I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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ok so i really really really like this guy its been for a bout a yr now.... we are just friends right now but hes so cute and i want to be his girlfriend... but like he wont ask me out so like what are the signs that i can give him to show him i like himm. my friend told him i liked him allready but should i go tell him? any advice would be helpful thanks i will rate (link)
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you should definitly tell him because even signs wont help him because sometimes you try so hard to make sure he gets the signs but they come out wrong so then he takes it the wrong way so instead just tell him how you feel and he can go on from there. good luck:)
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alright well to start of i'm 15, 5'3", female, and weigh about 145 pounds.
i really want to loose weight. i am currently a size 5 or 7 in jeans, in hollister jeans, and i want to go back to being 3 or even a 1 but thats just hopeful wishing. i am athletic, i play soccer just about year round, and participate the most in my P.E. class. i go to the gym maybe 3 times a week, but it differs.
my biggest problem is the way i eat. i have a really bad eating habbit. i eat alot, but just as much as any other 15 year old, but alot of the time its junk food. this is my usual diet on a school day.
poptart for breakfast + glass of milk
whatever school lunch is + chocolate milk (my lunch is at 1030 in the morning)
after school i usualy have some kind of snack, sometimes chicken nuggest, or cookie, or eggs or something.
and then whatever my mom makes for dinner.
its really bad and i've tried so many times to try to get into the habbit of eating better because i know once i start to do it and stick with it for awhile, i can stay with it and i know i can loose weight fast because i have a fast metablism. anyone know how i can start getting into a better habbit? (link)
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well your breakfast and lunch isnt bad but your afterschool snack is try not having anything heavy when you get home from school try eating some fruits or a salad or even some veggies and dip the more of that stuff you have the easier it will be to lose wieght and also get into better eating habits.
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hi everyone. i know its not right to spy on one's girlfriend but somehow i was prompted to spy on mine. a guy wrote on her facebook wall, what was obviously a response to something she had written to him. I dont see what she wrote to him, when i check her facebook wall. then i created a false female facebook account with a random photo of a pretty girl, with which i invited the guy. the guy accepted the invitation and so i could access his profile. through his profile, i accessed my girl's account, and then i saw the message she had written to the guy on her wall. hope this is not too complicated. My question is, did she do some stealth setting to prevent me from seeing what she wrote on the guy's wall? if so, how could she have done that?
am just curious to know if she has a tendency to cheat on me; she told me she had told the guy she's got a man and that i dont like the idea of her meeting another man, like he had requested to meet her in person even if its only to be friends. (link)
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ya she could have blocked you theres a certain program on facebook that allows you to block certain things from people but you werent the only one who wasnt able to see it other people on her list probably werent either so there is such a thing maybe you should talk to her about it not the whole spying on her thing but just talk to her about this guy and tell her how it makes you feel im sure she will understand.
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Well I just parted ways with a very amazing guy. We dated for two months, everything was perfect. I liked him more and more with each day (which never happened for me before, I usually stop liking the guy as soon as he likes me back). We have fooled around two or three times. I broke it off with him because he is 6 years older than me, and I'm 17, and I knew I was going to get hurt in the end because we are at such different points in our lives, its inevitable we would have parted ways eventually anyways. Also, I didn't want him to get in trouble, because things were getting very serious. And if anyone were to find out what we did he would be in severe trouble for that.
This happened yesterday, all of a sudden. It was a gut feeling I had to go with. He understand completely and said it was a good choice and he's glad I did that. I'm glad, too, in a way, but I'm just so sad now. The semester ends in less than a week, so I will only see him once again, and then that's it, he will be out of my life forever. And I'm really sad now as I think of what could have been between us.
I guess I just need a pep talk. Don't bash the guy please because he is an amazing person, he's not a creep for liking a minor, and I initiated a lot of the sexual things we have done. Oh, and the relationship was much more spiritual then physical. Oh, and I'm turning 18 in March, in case you needed to know. (link)
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I think its great that you met such a good guy in your life but you need to understand that if you went out with him longer he could have gotten in trouble but now that youve ended it you can move on im sure there is someone out there just as good as him and your going to love him and care for him more and hes gonna do the same for you so dont be sad just give it some time things will get better eventually.:)
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What is codependent?? (link)
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pertaining to a relationship in which one person is physically or psychologically addicted, as to alcohol or gambling, and the other person is psychologically dependent on the first in an unhealthy way
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17/f
Soo.. I don't have a date for grad - yet anyways. I know I'm attractive and all but I don't have many guy friends and I'm guessing most people would assume I already have one. I don't really care if I get one or not but I don't think I'd refuse if someone asked me. How can I make it evident that I don't have one yet without seeming desperate? There is only one guy I'd really want to go with, but I hardly know him and soo many girls are after him (and he probably won't be around for grad due to sports) so I don't have anyone in mind I'd like to ask to go with me. Thanks! (link)
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start hanging out wiht more guys talk to guys in your grade that are in your classes one of them will eventually ask you if you have a date or not once they start to realize how great you are or you could ask your friends to set you up with someone they know kind of like a blind date.
