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Ok, yes, it is almost halloween and I have no ides where to get a costume or what to be. I'm a female, pls help!

It depends,
if you want to be scary, you can just do a boring vampire or whatever.But if you want to be quite sweety but a complete nutcase.Dress as snowhite or alice in wonderland with an axe hanging from your back.

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I'm looking for really cheap knock off purses...or even just regular bags. Does anyone know of a website that would sell really cute adn reallllly cheap bags???

Thanks!!!

asos.com they have a sale on at the moment too.A lot of celebs shop there suprisingly.The bags are really good and really well priced!
have fun
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well i am getting to that middle school age where everyone has a boyfriend. now im not one of tthose desperate girls who must have one, but if i were to get one how would i tell my mom?

If it feels wrong, then you'd know to tell her.
But mums can always tell if we have a bf or gf.
If you do get bf, introduce him - you're mum would soon get the idea

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does anyone know a website to like edit pictures coool. i already know of my theme site. thanks! =]

search on google "download picassa"
itz wkd
it changes photo colourz and big n small and stuff

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I like this 8th grader alot.But I am in the 6th grade.Should I go up to him and say I like you and also say age doesn't matter.What should I do?My bestfriends says I should do that but I am not sure.Help!!!!!!!!!!!!

you can tell him how you feel but i dont think he will like you back - because he is older.But if u r gd mates and he knows u and messess around it shuldnt b 2 hard to let him know

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so im the kind of person who loves to use differnt words for things like instead of "good" or "yes" for example, saying something else. i dont know if i'm making sense haha but i hope some people know what i mean. okay so like in meangirls where instead of saying "cool" that girl says "fetch". thats only an example lol. bue yeah i was wondering if anyone knew some cool/cute words i could use because the ones i use some people keep saying and its annoying :( yeah sounds pretty weird. but i feel like making my vocabulary more interesting :) please and thanks!

well I am quite random so i dont no if any of these will work lol
Funkyfied - cool or good
Dunkoff - you fool
Baboon - you fool, so stupid!

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What happens when you take pain killers just for emotional pain?? What will happen?? will it make me feel any better? I'm just wondering before I take it.

thanks

no it only heals physical pain not emotional but if you watch a good movie and ben and jerryz ice cream at home you are sure to feel better!

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say someone picks on you and such.. and makes rude comments, how do you stand up for yourself? because i dont have the confidence to go and say something if they were to say something to me or my friends? how do i gain the confidence to do this or what do i say? i dont want to sould like a prissy so any tips?

There are so many ways so stand up for yourself - I was bullied once so i know how these things go ya know?Calling them names or whatever dosnt change anything and dosnt hurt them.And tellignt eacher dosnt really help - you do nt get any protection.So the way to fight them is to stay REALLY STRONG and ignore them and no matter how much they are hurting you gotta act as if you dont care and just get on with whatever you were doing.Itz gd stay around other people .If they are confronting you and calling you names make sure your with people to witness it and just walk away and continue the converaation.Reporting the police is gd 2 because you can protection.

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my skin has been gettin darker and i want to know if theres anyway i can get my skin to be lighter

try consealer - it basically a type of makeup that hides spots and scars and makes your skin look lighter

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ok so almost every time im about to start my period my [chest] starts to hurt. it feels like they are rocks and they feel sore. is this normal? is this just part of the whole period thing or am i growing? whats going on?

i havnt started but i do no that ur chest isnt meant to hurt but ur sides r meant 2

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I try not to wash my hair everyday since its very damaged. However, the day I don't wash it, its really oily at the roots and quite dry at the ends. How do I keep it clean without damaging it so much? [I use SunSilk Hydra TLC]

I don't no where you get it but my sister sometimes uses this spray that is meant to stop/hide grease and oily hair until ur ready tow ash your hair - search it on google

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My best freind is this girl i hang out with her everyday......and i love her so much but if i tell her how much i love her i think she will never talk to me again but if i dont tell her....and then i would of wish i would of told her.......

Maybe you can get someone 2 see how she feels for instance
Say ur m8 iz called amy. and u got someone else to ask
"Hey amy, r goin out with ......"
she'll say "blah blah" why d'ya ask??
Coz you seem tight, do you like him"
And that way everythingz kl,
this is rubbish advice isnt it?
Sorreh
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sadie
xx

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19/F

I will admit it. I am a terrible dancer. I have fun dancing, but I look like a dork. I'm going to a Halloween dance thing with my boyfriend, and I'm at a loss as to how I'm going to dance with him, because although I have the slow dance thing worked out, I tend to look a little crazy when I boogie down to fast music.

