My BFF's older brother (who just so happens to be a Senior) says he loves me alot. And i kind of like him too. So what I want to know is if it is cool to date your BFF's bro, or just say no?
He is like 4-5 years older than me.
Much Hearts,
DaAdvicePerson
If you like him and he likes you, it shoudln't matter. You might want to make sure it's okay with your bff though.
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ok so theres this guy we went out for a like 2 weeks. i really liked him. but then for a couple of days i felt that i didnt love him. and i kno he really loves me. but i broke up w/ him on monday. an tday idk but i think i like him again. my best friend hates him. idk what to do. whether just be friends w/ him or ask him back out.
Well, you need to think about if you really like him or not. If you do, you should ask him back out. But, if you're having doubts, asking him back out wouldn't be such a good idea.
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have any of you ever tried the makeup bare minerals? its $60 and my mom says its too much and i was wondering if its actually worth it though. and if you have, what kind of skin do you have? (like dry or acne or whatever)
I haven't tried it personally, but my mom got it for my sister in law who has someone dry skin, and she said it worked well, and she liked the way it brought out her features.
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I have no friends. It would be impossible to try and tell me to "try and make some friends." Because I've been trying for years. I've been part of so many groups of friends, but sooner or later they've done something horrible to me, so I change groups of friends. Now, there is noone left in the school that I haven't tried to be friends with. I hate Lunch. Because I'm thin, the people at my table call me anorexic. And I just find people in general, EVERYONE is annoying to me. So lately I've been eating in the bathroom because thats how much I hate everyone. I also eat in the bathroom and skip my classes and sit in the bathroom because somehow, in every single one of my classes, I sit next to someone who's sick, and I don't want to get sick because a.) whowants to be sick? b.) my mom won't let me stay home if I get sick and c.) I can't work out.
But thats only half of my problem. Today I came home and I started to talk to my mom about my problems at school, like usual. But then she flipped out and yelled, "Stop complaining! Maybe you should just kill yourself because thats the only solution!" And THEN she took away the thing I love most- my exercise bike. She said that I can only work out 1 hour a day every OTHER day. (For no apparent reason.) It may sound weird, but I love to work out. I live for it. It gives me self confidence, and its one of my only hobbies.
I have been depressed, and I've thought of killing myself before. But now that my mom actually sugguested that I should kill myself, it makes me feel even worse. Especially since I'm being punished (exercise bike being taken away) just for being depressed. Is there any advice you can give me to help me make it through?
P.S. Do not sugguest that I see a therapist, or I will rate you a 1. My mom would probably hit me across the face and ground me for 10 years if I even mentioned the idea of getting professional help. Also we can't afford it.
Oh wow, that's just cruel for her to even say that. If you have any other siblings, or another adult you know and trust, try talking to them. I wouldn't want to see a therapist either, so i know how you feel on that matter, so try talking to a school counselor. You may feel embarassed, but once you talk to someone, you`ll feel a lot better. Try going to school with a positive attitude, so people won't bring you down as much. I`ve been depressed a lot lately, and I've turned to writing my thoughts,feelings, and ideas in a blog or a diary. It helps get things off your chest so they won't stay bottled up inside. I don't know you, but killing yourself is not an option. I used to think he was, but even though your mom yelled at you, maybe she's stressed lately, so give her a second chance. I really hope things get better. I`m here if you need someone, and I`m sorry if I didn't help.
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Hi not sure if you can help just feels good to talk:) i'm 22 married and have 3 kids 3yr 2yr and 4 months. I have went thru alot in the past couple years, my 2 year old having heart surgery the day after she was born tops the list. But anyway i'm so busy I dont have any time I have got bigger and and just getting low selfesteem about my looks. I never needed makeup or anything whenI was younger so I have no clue how to even use it really lol. I'm not depressed or anything I love my kids more then anything but i'm gettting really self conscious about my appearnce now. any hlep will be appreciated to help me feel better about myself
Look at the postivie things in life, like you have amazing kids who are the highlight of your life, so just take them for walks and you can have fun, lose weight, and be with your kids. :]
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ok so this week im going to florida. and i found out the guy im going wiht is also!!! and his room is liek right next door to me!!! what do i do to get his attention?? with out like walking outside in my bra? lmao.
Don't be slutty or obvious.
Try asking him to go down to the beach or out for something to eat, and strike up a conversation. Try wearing something cute that shows off your figure. :]
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This guy I like told me he liked me the other day. This is there's this other girl he calls all the time, and talks to blah blah blah, but he won't admit it to me. He knows I dislike her, which makes me even more jealous that he talks to her. He always tells me they don't hang out or talk, but then people who hung out with them will confirm it for me.
I don't know what to do, confronting him doesn't seem to work. Should I act like I don't care? Or what should I do? I know I can't control him, we're not going out, but he did say he liked me..and he can't even be honest?
If he's not being honest, you won't want to start any kind of relationship with him. Honesty is the second best thing in a relationship besides communication. So, if confronting him doesn't work, try messaging him or writing him a note telling him you like him, but you don't trust him, and if he's lying to you, you would deffiently like to know beforehand.
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Clothing pretty good quality?
i know the style is somewhat like forever21's and delias, sort of.
But is the quality better? because.. i was not satisfied with forever21s.
I love wet seal. the shirts are thin sometimes, but i love them. theyre comfortable and the jeans are great.
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ok so like. i like this guy and well today my friend told him..again. lol and hes liek i dont believe it. and my friends liek what? and hes liek i dont believe it that she likes me. and shes liek but she does! and hes liek no she doesnt and shes like why do you think that? and hes like because she likes my friend "richie". ok. what do i do know?!? i dotn like richie i liek him!