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i just editted a picture.
tell me what u think.
http://i38.tinypic.com/2hhqi4w.jpg
(yes that is me in it.) (link)
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thats an awesome picture you look great in it you have skills lol :)
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I'm trying to find out how to translate this phrase into latin: "Sometimes the truth hurts, and sometimes it feels real good"
Can anyone help??
Thanks! (link)
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interdum verum vulnero , quod interdum is sentio verus bonus
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Above. (link)
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take the bowl out so that she's only drinking from the waterbottle and eventually she will get use to it good luck:)
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ok so every weekend my friends and i just either go to the movies or someones house and the group has gotten smaller and smaller because we dont really have anymore fun with each other but i really dont want to lose this group. what are fun things to do on the weekends without alcohol, we've played apples to apples and taboo and that was fun but every weekend? so any fun ideas? (link)
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go shopping or have a spa day at one of your houses or have a sleepover you could even go bowling those type of things are often fun good luck:)
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sorry, I didnt know what this went under
but, I started breaking out
bad around my mouth, when I rarely even
get pimples. I just got over my period so that's not it,
my diet hasnt changed (if anything I eat better) my
face wash, makeup, or anything else hasnt changed.
I was just wondering if anyone had an idea why this
is happening, thanks. oh and I smoked squares Saturday
for the first time in a few months, if that contributes? Idk
15/f (link)
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it often happens because your face gets too oily from the makeup and stuff and face wash doesnt really help it just makes it worse try proactive or try any of the clean and clear products they all work great the ones with the purple tops i think work best. good luck:)
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im breaking out alot recently on my chin and was wondering if anythings really good for that kind of area...im using proactiv and it works really good everywhere except the chin area...any advice? thanks! (link)
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try clean and clear any of there products will work but the ones with the purple tops work best.
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So there's this guy that I've recently started liking. He's in one of my classes but we've never really talked too much or been good friends. We were more like acquaintances but then he did some stuff that made me and my friend think if he could maybe like me.
Before I liked him my friend and I were in the lunch line and him and his friend come up and we all just start talking and at one point he just comes up and puts his arm around me and my friend. My friend told me later on that he didn't put his arm around her until after he put it around me and she thought that he only did that so she wouldn't feel left out or something but I don't know.
Last week, after I started liking him, I was walking to class with a friend and he was walking by himself in front of me and once my friend left to go to class he turned around and started walking backwards really slowly and started talking to me. But then one of his friends came up and they started talking so I went into class but then he comes up behind me and puts his arm around me and I put my arm around him and we hug. It was just really sweet and it totally made my day.
A few days later we were kinda talking a bit more here and there and after class I asked him for a hug and he gave me one. But then a couple days later my group of friends somehow ended up sitting with his group of friends for lunch and he was kinda rude to me. The next day I saw him before school and I waved to him but he was really awkward about it like he didn't really want to but he wanna be rude or something. In class the next day he ended up grading my quiz and since he sits right by me he just turned around to give it to me and I said thank you but he just gave me a blank look. A little while later the teacher asks him to give me a piece of paper and he just kinda throws his hand back and kinda throws it to me in a really rude way but I said thank you anyway and he didn't even say anything.
So today I was expecting the same kind of treatment from him and I wasn't even planning on talking to him because I didn't like the way he's been acting. But when me and my friend were walking over to the building our class was in I saw him standing by the door just holding it for people as if he was waiting for someone and then he looked back and saw us and he kinda straightened up a bit. We walked through the door and my friend said thank you but I didn't say anything I just kept walking and I was kinda expecting him to stay by the door but he was walking behind us and he ended up walking next to me with my friend on my other side and they started talking a bit and I just piped in here and there and when my friend left to go to class we walked the rest of the way together and we were talking and laughing and he was just being really nice to me.
I don't get it! I mean one day he's so sweet to me and the next he's like ignoring me! What's up with this?! My friend says that he could like me since guys treat girls weird sometimes when they like them but I don't know! Why is he acting this way and how can I find out about how he really feels about me? (link)
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the only way to know is to ask him yourself from what youve said i think he likes you but i dont think your showing him enough signs of liking him and he might of gotten confused and just backed up you need to talk to him and get things straight so you can move on with your life.
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so theres this guy.
