HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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Hey guys, I need color suggestions for eyeliner and eye shadow. I have brown hair and brown eyes, I'm somewhat tan from summer, but that's it. Can someone give me suggestions on what colors would look best and what kinds of make-up brands are of the best quality? Thanks :] (link)
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For the eyeliner you can use black or plum(dark purple) If you want your eyes to look smaller apply it on the top of your bottom eyelashes and if you want your eyes bigger then apply it on the bottom of your bottom eyelashes.Since you got tan then you can have a golden shade on your bottom eyelid and on the top have white...that would make your eyes nice and will match your skin tone.Or you can have black eyeliner on top and silver eyeshadow.That would give you a goddes like impression.The brands that are really good for makeup are christian dior,lancome,chanel and M.A.C. OH and forgot to mention that if you put a light purple eyeshadow and a darker purple on top of it i think itll be the most thing thatll match you
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how can you get rid of eye puffiness(underneath) when you dont get enough sleep. that i can use at home without buying anything.
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Put wet tea bags under your eyes for 15-20 min a day till you see the results.Should work great,it worked with me.
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whats the diffrence between a girl and guy flirting ...how do girls flirt and how do guys flirt?and how do you kno when they are because they say that they look in your eyes but i look in everyones eyes wen i talk its not like im going to look at their nose..so how do you know? (link)
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Theres a big difference.There are two ways that a girl can flirt.She can be really shy and talks in a sweet tone and twirls her hair and doesnt make eye contact too much or she can be outgoing and be giving eyecontact the whole time and touches his arm at times and laughs out loudly.GUYS also have two ways of flirting....they start asking a hell lotta questions about you and check you out in your face and compliment you at times.He could sometimes also be staring at your lips alot.He starts acting weird to make you laugh.These are all signs of flirting.
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I really want a new look. This is what I look like now ;; http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/sexiigurl94/zzzzzzzzzz.jpg If you can't see it, I have light brown hair and blue eyes. I'm about 106 pounds and 5`3. I really want to get blonde high lights. Do you think that would look pretty? Also, I want to keep my hair medium length like 2 inches past my shoulders, but I don't know what hair style to get. Any ideas? I have side bangs right now but I'm getting sick of them. Also, what make up would look good on me. What would really make my eyes stand out and look bigger? I just really want a new look. I want to bring out all of my best features so if you guys were to give me a make over what would you do? Haha, anything that is really specific will help. I don't want "go to a hair dresser" because I need specific ideas so I know what to do. Please help. (link)
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I dont think blonde highlights would look good on you.It will make you look a lot older and just doenst match your skintone at all.Hmmmm...if i were to give you a makeover(since you want a new look) I would say that you get highlights that are a little darker than your hair color like a darker brown(but no too dark) that would make you look great and natural.Red highlights would also match you very much.But not blonde,besides you want your look to be NEW,everyones doing blonde! About the makeup...eyeliner is DEFINETLY what you need.Black would look best on you...if you want your eyes to look bigger,apply eyeliner on the BOTTOM of your bottom eyelashes(draw it out right under ur bottom lashes)if you apply eyeliner on the top of your bottom lashes itll make your eyes smaller.Use pencil eyeliner instead of liquid,liquid is too messy.You can also try putting concealer the same color as your skin tone on your eyelids and then put a peach color on your bottom lid and on the top put a darker peache or light brown.You might also want to get your brows done.Tweeze them yourself.You need to remove the extra thin hairs youve got in the middle thats between your two eyebrows.You can put on pink(light pink)lipstick...not too thick with a transparent color lipgloss....or go for the peache color lipgloss...this is what matches you
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My boyfriend is 16 and I am 13, I know that is kind of a big age difference but he's alot more mature. I'm really afraid to go to the movies with him and stuff because I don't want him to try to make a move. I'll make out with him and stuff, but he might try to reach down my pants, and I'm soo NOT ready for that. How do I tell him that without sounding like a prude? He's had sex before so I told him that I'm not gunna have sex with him. This was his answer: "i dont care I dont want sex either I just want a beautiful aka you." So does it seem like he's after sex? And I'm really scared to talk to him on the phone so when he asked me to call him I said my phone is lost which it reallly isn't. I feel guilty, but my parents don't want me talking to boys. Haha, if I do go to the movies with him, should I bring a friend? (link)
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If he tries to make a move slap him and walk out!Dont let him have a bad idea that girls are sluts.Show him that your not ready yet.Youve already TOLD him not to make a move,if he does it means that hes using you to get into your pants and doesnt relly like you BUT likes your body.NO dont bring a freind with you,let this sorta be a TEST for him,to see if he really respects your opinion or not.If he doesnt like i said slap him and dont ever go back to this guy unless you wanna get PREGNANT!