Ha true, try getting to know him first and then talk to him more often, and then just come out and say it. Practie in front of your mirror or something. :]
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my mom is irrational and manipulative. if i even begin to make a point during one of our disagreements, she turns it around on me and starts crying. the littlest things get her upset. she can't even react normally. she mopes around all day and when i ask her why she's mad, she says "oh, i'm not mad, sweetie." and then cries or something equally retarded. how do i even go about dealing with her?
Awh, i know how you feel. Maybe something is bothering her, and she might feel awkward or she might feel like she could upset you if she tells you? I think you need to talk to another adult about this, to decipher if she needs to see a therapist. Whatever you do, don't upset her anymore, or at least try not to. I know it may seem hard, but just try not to. Try doing little things around the house, such as chores, so your mother isn't as stressed or overworked. I hope things get better & I hope you two can eventually sit down and talk about whatever is bothering you.
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I know how many people feel about witchcraft, wicca and voodoo and those people who are truly against it I don't want to hear from you I just want the people who have experimented with it to tell me more about it in detail. Anything you can tell me is helpful to me.
I`m into that stuff, but i've never like, experimented with it. All i can tell you is to try checking out some of these websites, and I hope you find what you're looking for.
http://www.calastrology.com/voodoo.html
or.
http://witchonthego.com/wicca101.html
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do yall think that a guy would find it weird if you sang to him? im talking about if they were goin out. thanks in advance.
Ha. Well, my boyfriend loves when i sing, so try it and see what happens. :]
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So at the beggining of the school year[sept-october] i had alot of acne. It wasn't like big oily whiteheads or alot of blackheads, more like alot of small raised bumps and then up until now my skin has been amazing, i can't complain at all. But now along my hair line the bumps are BACK, and now theres big red bumps of acne on my nose.
i own proacne,
i won neutrogena daily blackhead scrub
and its still there.
What can I do NOW to make it all go away ?
Try not eating a lot of sugar or caffeinated things, that triggers mine and a lot of my brothers. Wash your face every night and morning. Make sure you do it around your hair line, because i get them there too. =]
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do you know any good ways to masturbate for a 13 year old girl?
uhm. what do you mean by good?
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I am making a Sims 2 movie and some of the actors are children. is there any way i can make them not have to go to school? like a cheat or hack or something? Cause its really slowing me down because I have to wait for them to come home from school. Hehe i sound obsessed... but anyways i need to finish soon and I already use like athousand other cheats because I have to keep their motives up but I need a cheat fast if you have one! Thanks!
Just don't let them goto school.
It might bring their grade down, but let them goto school every once and awhile.
When the bus comes, just goto them and press the goto school option so it wont let them.
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Okay. So last semester, I met this boy in one of my classes; I'll call him "Josh". He is obnoxious and irritating and always high or drunk or a mixture of both. Somehow, we started hanging out, but then he got into alternate education for some reason or another, and I reconsidered what I was doing. Now he's back at school and in a class of mine this semester, and he won't leave me alone. I feel bad for avoiding and ignoring him, because there's really no logical reason for me to be so against him all of the sudden, but I just don't want to be around him. Plus, my friends act like he "likes" me, which only makes the situation worse.
How do I get him to leave me alone without hurting his feelings?
Calmly sit him down and tell him that you mean well and you just think you need to be around different people for the time being.
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i play soccer 24/7 and i take classes at a college and go to youth and all of that stuff..
im in a relationship with somebody now but i just cant seem to get over it..at all..
everytime i go to his myspace i cry or when i look at our past conversations or when i even think about him. we went through a lot together while in our relationship and even before it..ive known him for soooooo long. he said he eventually wants to talk when his gf calms down about it and i got upset and told him that i never wanna talk to him again. should i go with that and just push him out of my life completely or should i keep him in my life and suffer the hurt every day??
Awh, im so sorry. Soccer and the youth things are good for your heart, so just look forward to them. I know it's going to be hard to get over him, but try to rid him of your life, as much as you can, I know it's going to hurt, but try. If you need my email or screen name or myspace. I`ll be glad to help you through it. I know having someone to talk to helps, :].
youre welcome dear.
i hope all goes well.
let me know if you need my aim screen name.
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any suggeestions on how to lose weight in the theights and arms..will lifting weiths and weight training help?
15/f
Yes, for the arms try weight-lifting.
For the thighs, try sit ups, jogging, and other types of routines that stretch the muscle.
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most of my friends think that theyre fat and have very very low self esteem. they arent fat, but they are a little chubby and if they loose like five pounds i think they will feel better about themselves. i have never told any of them this. they starve themselves and skip means until me and my other friends convince them its how eating disorders start and they need to eat. if they excersized a little like dancing every weekend or somthing im sure theyd be fine. they eat an average amount of food. how can i help them lose the weight without damaging their self esteem? and howw can i help them feel better about themselves? and feel loved and that they dont need to change anything about themselves? should i just get them active? like all go to a dance class or somthing? we are all AMAZING dancers so anything involving dancing they would be very eager to do. i just want them to be content with who they are. and understand that nobody thinks of them differently because of their weight but also if it bothers them i want them to know im here to help them
any ideas? thank you soooo much!
Ha, my friend wanted to do the same to me. I have a very low self esteem and I'm a very negative person and she wanted to help me. She exercised with me, ate healthy with me, and was just there to give me the support I needed, and I'm sure that's what your friends need. Try convincing them that you`ll always be there, and I`m sure they'll feel better.
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i ahve a rope bracelet its gettin kinda nasty lookin how can i clean it ?
Just try soaking it in soap and warm water, and letting it air dry.
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