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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can












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I'm contemplating having the bariatric surgery done. I'm 140lbs over my "ideal" weight... and the diabetes and other probs are too much to deal with for the next 10 years. I've been this same size plus or minus 20 lbs for longer than that...and I have hated being heavy... now we have insurance that will cover it!! I think I need to do it... Just wanted to see where you stand on the issue... and see if you're supportive of the idea.

well this surgery isnt for everyone...there are also risks involved i would look into this surgery and see if you really want to do it...

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I want to get a cell phone. My mom says if I can pay for it I can get one. Where can I get a inexpensive pre-paid flip phone? Right now I have like $30-$35 dollars. I know that isn't enough but I'm going to keep saving.

i would wait a little so you can earn enough money to get one and pay for the min.

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ok there is this guy I really like and he really likes me we talk sometimes but only over the internet because I live in wisconsin and he lives in new jersey... I really like him and I asked him to come visit me for the summer.. he said he would love to and he will plan on it... I really like him but is this bad??

I am 14
He is 18

well he could be older like hes a stalker or something people on the internet are sometimes dangerous...like he could maybe rape you but thats just a thought..so just be careful

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this question dosent really go under friendship..but there was nothing else i coul put it under...anyway..i got a dvd player for christmas and i have some good dvd's like napolian dynamite but i get sick of it if i watch it alot and the day after tommorrow but that is pretty long and finding nemo but that aso gets kinda boring... the only movie that i enjoy watching is my favorite movie ever...sweet home alabama...i dunno what it is about that movie but i never get sick of it...does anyone have any other movies that are good and they never get sick of? cause i would really like another movie to watch! lol =)

maybe ace ventura pet detective,ace vetura when nature calls,shrek 2,saving silverman,pirates of the carabian(sp),hot chick,van helsing(sp),elf,man on fire,anger management,the punisher,i really cant think of any more

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Me and my ex bf were together a couple months but it had to go to a long distance relationshiops for awhile and he thought i hated him and then we broke up cuz we didnt talk cuz of that and now i found out he still loves me what do i do?

well the question is do you still love him?..if you do then you should talk to him tell him how you feel become friends and everything then when its time tell him that you like him and that if you dont feel the same then we could still be friends or something like that

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My friend told my other friends that this kid likes me, but i don't like him. I like someone else. I don't want to hurt his feelings because i know how it feels. What should i do?

tell him how you feel...no lies that will probably make it worse

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This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!!

well you can ask them whats happening..like maybe sit down with them and ask if somethings wrong or if you think somethings changing with us or something like that

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i wont have sex unless im on the pill and im thinking about having sex but idk how to ask my mom...shes not the understanding type you know? im soo skared to ask her please help me i dont know wat to do:-(shed probly be really pissed if i asked her

the pills could be used for cramps so you can ask your mom to get you some for the cramps..i think you can get some from planned parenthood..

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hello. i read some of your advice. its great well i have an eating disorder as u might call it. nothing major. i just dont eat as much as i should. everyone tells me i'm so skinny. but i just dont see it! i dont eat because i makes me feel better. but i have a feeling if i keep eating ike this i might start getting a real problem. i just cant stop. its nothing major now. and i cant tell my parents. i really dont no who else to tell.

thanks....well i think you have an eating disorder..because you dont see what other people see..like a fun mirror in those haunted house things..you see what you dont want to see you should really tell your parents..to get help..it will probably get serious

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have you had a best friend and and all of a sudden ya'll didnt hang out anymore?well thats whats going on with me and i dont know what to do i miss hanging out with her and i miss her.Can you tell what you did?

that happened to me..we have been friends since we were little..and we have grown apart like she started to hang out with our other friend and then when she moved she went to her friend that was on her bus and we never did anything anymore well one time i told her how i felt but nothing changed which really sucked and we had so many memories that i criend one night but people change

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hey im 13 and im about 5'0 and i weigh about 73 pounds...am i underweight??

i would say that your under weight because my sister shes like 5'1 and like 80 pounds..and shes really skinny so yes you are make sure your not on those diets where you starve yourself and all that stuff

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Ok, My names Mike and I was wondering, I'm a very random person and will do anything to get a laugh from anyone. So. I do alot of random stupid things just to get a luagh, but sometimes the things I do make people think I'm just a retard. So, I'm wondering if anyone thinks that people like me are funny and great to have aound? And what I mean by people like me is, people with no care of what people think and will is unhibited and will act wild and crazy just for kicks.

i would love someone as a friend to not care what people think and start the party kind of person...but sometimes my friends are annoying when they try to hard to be funny...my friends and i are random to

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If you use a condom, can you still get an STD?

yes...it could break...i think latex helps you not get it but i think its only for like AIDS and HIV... you could get it from even having oral

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do chocolate and soda cause or give you give you pimples / acne ?!?!

any websites about chocolate or soda pop causing acne?

some people it does because like fat foods make your skin oily and it gives you pimples just make sure you wash your face

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ok see..theres this kid thats 2 years older than me and hes BI. i know theres nuttin wrong wit that but there is..when he likes u! his name is anthony and he has a crush on me! he told me when i was in 6th grade! i almost passed out! i am tromotized! whenever i see him, i feel like throwing up and i stay as far away from him as humanly possible! i really dont like him cause he harrases me! its gross! what should i do to block this outta my mind!

i rate!

tell him straight that your not BI but dont be mean and stuff i have a friend thats BI sometime i feel unconfertable(sp)but im fine with it anyways you can tell him that you could still be friends

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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.

well it would help to know why shes depressed...but you could take her out have a little fun...talk to her like take her out to lunch or something and talk to her about how you feel and that you care and ever thing

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I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me

wait why are you having sex with someone when you like someone else...anyhoo it might push her away like she might think you will want it from her...or she might think that your like a man whore lol or something i wouldnt care if you did

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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!

i can help you more if you told how tall you are... but you dont even sound like you need to lose weight and im not going to say dont do it but there are many risks to it if you take it so far you could starve yourself to death..if you want to lose weight that much you shouldnt stop eating..you need all the nutrients and stuff but anyways to lose weight that bad you could eat healthier food and not that much..truthfully most girls think that their fat when their really not...

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my friend didn't get a single thing for christmas what should i do? i feel so bad! so should i get something?

well christmas isnt about getting presents its about being with the people that you love...you could get her something but its not about the presents

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this kidd wants me to have sex with him what do i do i mean i like him but i keep thinking about the ocnsequences...

it sounds like your not ready..if your not ready then you shouldnt do it..there are BIG consequences.. like STDs pregnancy all that stuff..or the other thing is that he could be just using you

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