If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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ok well theres this guy i think is cute and idk if he likes me or not, and ive NEVER met him b4 either weve just kinda look at each other b4 n stuff and i only see him at this "work out" place but i really need to know if he likes me or not bc i already had to go through one year w/o knowing and i RUFUSE to go through another...i want my friend to come and somehow help to find out if he likes me or bc i only have like 4 more weekends to know...what should i doo? (link)
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A "work out place". In America,we call those gyms. Anyway,you need to go up and start a conversation with the guy and get to know him before you just ask him stuff like that. Don't ask your friend to get involved,it makes it seems like we're not important enough for you to deal with yourself. Stop being so afraid and just do it.
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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:
The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not? (link)
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Sweety,this guy is your cousin. Just because he talks about sex with you doesn't mean he likes you like that. He probably felt comfortable stripping down in front of you if you are significantly younger than him. It's just not right that you like him like that and please give this some more thought before you make a total fool of yourself and tell him you like him.
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For the past few months, I have had a very uncomfortable pain around my tailbone.
It's mostly when I'm sitting a certain way. And I'm not entirely sure why and when it started but it bothers me.
I'm afraid this could mean something awful. My uncle told me that it could be cancer and, although he was 'joking', I was scared. What if it is?
Anyways. I'm afraid to go to a Doctor because I'm very uncomfortable with people touching me and, of course, he'll have to see my...butt. (Yes, I said butt...XD) Anyways...It makes me really uncomfortable to have someone, even a professional, touch me. But I'm afraid that if I don't go to the doctor, and it's something serious, I'll end up getting really sick and/or dying.
Thank you, in advance, for your help. This may seem silly, I know. I understand that I will get a lot of 'Just go to the freaken doctor, dumbass' but...it's really not quite that simple.
Thanks, again. (link)
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Cancer of the tailbone? No you can't have cancer of a bone. If you're uncomfortable with a doctor seeing your ass,how do you feel when you go to the gynocologist or if you're a guy,a urologist. They don't look at you ass sweety,they look at your front. You probably injured it some kind of way and you really do need to put aside this fear of doctors and see one. You'll be fine and your uncle was just joking about cancer.
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ok i have a job interview on monday...its my first job (im 15)...does anyone have any advice?! im so nervous! (link)
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Dress nicely,make a lot of eye contact,be confident,and say good responsible shit. Make sure you look your best,never get a second chance to make a first impression. I've gotten jobs just by looking good. Didn't keep them long though.
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I've always been one of those people who got along with almost everyone. LAst year there was a girl that really didn't like me and I didn't know why. I still don't. Everyone thought she felt threatened by me, they said I had more friends or I was more punk, i dunno anyway. She's been starting rumors about me like I'm a satan worshipper???? Weird huh? What do you think I should do about her or say to her? (link)
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Nothing. People who know you know you're not a devil worshipper. Let this bitch start rumors that she knows aren't true and if anybody believes it,then they're too judgmental and you don't need them anyway. People often have a tremendous capacity to see the truth.
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ok my boyfriens thinks that i am pregant because i have been complaing about my stomach hirting. and i tryed to tell him that its not that because i havent fucked in like 3 mouths. so what should i tell him....?most importantly how am i gonna get a test with out my parents seeing it.....? they still think that i am a virgin!!!!
help me please becasue i cant lose him!!!!! (link)
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Your stomach pain is not because you haven't had sex in three months,not mouths. I haven't had sex at all and my stomach doesn't hurt. You may be pregnant if you haven't had your period in three months. First time mothers always show the latest. If you're not having your period,yeah you're pregnant.
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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx
-x- unknown -x- (link)
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If your friends jump off the Empire State Building would you do it? You're 14,try and have some sense.
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I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!
*4evainLuv (link)
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It's a little early for that. Its early to ask him to homecoming. Just ask him to dance at the dance. He probably is gay if he's good looking,likes shopping,and wears good clothes. Most guys don't care about that shit. Guys don't care about their appearance.
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Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...
Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?
It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.
Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid... (link)
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Yeah you're right. But these kids are "in love." Remember that. Makes it a whole lot different.