Anybody have any tips to keep me from looking like a total loser on the dance floor? I shy away from the skanky grinding, but it may be a necessity.

Be yourself, if your not a good dancer just shake your hips - noone can do that wrong because it is so natural.If you now how to wind to that to - its basically a body ripple.Dont feel so insicure - be urself

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i'm making a list of 365 songs for my boyfriend while he's away at his group home thing... its a thing for our one year and i've got 122 but i can't think of any more. does anyone know any more songs i could add to the list?

always love u - whitney huston
I guess I need you baby - britney baby
My heart will go on - celine dion
Without you - mariah carey
Accidently in love - song from shrek
Crazy in love - beyonce
My boo - usher
Endless love - mariah carey and luthor vandross
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I will do some more l8er
sadie
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I'm thinking about having a halloween party, nothing too much I just want to watch some really scary movies with my two best friends. What are some scary ones (it doesn't matter what rating)?

Also, what are some fun things we could do at the party (I'm having it at my house and my two best friends are girls, if that helps)?

Watch the ring 1 and 2 THEY RRR SOOOOO GD you will love it (if u go on youtube.com they may have some clips from the film on there)Dark water (thatz gd, itz a hit in germany lol)sean of the dead - WKD!!!Hide and seek which is realli gd
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alwayz ask
sadie
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okay im 22 n im 48 kg.First let me tell about myself im having sex from 2 years now but with one partner n i fell that during this time i have gained weight on my hips n thighs. Is it jus cuz of that or is it age factor. I would like to know how can i loose weight on my hips n thighs apart from that my body is perfect.

So all you gals out there do gimme some advise.

48 kg?Darling u are ANEREXIC!As i am 9yrz younger and I am 40kg - i am underweight - i saw a doctor about it.You definatly do need to lose weight!

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a few years ago, my mom got really sick, she was in the hospital for about 6 months, But the problem is, now that my mom is okay most of the time, she wants to get out and do things. However, she cant drive (and Neither can I, I'm fifteen) so we always have to take the bus. But recently my mom found out that her legs are too weak to walk or get up stairs, and has to take a special car service. There is the option of her bringing me along on the ride for free, but the car has advertising on the side, and people can tell that my mom is on disability and stuff. And it embarrasses me. A lot of my friends parents have big houses and lots of money, and I feel embarrassed about a lot of things about my life like my apartment, and the fact that we dont have a car and I always have to ask my friends parents for rides home. they are all really nice people and know about the situation, but it has been really hard for me to open up to my friends about it. Only my very best friend knows the whole story. And that makes everything so much harder, because I dont have any one to talk to about it. and when I tell my mom that I'm embarrassed by things like the car service, she just gets upset. she has learned to deal with the fact that she needs help, but I havent, and I dont know how to become less embarrassed, and learn to deal with it myself. All I've ever wanted is a life that seems normal, and knowing that may never be possible, is very hard for me to come to terms with. I realize that hollywood etc, portrays a false idea of normal, and that everyone's idea of normal is differnet. I'm very confused. I wish that I could get over the embarrasment and go on with life, but I dont know if I ever will be able to. What would you do if you were in my situation? Thanks in advance for your help.


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i feel sad and depressed all the time no one understands me and i want to find someone who will say that they love me but i can't i just want to die. i know i sound like i am wallowing in self pity but i just feel so sad and alone. i asked this one guy out and i was rejected my mom says i am stupid and i am just feeling so alone what can i do?

join a club or start some work - that way you can meet new ppl.Dont feel 4 sorry 4 your self - feel soory 4 da guy who asked you out coz he just missed out on a great girl (though i dont no u lol)Join something to make mates - even if you dont find someone you like more than a friend!
Or get a pet, they are relly comforting-this idea is stupid but it can help
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ask me anytime
sadie
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What is a photoshop where you can mess up pictures like make your face fat or make you do some really funny stuff

have no idea
but you can always go no google and download picassa - it something to ur picz u can change da colours and make colages and stuff
gd luk,
sadie
xx
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does anyone know where to find cute myspace layouts besides createblog.com and whateverlife? im in a desperate need and really really want an awesome layout :-D so if anyone knows please please please tell me
thanks soo much in advance

blinkyou.com
www.fun4free.co.uk

i dunno i no loads

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