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15/f
haha okay so the headline is kinda weird right. Well i have a problem see cause a little over three months ago (in the beginning of may) i hung out with my friends that brought this guy along who i had no idea who he was (his names austin) okay so we went to see a movie and austin kinda gave me peks on my lips and cheek 3 times total and he asked me if i wanted to 'hookup' wiht him i told him no cause i only knew him for an hour and a half and im not a relationship type girl kinda of like a flirtatious swinging girl (not slut or anything like that). Since then (i haven't seen him since) he's just been so obsssed with me and he's been telling me friends that and everything and he wants to hangout only A. i feel weird if i hang out with a guy (alone) when im only 15 B. there are 2 other guys i like better then him C. he looks so young for his age like 12 and its really awkward (i dont mean to be judgemental but it just looks like he hasn't even been through puberty yet and he's like a year older then i am) D. i told him i have a really busy summer (cause i seriously do) and i don't know wht to do cause i don;t really want to be in a relationship with him since he likes me and i dont really like him and i don't think he will listen if i tell him "hey back off" (link)
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Since youve done all that and he still dont back off then tell it to him the harsh way...."GET the point i dont like you and dont want to be with you!!You barely even know me!!You only got to see me for an hour or something!!"If you dont then hell just keep having hope that one day youll give in.
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ok well i was wondering what color eye shadow would really bring out my eyes.. make em "pop" & just be bright. my eyes are round and kind of a denim/dark blue.. blonde hair & kinda light/average skin.
ok well picture::: http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b235/xo_kristin/PICT1718.jpg
my skins a lil darker than that now tho if that helps! thx! (link)
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I saw your pic and would say that on your lower eye lid you should have silver or gray and on top of that should be white.Itll look great on you or you can try putting light blue on your lower lid and white on top.I also think that if you put concealer on your eyelids that is the same color as your skin tone and then on your lower lid put peache color(a lil darker than your skin tone)and on top put a darker peache or even a reallly light brown(WITH EYELINER to make your eyes stand out)
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OK, So I've read a article about not douching. It says that it takes longer for women to get pregnant and even when they do they have a higher chance of having a etopic pregnancy. Also it stated that you can get bacterial vaginosis (Kind of like a yeast infection) easier. This sucks after reading it because I ahve always douched. I don't ever FEEL clean until I do. Which is once a week or week and a 1/2. Can I empty the contents of the bottle and just use water? Is that any less harmful or about the same? (link)
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Well i think you shouldnt beleive that article you read,not everything you read is true.How can douching be dangerous?Youre cleaning yourself and removing bacteria.If you dont clean down there then itll smell bad and it could get you infections.Its not dangerous to douche im 100% sure.I do that all the time.
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i've had the same hair style for a really long time it's short and brown. the back of my hair is a little longer than the front and i have a long side swept fringe. i really want to cut and spike my hair (not too short!) i also want maybe dye it dark brown or black. i have looked all over the internet and can't find any good pictures of hair like that to show my stylist. can anyone send me some links with picture(s) to match my description??? i have a round face, high cheekbones, hazel/green eyes, almond shaped eyes. and a light olive skin tone... (and a bit of a big head).... if that helps at all. i'm a good girl on the outside but i want the dirt in me to come out. (link)
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If youve got a big forhead than you should cut your bangs short to cover you forhead.I think if you do red highlights youd look great,itd match your skin tone,if you do blonde itd look bad cuz itd make you darker.ANyway check this website out www.beautifulhairstyles.com
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Hi!I'm 27 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. We have been planning to settle down in the near future but we were just waiting for him to finish law school. Some time last week, he told me he wanted to break up with me because he's been going thru a lot of pressure with his studies. I told him that I understand and that I'm willing to wait for him. I said I wanted to fight for our relationship cuz I love him so much. Then he confessed... He got a girl pregnant from a "One Night Stand" he had a couple of months ago. I asked him if it was an affair and if he loved the girl. He said he didn't and doesn't have plans of marrying the girl. I was just thinking, had it not been for the girl getting pregnant, then I wouldn't have found out that he cheated on me. Please advice on what I should do. I love him so much but I don't know if it would be right to stay with him knowing that I might not be able to give him my full trust anymore. He's not only my boyfriend but he's also my best friend. I need your advice cuz I can't think clearly now. Thanks! (link)
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You cant let him cheat on you and do NOTHING about it!Who cares if you love him.If i loved a guy that said to me that hes stressed that he cheated on me and got a girl PREGNANT i woulda kicked his ass.You KNOW hes going to have to take care of this kid dont you.I think you should just let it all out in his face.How would he feel if you were pregnant by another dude?I believe in the sentence "once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater.If you let him off this time who KNOWS?Mabey hell do it again and be all like ...she dont care anyway.
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sorry if this is in the wrong category but i'm kinda worried cuz my period is 8 week late .. i'm 13 && first got it 2 years ago .. i kno it's not normal soo is that like bad or something? Last time i had it was June 17 which was like 2 months ago! && it still hasn't come. Any advice? thanks! (link)
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There are many reasons why you might not have your period now....1)sex 2)stress or feeling depressed 3)your horomones are just constantly changing which one do you think it is?if youre not depressed or had sex then its ok your horomones are at change.
