab abs is do a move called a roll up.First,lie on back wiht arms,and legs extended,feet flexed.Second,Exhale as you reach arms and forward , roll head toward chest,lifting heads, and shoulders off floor.(keep arms next to ears throughout this move.)Press inner thighs together and begin to pull navel in toward spine.Slowly peel off floor until you're sitting in a c shape-back rounded,head toward knees,and arms extended in front of you.(Be sure to keep chined tuck throughout this move.)Gradually reverse this movement,inhaling and squeezing absas you roll back down to the floor.Repeat 6 to 7 times.The eating plan is to reduce your calorie intake by 500 calories a day,30n minute jog or one hr walk,down on fats proteins and save the fruit for the night,eat lowfat yogurt,vegatable soup,other low fat foods.I could give you the other moves but write me in my inbox so I could give you them because I don't have a lot of room to write them down.


i want to have some alone time wiht my boyfriend, like in the house but his\my parents always keep checking up on us. any ideas? (link)
What you could do is go to his house or you too could hang out in the park,beach,walk with your boyfriend somewhere not near your house or email him or talk on the phone but make sure your parents are not help because it's much better to be able to have a good talk with him.Or even sit on some deserted place where people don't go but not very far though.


this year im taking two high school courses (algebra 1 and intergrated pyhics and chemistry) along with advance placement classes. but my problem is that the teachers have loaded us with homework each night and its only the fourth day of school. i have stayed up until 11:00 every night doing homework and i get off of school at 2:25.

can someone give me some tips on how to finish my homework faster...so i can get some sleep.

BTW: im 13/f and i rate high enless its a smartass answer...

signed-
Sleep Deprived (link)
Some tips are :1.concentrate and focus.
2.Do your hw without distractions in a quiet place like the library or somewhere in your house where there's no noises.
3.Spend most of your time or your whole lunch time doing your homework so when you get home you won't have so much to do.
4.If you have free time during class do your hw or even ask your teacher for help on it if you don't understand something.
5.Or get help on the computer for things like algebra and search for experts on that subject.
6.Take good notes then go over it make sure you understand it so it's much easier and faster to do your hw.Use these tips they will be very useful!


i havent had a bf in like 2 yrs and im sorta getting sick of all mi other friends having them
=( and my cousin got me one but i didnt like him at all and he reminded me of this kid i dont like sooo yeha any tips to get one? (link)
Dress in very nice clothing to capture the guy's attention as well as a beautiful hairstyle ask others like your friends what hairstyle will look good on you.Get near the boy which makes it easier to talk to him.Don't let another girl take him from you talk to him first before another will.Ask him his name if you know his name already ask his age,favorite subject things he dislikes or likes,find out if he has a girlfriend before you start getting into illusions.You don't want to get hurt that happen to be a couple of times like I liked them then I found out they had then I had to get over it and I manage to do so.One last thing get to know him and if you see he has a bad personality look for another guy.


My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??

signed miss being bffs (link)
Ask her why she's like that if the attitude is still the same after that don't be her friend she will just keep making you look bad and by the way she has got issues.Something is wrong with her!If I were your friend I would never do that to you I don't even treat my friends like that it looks like she doesn't want them to see that you too get along or just wants to look good if its necessary put her in her place don't let her keep treating you this way okay.


I hear a lot of crap about me being over weight & fat from a bunch of people. I try and brush it off like I don't care & usually I have good comebacks. I don't want to insult them back, because that's just stupid and I think arguements just full of insults are stupid, what's something I can say to them, that would make it seem like I really don't care what they have to say about me? Thanks a bunch, I'll rate you five no matter what. (link)
Yuo could tell them you careless of what they think and they shouldn't be making fun of you because they are very ugly.What I mean by that is that they are very bad from the outside for making fun of others instead of getting a life.You should also say that at least you're mature and they are acting like kindergarten which they really need to grow up!Everybody should be treated the way they want to be treated people like that are eventually going to get smacked or a punch in the face one day.Maybe they do it because they are mad or crazy or just very sad.Stay away from those people if the rumors keep spreading just ignore them some people just like to bother others don't let it get to you.If you do then you'll be more upset than you are now.


my stomach had been growling ... but i figured that because i didnt eat in the morning .. but after you had sex like i know for a fact the next days you would wake up an feel like shit .. but when we had sex .. he pulled it out an i felt him cumm .. but not iside me he told me he pulled it out before he cummed an i felt him cumm because i had to wash my sheets but .. if anything does go wrong i have a best guy friend that wil help its just im to buisy an my parents our always taking me place to were there meetings our .. but i dont know .. ??? (link)
Have a serious talk with your guy about this. you should figure out what days you could have free time to spend with your boyfriend or friends.Why do they take you to their meetings?If you don't want to go tell them, try to make them understand that these meetings could wait or you're just too young to attend them.Hopefully they'll understand.One time my mom wanted me to attend to some place I didn't want to go I kept telling her that I'm always doing the right thing which is the truth and that I rather stay home and keep myself busy then she didn't insist anymore.You should make plans even make a schedule and remember to take care of yourself and about your stomach eat well so it won't growl. It will always be a pleasure if you need any advice anytime you could ask me questions or help that's what I'm here also you could look at my profile, one of these days you'll probably see how I really look like and to everybody else as well!


Hey! Please don't answer saying OMG YOU'RE ANEROXIA or how ever that is spelled.

I'm 15 5'4 female about 135 pounds. I'm not really fat but i'm not skinny, but i use to eat way to much. Like i was bored, so i grabbed a cookie. Lately i've stopped eating and only eat when im hungry. Unfortunaly, i took this to the extreme by accident. I realized today i hadn't eaten (it's 6pm) all day and i should eat, so i had cheese and crackers and now im really full. I honestly hadn't realized how hungry i was. im afraid my body is going to go into starvation mode if i only eat once a day and make me fatter/ is that true? or is eating light once or twice enough to keep it satisfied and use the calories i eat?! (link)
If you eat once what will happen is that you will not gain weight of course and eating once is not healthy for your body you should at least eat three times a day like breakfast,lunch,and dinner. It will not make you fatter that isn't true.If you eat very little for breakfast that could be stored as fat when you eat again depending on how well you eat.If you eat very tasty foods you may get hungry again.Twice is much better than once but like I said eat well for breakfast!



ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me?? (link)
Try to stay calm down you will notice if you have headaches,or go into a fall,stomach grows,feel dizzy if you notice this go to a doctor as soon as possible and tell him that you want it to be a secret and not tell no one.He would probably have to give you an examination to determine whether you're pregnant or not.If you are pregnant go get help there are agencies you could go to for young pregnant moms or pregnant teens and most importantly for you to tell your ex.You will need his support or someone close to you who could help.You could look in the yellow phone book or call the help hotline numbers.Or have your friends investigate where these agencies are even support groups will help.Also I hope that everything turns out fine for you.If you need any other advice or still on this problem just write in my inbox and I will answer as soon as I can!


okay so my aunt just gave my mom and i a waxing thing .. like that real stuff.. that the pro's use at the hair salon and stuff.. well my question is how do you use it? it doesnt have directions and i am thinking .. wanting.. to do my leggs. how do i do it? should i put lotion on before.. or take a shower or what? please help me ... and a.s.a.p i will rate you a 5 for any good answer! (link)
Use the wax on dry hair and leave it on for a few minutes then remove with a warm cloth.Apply lotion or cream so it doesn't irritate.But instead of waxing shave or buy Bikini touch which is the best for removing hair because it's painless and very easy to use and all it needs is one small battery.You probably saw it on commercials now they even have it on pharmacies.




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