&& we were ALWAYS together.
we texted 24/7
we called eachother everynight.
many of his 'gal' friends came up to me quite a bit,
asking if we were going out.
all his friends had asked me atleast once if i asked him.
butt at the time i wasnt compleetly sure if i did or not so i said no.
butt he stopped calling.
so i called him one night.
butt he didnt answer.
he tried to blame it on the hurricane we recently had [ike]
he said his phones been messed up ever since.
we dont talk in the halls.
we dont hug eachother.
we even used to go to church..
we'd hold hands.
we'd use an occasional 'iloveyou'
butt now nothing.
its like he dropped me out of his life like i never meant anything to him. :/
any ideas? (link)
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Maybe since you never really oficially went out he moved on i dont think you will know unless you ask him and when you do make sure its in a way that doesnt make him uncomfortable and if you do really like him and want to be with him then you should tell him that and maybe you two well end up going out.
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My friend's grandma is really close to dying, and she is really upset about it because she has been through more than I can even describe and if I did it would take me a long time.. But I never know what to say to make her feel any better about it.. I usually just say I'm here for you and it'll all be okay and stuff along those lines but I don't know what to tell her.. Any suggestions? (link)
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just tell her that everything will be okay and that whatever happens you will always be there for her and that she can share anything with you.Make her feel comfortable so that if she needs a shoulder to cry on she can.
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I think I may have slight depression and I need advice. I find that in most events, I come home and feel like it could have been funner, I feel like I keep a lot of stuff inside(as you can see I'm on here) and I don't like myself half the time. I often think about hte past and what I could have done differently and I find it hard to relax and just have a good time when there are thigs that could get done. I also think that I may be developing an eating disorder. I don't eat a lot of meat, if I don't exercise at least every other day i get anxious, and I made myself puke once. ????help! (link)
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i think its more of an eating disorder then depression and i think you should tell your parents because an eating disorder is very serious and it will affect your life in a big way the best way to get rid of this problem is tell you parents and then get some proffessional help.
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ok so heres the deal, my twin sister hates me im almost sure of it, i moved in with my dad who is in a different state than my mom my sister came with me because of problems, she got pregnant. my older sister asked me to move back so i aske my twin for some input, she flat out said she didnt think i should go back because she didnt want me there. i told her that hurt me, bad, and i cried my self to sleep that night and havnt talked to her since.
my twin and i , by the way, have been close since birth, BFF and closer we talked about everything, and rarely faught, when she told me that she didnt want me around it took me way of guard because she gave no clue or hint that i was even remotely bugging her. she never apologized to me and now shes back living with my mom, not cause of me, and i read on her myspace that she is glad she's back home and from "her" which im assuming is me since i was the only her here that she had a problem with when she left.
what should i do, im stubborn just like everyone else in my family but i cant totaly forgive her unless she apologizes, am i at fault or is she or are we both at fault? (link)
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I dont think she meant what she said but sometimes being a twin is hard i should know i am one anyways the point is that being a twin isnt easy and sometimes always being together gets annoying and creates problems so just dont take it offensivly she just wants to be seperated because she likes it better when shes by herself because she's never had the oppurtunity to be alone because you have always been there i dont think you or her are at fault i think that you need a little seperation to live your life the way you want to and so just talk to her and tell her you understand whats happening and that your okay with it because you telling her that will make her want to talk to you more and open up and maybe one day when she feels its right she will ask you to come stay with her trust me as hard as it seems now things will get better if you need to talk about anything just message me ill be here to help.:)
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I got a baby guinea pig over the past weekend and she's acting strange and i don't know if it's normal, as in Should I take her to the vet?
She sneezes
she has "boogers" in her eyes ( gross i know)
she won't eat guinea pig food just hay and veggies
she barley drinks water ever
she shakes and grunts 24/7
is this good or bad please give me some advice (link)
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i think you should take her to the vet my friends guinea pig started doing that and it was a sign of it being sick so i think just to be on the safe side you should take her in and hear from a professional whats wrong.
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i need help does this guy like me he talks to me on myspace and he sends me messages and comments.. he smiles at me and like he talks to me. i asked him to go to the movies with me and he said when. does when mean no. ooh i asked him to go to a christmas party and he said he would but like he didnt he then wrote me and said he was sick. should i belive him or is he standing me up.. thanks (link)
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Ya he likes you if he talks to you all the time on myspace then it should be obvious to you and him saying when doesnt mean no he was just asking you when so he could make sure he wasnt doing anything else and as for him saying he was sick i think he was because if he talks to you and was interested in going to the movies with you then why would he leave you hangning like that trust me he likes you.
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I got my tragus pierced about a month ago..and i think its infected...its kinda red and it gets crusty all the time and sometime it bleeds....what should i do? i dont want to take it out (link)
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go to a doctor cause if it is infected the doctor will give you something to put on it to make it go away and you might not have to take it out at all i got mine done too and it got red and crusty too but it was because i put too much pressure on it i was always tryin to fix it cause it looked wierd and thats y so just go to a doctor and let them check wat it is .
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