This guy I like told me he liked me the other day. This is there's this other girl he calls all the time, and talks to blah blah blah, but he won't admit it to me. He knows I dislike her, which makes me even more jealous that he talks to her. He always tells me they don't hang out or talk, but then people who hung out with them will confirm it for me.
I don't know what to do, confronting him doesn't seem to work. Should I act like I don't care? Or what should I do? I know I can't control him, we're not going out, but he did say he liked me..and he can't even be honest?
Xenolan answered Tuesday February 6 2007, 11:48 pm: It is not a problem that he is friends with girls besides you. It is a problem that he lies about it.
Bottom line is, he should not be lying to you, especially about women with whom he spends his time - even if there's "nothing going on". You describe him as a "guy I like", not a boyfriend. My suggestion is that you keep it that way. You don't want to date a dishonest person. Let this other girl have him. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
Annerszz_101 answered Tuesday February 6 2007, 9:59 pm: If he's not being honest, you won't want to start any kind of relationship with him. Honesty is the second best thing in a relationship besides communication. So, if confronting him doesn't work, try messaging him or writing him a note telling him you like him, but you don't trust him, and if he's lying to you, you would deffiently like to know beforehand. [ Annerszz_101's advice column | Ask Annerszz_101 A Question ]
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