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i gave someone head and i recently got sick, fever sore throat and now i have swollen glands and gums and my tounge is sore and the top of my mouth too.. theres nothing involving head in that right, my mother told me its called fever blisters.
plus my boyfriend has never done anything with anyone else besides me , and i havent with annyone else , his family has no history .. (link)
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This can be serious so i suggest that you go to a doctor cuz noones gonna know or advice you as much as the doctor will.Did YOU ever do anything with anyone eles but him?Mabey THATs why youre tired right now.
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My friend cuts and she hasnt exactly told me or our other 2 friends about it..but she told our friend morgan and she knows and morgan has been telling me about it and stuff. Its getting bad and we all are about to go sit down and talk about it..can you suggest a good way to bring it up? anything to be sure to say? anything to make sure we DONT say? please help...i really wanna help her and its a tough subject......
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Well if she knows that morgan tells you guys then she obviously wants help and wanst to tell you guys but just cant.Just be sitting with her one day and ask her Do you cut yourself?get to the point you know.shell probably say yes and if she gets all mad that morgan told you then she just wants attention.She can get serious skin disease and cutting wont help solve her problems.She can kill herself like that one day.God created her and everyone for a reason so why should she do this to herself?
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15.f
Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..
But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?
What do you think?
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When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active
Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!
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Dont worry.Its very hard to get pregnant through clothes,almost impossible.His sperm has to go up you.And what was in your underwear was probably a discharge so dont worry.People usually discharge a week or so before their periods.
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I'm 14/F and I haven't started my period yet!?! I have pubic hair discharge and occasional cramps my bust size is small but I take after my dads side which my mom says are "late bloomers". I have no arm pit hair but my mom says that it may not come till after I start anyway. So I was wondering why I haven't started yet and if anyone will know if I will start soon like when I'm a freshman or whatever
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Dont worry youll get it.Getting your period starts from ages 9-17 so dont worry.Youve already gotten pubic hair and you get discharges which means youre probably gonna get it soon.Since your mom was a late bloomer than you probably inhereted that from her.
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so lets say someone has a dildo, right?
and they have an std
if they use it
and then like a couple months later
use it on someone else
will that other peson get the STD? (link)
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definetly.Even if you wait for a couple of months,some viruses just dont go away.Its very possible for that person to get STD's especially is hes already done it before,thatll make the chances even higher.
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Is it possable to seperate sex from love and feelings. I really love this guy alot he is my ex boyfriend and i want to have sex with him but i never have because he broke up with me. I want to have sex with him but im afraid that if i do i will only fall for him more and it will only hurt me more (link)
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Its very possible to be able to seperate sex from love but not all people know how to do that.I think that since you already broke up with him and didnt get back that you shouldnt have sex with him because it will only lead you to liking him MORE and he might not even want to go back to you after you did it with him.Mostly guys know how to seperate between love and sex so make sure you get his emotionall side first or youll end up sleepin with him when he doesnt even like you
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I know that when anorexic girls, or even guys for that matter, look in the mirror they see that they're large even though they might be smaller than a double zero. But, do they see that when they look at others as well? I mean, when they're walking down the street and see a girl that's like a size three, which is still small, do they think *she needs to stop eating*? Or is that just when they look at themselves?
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No they dont think others that are skinny are fat,they lack confidence and think that nomatter how much skinnier they get they will ALWAYS be fat....vomiting what you eat can lead you to being anorexic by the way.
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i'm a female, 15. and i have some girl friends around my same age that have already lost their virginity. me and my boyfriend almost had sex too but i said no.. but i think the only reason was because i know he's had sex before w/ this other girl and that kind of made me uncomfortable for different reasons. how do i know when i'm completely ready for sex? and how long is a good time to wait to have sex with my boyfriend? and is 15 way to young to lose your virginity? and wow that was a lot of questions :) haha thanks. (link)
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I think it is young because at your age your personality is still being built and something like this could affect you and you can regret it later and even feel depressed that youve even had sex.I think you should wait till youre older and think about the consenquences to everything,Make sure when you ever do it with a guy thats done it before to use protection because you wont be able to stand the fact that you have STD's.
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I like this guy and he likes me. We kind have thing with eachother. The problem is everytime my bestfriend finds out we hang out she gets mad and we end up in an argument. This is the second time now. It kills me to fight with her but i love this guy. What do I do...do i go for the guy and risk losing her as a friend??
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Honestly in my opinion id totally forget about the guy.He will never be there for you as much as a freind and you might even end up breaking up with him and that way youll lose your freind AND boyfreind.Forget about him and stay with your freind,noobosyd worth making you lose your freind Youre still going to meet pleanty of guys in your life and true freinds get harder to find as the years pass.
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