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hey i am just curious, the new song "I Miss You" by Blink-182 always gets to me when ever i hear it..i like just start crying!!! what does that song mean? or like what does it talk about?? i cant understand what the message it is sending is but it chokes me up! thanks! (link)
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(I miss you, miss you)
Hello there, the angel from my nightmare,
the shadow in the background of the mourge,
the unsuspecting victim of darkness in the valley
we can live like Jack and Sally if we want
where you can always find me
and we'll have Halloween on Christmas
and in the night we'll wish this never ends
we'll wish this never ends
(I miss you, miss you)
(I miss you, miss you)
Where are you and I'm so sorry
I cannot sleep, I cannot dream tonight
I need somebody and always
this sick strange darkness
comes creeping on so haunting every time
and as I stared I counted
the webs from all the spiders
catching things and eating their insides
like indecision to call you
and hear your voice of treason
will you come home and stop this pain tonight
stop this pain tonight
Don't waste your time on me you're already
the voice inside my head (I miss you, miss you)
don't waste your time on me you're already
the voice inside my head (I miss you, miss you)
Don't waste your time on me you're already
the voice inside my head (I miss you, miss you)
don't waste your time on me you're already
the voice inside my head (I miss you, miss you)
Don't waste your time on me you're already
the voice inside my head (I miss you, miss you)
don't waste your time on me you're already
the voice inside my head (I miss you, miss you)
(I miss you, miss you)
(I miss you, miss you)
(I miss you, miss you)
(I miss you, miss you)
To make a long story short,I'd say he misses her.
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My birthday is on Nov. 2nd. and my b/f's b-day is on Nov. 4th. so should we celebrate it on Nov. 3rd? Or have 2 seperate celebrations? What would you do? (link)
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Have one big one on neither day. November 2nd is a Tuesday and the 4th is a Thursday. Have it on the 6th.
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i had unprotected sex with my bf..and then like a week later i got my period...but i got my period like 2 weeks early....what does this mean?? i dont think im pregnant...am i? (link)
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No,you got lucky and you're not pregnant THIS time. Don't pull this shit again.
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heii kevin u seem 2 give really good advice and u seem very sweet!! (link)
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Thanks. Glad somebody noticed.
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About two months ago, my boyfriend of 8 months bought me a beautiful diamond promise ring and about a week ago, I lost it... I just woke up one morning and found it missing from my finger. I searched my entire house, top to bottom. I even rented a metal detector to try and find it. I feel terrible about losing it. I know it must have cost him a fortune. I haven't told him that I've lost it yet. He just noticed I wasn't wearing it yesterday and asked me where it was. I didn't know how to tell him so I said I was cleaning it. My question for you guys is: how should I go about telling him that I lost it? I know he'll be upset with me no matter how I word it but any advice/suggestions would be helpful. (link)
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You messed up BIG TIME. You need to be honest and say you lost it and that you really feel bad about it. Tell him that you went to great lengths to look for it and you just couldn't find it. There's really no good way to say it,so the clear cut way is best.
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hey tomorrow nite im goin to the movies wit my bf what should i c???any suggetions??? (link)
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Collateral with Tom Cruise and Jamie Foxx. The Village isn't about monsters,it's more about a gay ass love story and the monsters aren't even fuckin real. To all the people that wanted to see it,I just saved you 8 bucks a piece.
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So do you have a g/f.. do you do long distance? (link)
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No I don't have a girlfriend and I don't do long distance. You can't have a relationship if you can't see the person. You owe yourself and the other person more than that.
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can your cherry pop when you're doing a split? (link)
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It's possible,but that'd have to be one hell of a split.
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what does pop your cherry mean i rate lol (link)
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This means that your hymen has been broken.
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My parents are both very picky and will argue about anything!!! Yesterday i was bathing my hamster in the sink and he got away! I had to up all the doors with towels and the whole place was a mess. And he was scared so he left behind droppings! And this was in my parents bathroom too. So, i cleaned it all up and now i see that my parents are fighting so, i take my hamster back to his cage and i had already cleaned up the droppings but i didn't put all the towels and soaps and washcloths away. My mom walks into the bathroom... and then she blames my dad for the mess. I have caused a huge problem. And i can't even try to tell her it was me cause they locked themselves in their room and they sitting there yelling and bickering at each other. I feel terrible because it was not my dad's fault and he is getting the blame! Help!!! (link)
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There's more to their arguing than this hampster. There's something deeper here,like money problems,one of them having an affair,their parental differences,or anything married couples fight about. Ask them why they're fightig and it upsets you when they're constantly at each other's throats. You may get a "It's none of your business."
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okay... i've been pondering this for a very long time now... say that you've been going out with a guy for a while and he's a year older than you... say when you met you were 16 and he was 17... when he turns 18 and you're 17 and you have sex... why would it be illegal? i mean it's not like he's 32 and you're 17... i really don't see anything wrong with that... also if you've had sex with the guy before like while you were 16 and he was 17 it would seem really stupid to not have sex for a year until the other person becomes legal... i'm sorry if this is confusing but i've always wondered (link)
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It is illegal my dear for the simple fact that he is 18 and you are not. The law has many bullshit rules to it(speeding,any sex besides actual is illegal in louisiana,meaning no oral,anal,etc,. The law views you as underage and he as taking advantage of you,even if he is not. It's a stupid law but I'm just trying to save your guy some jail time. And he'd have to register as a sex offender. When you're 18,you can do a lot of things a 17 year old can't do. Voting,ordering Girls Gone Wild videos,buying porn,and finally cigarettes. I only do the first but thats not the point.
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